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help me c0re! legal advice needed... (pg. 6)
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| DJ RJT |
I will, without doubt, be giving Myra the $100 in cash NOT to sign the check should it come do to her not being able to get any cash for signing it. :)
Regardless of whether or not she's legally entitled to any money, she isn't in any way legally compelled to sign the check. He, on the other hand, is ranked among one of the worst individuals I have ever met in my life (And I knew this well before Myra and I ever even started dating), and for what he put her through last year, he deserves nothing but the worst that life can bring to him, in my opinion. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
the use of co-signators is a negative entitlement. That means they only get action on failure of primary signator. It doesnt entitle them to the money from the loan. |
maybe if it's like me with my parents on a car loan...but this is a spouse. the condo is in both their names jointly...they entered into this as a couple... |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
That true, but it isnt the decent thing to do. Its always nice to walk away from a situation knowing you handled it with grace. This guy sounds like he probably has a bad life, why make it worse? |
You weren't there, you don't know him, and you didn't see how he decided to deal with things with Myra.
The guy doesn't deserve the sweat from my balls. :toothless |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
why should he get any grace from myra...she is doing him a favor by signing it after he treated her like ...i say get your cut or don't sign it! |
Being decent to people isnt dependant on their action I think...seriously, think about how bad of a life this guy has. He treats women like , has no fulfillment or joy...no love...now he cant even get 200 dollars thats his. How miserable. Enjoying someone in pain is called sadism and thats not a very nice trait. Id say some compassion would be a more noble thing to do. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Being decent to people isnt dependant on their action I think...seriously, think about how bad of a life this guy has. He treats women like , has no fulfillment or joy...no love...now he cant even get 200 dollars thats his. How miserable. Enjoying someone in pain is called sadism and thats not a very nice trait. Id say some compassion would be a more noble thing to do. |
How do you feel about the Golden Rule?
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
How do you feel about the Golden Rule?
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do unto others as you would have others do unto you?
I think its pretty good. It isnt an eye for an eye hehe. |
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| MarkT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
That true, but it isnt the decent thing to do. Its always nice to walk away from a situation knowing you handled it with grace. This guy sounds like he probably has a bad life, why make it worse? |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
...we had a pretty ed up break up and he basically kicked me out of the condo before i could move into my apartment and i was homeless for a few weeks, which really ed me over financially for a while. i haven't talked to him in 8 months and we're not friends anymore... |
'nuff said...I stand by my "f him, let him figure it out" advice! |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
do unto others as you would have others do unto you?
I think its pretty good. It isnt an eye for an eye hehe. |
It should be. ;) |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
He, on the other hand, is ranked among one of the worst individuals I have ever met in my life (And I knew this well before Myra and I ever even started dating), and for what he put her through last year, he deserves nothing but the worst that life can bring to him, in my opinion. |
quoted for truth.
i might have broken his heart but he was a total ing jerk.
so... don't send teh letter? is the best idea to just ignore the situation completely? |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
so... don't send teh letter? is the best idea to just ignore the situation completely? |
I still stand by my original advice. If it isn't going to happen, him. I've got a $100.
:toothless |
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| DJ RJT |
| Plus, I'll buy you steak tonight if you want. |
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| Orbax |
| Im just some dude in Seattle, but Id just do the transaction via mail and then forget about it. |
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