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So your recently turned 15 sister... (pg. 5)
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| stevieboy32808 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
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You make 2 arguments. The established (live in your own, job, car, etc) vs non-established relationships will most likely never give you the time of day
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established vs established. Where one person is seeking fun and the other is looking to settle down due to the "ticking clock" as you say.
I understand the arguments posed, but you failed to come to a solid conclusion. In other words you're talking like a journalist where they only report the news but never their opinion on the situation. This is where I'm stuck with how I began. Let's remember that the people in Grrs' situation don't fit any of the profiles you mentioned because they are both non-established people. To sum up, could you please elaborate or come up with a conlusion? |
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| Theresa |
No harm in it I think.
Not to mention, if you were to kick her BF's ass, she would resent you for it. Obviously, she really likes the guy, so leave it be. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
say i'm 20 years old... i meet a girl that i like that's 24. what are the chances that i'm going to get the time of day? not very good...sure it happens, but on average that 24 year old girl is gonna think "oh too young" unless you really impress. |
anyone who judges someone based SOLELY on their age is obviously not going after relationships for the right reasons... so say you're 20 years old and you meet a girl who is 24. if you're at her maturity level and you 2 start talking, she'll see what kind of guy you are and judge for herself whether she thinks you're mature enough... age is really just a number. if a girl was interested in you, she would get to know you before she starts caring about how old you are.
the only problem i see with those specific ages is that some people might be weirded out if they can get into bars and their bf/gf can't...
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
at what point do you girls consider men to have a similar maturity level to women and don't say never like a dumb head |
i'm gonna be a dumb head and say... NEVER! :p
for real... i think maturity level is subjective. i've dated guys who were a year younger than me, all the way up to guys who were 11 years older than me... and i've noticed that their age had nothing to do with how mature they were. i think it really varies too greatly from person to person to say that at 'X' years old, men are equally mature to women.
i think it also depends on social situations too. people who have similar lifestyles might have similar maturity levels, despite being different ages.
i lol'd @ "lil' miss new boobs" :stongue: |
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| igottaknow |
the real source of problems like these are magazines like this:
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| Lepanto |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
No harm in it I think.
Not to mention, if you were to kick her BF's ass, she would resent you for it. Obviously, she really likes the guy, so leave it be. |
yeah obviously at her age she really knows what's good for and this is clearly not a cliche situation where they guy just wants ass and the girl is too naive to see through this :rolleyes: |
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| Psiweaver |
| i would get more information about the new guy if he is a douche kick his ass if he's a decent guy then don't kick his ass. |
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| Psiweaver |
| i would get more information about the new guy if he is a douche kick his ass if he's a decent guy then don't kick his ass. |
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| Arbiter |
The verdict is in:
Your sister is not a piece of your personal property. It is neither your right nor your responsibility to decide what relationships she ought to voluntarily engage in. Accordingly, off and mind your own business, you . |
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| Pariah Cleric |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
The verdict is in:
Your sister is not a piece of your personal property. It is neither your right nor your responsibility to decide what relationships she ought to voluntarily engage in. Accordingly, off and mind your own business, you . |
However, it is your responsibility as a decent member of your family to watch out for other family members. |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Pariah Cleric
However, it is your responsibility as a decent member of your family to watch out for other family members. |
Irrelevant to the situation at hand. Don't waste my time. |
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| Pariah Cleric |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Irrelevant to the situation at hand. Don't waste my time. |
How is it irrelevant, Captain Cynic? I believe we were talking about protecting his little sister from some douchnozzle. |
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| Lepanto |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
The verdict is in:
Your sister is not a piece of your personal property. It is neither your right nor your responsibility to decide what relationships she ought to voluntarily engage in. Accordingly, off and mind your own business, you . |
You know I'm a true believer of that whole let a person make their own mistakes and whatnot. However, seeing as how i've a friend who had a child when she was 15 turning 16 it made me realize (this was a few years ago but it actually hit me a few weeks ago in my human sexuality class) that it IS your responsibility to protect and guide your younger siblings and even freinds. Because people aren't born with this sort of thought process or knowledge. So, if you have a 15 year old sister who's going out with a 20 year old, just like many sluts (not calling anyone mentioned a slut especially the thread starter's sister) do, then it is your duty as a brother, and a member of a moral and civilized society to make sure no harm comes out of it.
and unfortunatly for your reasoning in these cases most of the time NOTHING GOOD COMES OUT OF IT! |
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