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Best way to talk to a girl?
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| Spirit5 |
| Okay I suck at talking to girls...i'll admit. I'm wanting to know what people think is the best way to go up to a girl? I can only talk to a girl if it's in the right situation, like working on something in a class, or if she is looking at me (smiling) and I feel obliged to introduce myself and get her number. I'm terrible with just going up to a girl, I have no idea what to say sometimes...and I come across as a complete loser... |
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| lücid |
pretend the girl you're talking to is your mom. like, not actually your mom... but talk to her the way you'd talk to your mom. boys always talk nicely to their mothers (well, mostly) and you shouldn't feel shy or uncomfortable when talking to your mom.
this is a serious post. |
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| Orbax |
| your mouth. Although drinking works well too but thats kind of your mouth too |
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| jonSun |
| Next time you masterbate, save it. And next time in class when the girl looks at you & smiles, throw it at her. |
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| Orbax |
| MASTURBATE YOU TROGLODYTE |
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| dallastar |
Courting female date
There are different courting styles, which reflect guys’ personalities. Let’s look at some of them.
1. Short absences (for 5-7 days). A very popular technique when after active courtship you would stop calling her and disappear for a week. Having got used to your attention, the woman will inevitably start missing you. She will be bewildered and intrigued, as she does not know the reason why you have become unavailable. After you show up again she will likely get more affectionate.
2. Courting her friend. If the woman of your dreams does not show any interest in you, you can change the score in your favor by letting her know that you fancy one of her friends. Then her friends will start talking about you and it will stir up her vanity and increase your rating. She will want to show her friends that she is attractive and she can get you pay attention to her. She will also think that if others are talking about you, then it’s worth getting to know you better.
3. Looking for mediators. You can spill the beans about how much you like her to your mutual friends and in not time she will know about it. The sympathy of her friends towards you might get you extra points.
4. Bait. Bring flowers or small gifts to her every time you go out with her. This way you will tame her and she will develop a conditional reflex – your presence will be associated with something positive.
5. Admiration. Every woman is dreaming of being admired. This method is similar to the previous one, but here you place more emphasis on compliments and romance, rather then actual presents. Spice her life with admiration she has been looking forward to since junior kindergarten. A little surprise will take you a long way. Get her into the car and drive to some nice place to watch the sunset. Trample out her name in the snow under her windows or write her a poem. Genuinely compliment her on her clothes, the way she walks, talks, cooks – anything. Get out together to wish upon stars, enjoy the first snow or dance in the summer rain. Take her on a trip she has always been dreaming of. For a woman all these little moments seem very important and meaningful. Courtship in her eyes is a process when a man reminds her of how much happiness she brings into his life. This technique might work even better than the bait method, or you can combine both. |
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| tc-fan |
be yourself and make the girl laugh..they love humor..and be nice to them. Then when you got her in your grasp treat her like an cause women (most of them i guess) love men to treat them like s.
Women is like a condom, they are either on your dick or in your wallet. |
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| Spirit5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
pretend the girl you're talking to is your mom. like, not actually your mom... but talk to her the way you'd talk to your mom. boys always talk nicely to their mothers (well, mostly) and you shouldn't feel shy or uncomfortable when talking to your mom.
this is a serious post. |
Thanks, but I knew this wasn't going to turn into a serious discussion. Haha I actually was looking for some serious advice but I'm sure that's not going to happen...I just suck with just going up to girls and talking to them...I get really nervous and make an ass of myself, so I just wait for those certain times when it looks like she wants my attention (i.e. smiling). |
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| UWM |
[igk humor]
Put on a dress and look in the mirror :haha: :haha:
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| Ry Diggs |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
[igk humor]
Put on a dress and look in the mirror :haha: :haha:
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hahahahaha
"soooooo..........." |
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| Spirit5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by tc-fan
be yourself and make the girl laugh..they love humor..and be nice to them. Then when you got her in your grasp treat her like an cause women (most of them i guess) love men to treat them like s.
Women is like a condom, they are either on your dick or in your wallet. |
My problem is that many girls i've met don't seem to like nice guys. I mean I use humor, I am nice..I am myself but I seem to attract these girls who turn out to be seriously messed up in the head...it's like i'm cursed... |
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| tc-fan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spirit5
Thanks, but I knew this wasn't going to turn into a serious discussion. Haha I actually was looking for some serious advice but I'm sure that's not going to happen...I just suck with just going up to girls and talking to them...I get really nervous and make an ass of myself, so I just wait for those certain times when it looks like she wants my attention (i.e. smiling). |
dude is hard to find a nice honest women these days. It took me sooo long to find mine. |
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