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How long have you been single? (pg. 11)
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| ColorDancer |
| I don't date. I club. LOL! |
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| danlaxx1 |
| Still single. With my current work schedule it's hard for me to find time for anybody except for Cleo (my cat) when I get home from work. She's my baby right now :) I wouldn't mind being in a relationship. It's kind of hard to celebrate holidays and Valentine's Day with an animal. |
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| intelligent77 |
| quote: | Originally posted by zachias31
Lemme stick up for the girls here. I've done what you're talking about before. By that I mean, given someone my phone number and then not answered their call. Here's the thing. When I give my phone number, I'm interested. I've also likely had a vodka or something similar, and I'm happy and flirty. In the light of day, I may not be as interested. It's not a conspiracy, moods change you know?
Also, it's the total chicken way out to give the number knowing you're not going to take the call, but we all hate delivering bad news, right?
And by the way, I've had the reverse happen to me, so it's not just girls that do it.
But darlin, some advice... If you call and she doesn't pick up, leave a voice mail. I don't usually pick up the phone if it's a number I don't recognize. If someone doesn't leave a message, I ain't callin back. If she hasn't answered your voice mail, call maybe once more, then let it go. Please don't call 3+ times. It sucks to get rejected, but we've all gotta deal with it. |
X 2!!!!!
To be honest I can't tell you show many times I've been BEGGED for my number.. Fine here it is... take it.... OF COURSE I"M NOT GOING TO PICK IT UP... i didn't want to give it in the first place!
Normally when I go to the club I point at the closest guy I know to me and say.. "i'm with him"
I don't like to be impolite, if someone starts talking with me I'll talk back but rarely do I want to talk to them as anything more than a lite conversation.. Guys are pushy and sometimes its just easier to say here's my number ... thanks gotta go.. and NORMALLY BOYS (LISTEN UP!!!) that should be a sign of .. She's NOT INTERESTED! She gave you her number and ran away.... thats saying something |
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| Aspy |
| quote: | Originally posted by intelligent77
X 2!!!!!
To be honest I can't tell you show many times I've been BEGGED for my number.. Fine here it is... take it.... OF COURSE I"M NOT GOING TO PICK IT UP... i didn't want to give it in the first place!
Normally when I go to the club I point at the closest guy I know to me and say.. "i'm with him"
I don't like to be impolite, if someone starts talking with me I'll talk back but rarely do I want to talk to them as anything more than a lite conversation.. Guys are pushy and sometimes its just easier to say here's my number ... thanks gotta go.. and NORMALLY BOYS (LISTEN UP!!!) that should be a sign of .. She's NOT INTERESTED! She gave you her number and ran away.... thats saying something |
in the clubs its okay.. i understand but C'mon i she was taking same F. stat class. I cant understand people. You girls should be honest. Yes or No very simple question. Yes means yes no means No. I am not gonnaa cry if am being rejected.. Nobody does.... If u give and dont pick up(Excluding Clubs) Ofcoursei will say "You bitch!"..
BTW i never force ppl. I say yes or no very simple Question. It is up to you.. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by intelligent77
X 2!!!!!
Normally when I go to the club I point at the closest guy I know to me and say.. "i'm with him"
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That is how you act. But many other girls act very differently, in my experience. |
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| HardTranceProd |
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Guys are pushy and sometimes its just easier to say here's my number ... thanks gotta go.. and NORMALLY BOYS (LISTEN UP!!!) that should be a sign of .. She's NOT INTERESTED! She gave you her number and ran away.... thats saying something
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If all women thought like you, then pushy guys would never get anywhere. However, the reality is that not only do pushy guys get somewhere, but pushiness is such a common male trait with regard to women that, as you've written yourself, "Guys are pushy".
Therefore, rather than write misleading cliches, you should probably ask yourself why, throughout the history of mankind, the female population has both allowed and encouraged this kind of trait to flourish in men. After all, if pushy guys didn't get laid too often, it's unlikely they would have left so many descendants for you to conclude today that "guys are pushy".
Maybe giving that phone number was not after all a decision made by a scared, poor, defenseless girl who wanted to run away. Perhaps there was a small test hidden there, "I don't want you, but see if you can persuade me". Just a thought. |
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| vtec junkie |
| I think it's funny as hell to watch these clowns hit on chicks at the club. Why in the world would a chick give them her number when his drunk ass is spilling his drink on everybody including himself lol. I don't go out to clubs to pick up chicks.....I go for the music and my friends and if I do get a number....it's only because she either gave me it or gave me "those eyes." :p |
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| Stassi |
| "Any man who thinks they understand the heart of a woman is a fool." |
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| HardTranceProd |
| As for me, I've always felt that relationship-oriented people tend to be rather boring and have few hobbies or interests in life. A relationship is something that finally fulfills them and gives their bland sheltered life some direction. Although being in a relationship (or being married) is the "average" lifestyle for most people, it is precisely this "averageness" that implies a lack of exciting, unusual qualities or hobbies in their lives. Just like America is one gas station or mall after another, so are the lifestyles of most of these people predictable and down-to-earth. |
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| zachias31 |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
As for me, I've always felt that relationship-oriented people tend to be rather boring and have few hobbies or interests in life. A relationship is something that finally fulfills them and gives their bland sheltered life some direction. Although being in a relationship (or being married) is the "average" lifestyle for most people, it is precisely this "averageness" that implies a lack of exciting, unusual qualities or hobbies in their lives. Just like America is one gas station or mall after another, so are the lifestyles of most of these people predictable and down-to-earth. |
Agreed! |
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| Stassi |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
As for me, I've always felt that relationship-oriented people tend to be rather boring and have few hobbies or interests in life. A relationship is something that finally fulfills them and gives their bland sheltered life some direction. Although being in a relationship (or being married) is the "average" lifestyle for most people, it is precisely this "averageness" that implies a lack of exciting, unusual qualities or hobbies in their lives. Just like America is one gas station or mall after another, so are the lifestyles of most of these people predictable and down-to-earth. |
what is it that you do that makes you a free spirit and better than all the suckers that like 'relationships'? |
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| Konijn |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stassi
what is it that you do that makes you a free spirit and better than all the suckers that like 'relationships'? |
hobbies. lots of 'em from what i hear. probably unusual and exciting ones as well. |
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