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help me c0re! legal advice needed... (pg. 7)
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| Floorfiller |
i'd send him an email back just saying something to the effect that. you'd be more than happy to sign the check, but that you would like half of it since you bought the condo together. he could just give you cash when you meet to sign it so they don't have to worry about it later.
if he responds basically saying that well no the money is mine bla bla...you don't deserve any of it.
well then i would just politely say something about how you don't want to sign the check. don't make any sort of altimatums...but just that you changed your mind and you'd rather not see him again... |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Im just some dude in Seattle, but Id just do the transaction via mail and then forget about it. |
Walker, you're a nice kid who I think has a very solid ethical compass.
Mine isn't as finely tuned as yours. ;) |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
Plus, I'll buy you steak tonight if you want. |
lol i'll take your steak but i won't take your money. :p
i can be happy with the fact that he won't get the $200... i won't have to worry about the situation and i won't have to talk to him ever again. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
i'd send him an email back just saying something to the effect that. you'd be more than happy to sign the check, but that you would like half of it. he could just give you cash when you meet to sign it so they don't have to worry about it later.
if he responds basically saying that well no the money is mine bla bla...you don't deserve any of it.
well then i would just politely say something about how you don't want to sign the check. don't make any sort of altimatums...but just that you changed your mind and you'd rather not see him again... |
Sound advice. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
he could just give you cash when you meet to sign it so they don't have to worry about it later.
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I'm fairly sure that her intent is never to have to deal with him in person (edit; or at all) again.
He's really quite unstable. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
I'm fairly sure that her intent is never to have to deal with him in person again.
He's really quite unstable. |
well you know what i mean though....don't sign it unless you're getting half of it right then and there haha :p
ps. you know i value your imput walker...i'm just arguing for the home team hehe...so i wasn't attacking you or anything on this one :p |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
well you know what i mean though....don't sign it unless you're getting half of it right then and there haha :p |
I have fun when you and I pick apart each others posts Jason.
It's one of the most engaging things there is to do on TA anymore.
:) |
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| Orbax |
| I just know that its rewarding to finish things up in life and to look back, like I said, knowing that you handled it like a champion. I think it might benefit Myra as well to disassociate herself further by treating him well where he would not treat her well. |
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| Floorfiller |
| yeah it's cool to treat people right, but personally...i'm not that gracious i guess haha. i'm a bad person haha :p |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
yeah it's cool to treat people right, but personally...i'm not that gracious i guess haha. i'm a bad person haha :p |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Being decent to people isnt dependant on their action I think...seriously, think about how bad of a life this guy has. He treats women like , has no fulfillment or joy...no love...now he cant even get 200 dollars thats his. How miserable. Enjoying someone in pain is called sadism and thats not a very nice trait. Id say some compassion would be a more noble thing to do. |
Well gee Orbax...why you always asking me to explain forgiveness and all that rot? Clearly you already have a good enough understanding of it! :D |
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| RapidFire |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
I just know that its rewarding to finish things up in life and to look back, like I said, knowing that you handled it like a champion. I think it might benefit Myra as well to disassociate herself further by treating him well where he would not treat her well. |
it may also be a sign of weakness on her part. and thats how people get abused. I say show him you have the confidence to stand up for yourself after what he did to you. its the only way people like him learn... |
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