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How long have you been single? (pg. 12)
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| Stassi |
| quote: | Originally posted by Konijn
hobbies. lots of 'em from what i hear. probably unusual and exciting ones as well. |
what does one have to do with the other? |
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| dj tek |
| quote: | Originally posted by Konijn
hobbies. lots of 'em from what i hear. probably unusual and exciting ones as well. |
hahahahahahah |
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| HardTranceProd |
| I mean, there are people that can't live without a relationship. Without a significant other, they have no self-concept. That's the extreme I'm talking about. This is my opinion only. |
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
As for me, I've always felt that relationship-oriented people tend to be rather boring and have few hobbies or interests in life. A relationship is something that finally fulfills them and gives their bland sheltered life some direction. Although being in a relationship (or being married) is the "average" lifestyle for most people, it is precisely this "averageness" that implies a lack of exciting, unusual qualities or hobbies in their lives. Just like America is one gas station or mall after another, so are the lifestyles of most of these people predictable and down-to-earth. |
haha you have not met me yet then, have you? :stongue: :stongue: I have been in a relationship for 4+ years and we usually go our separate ways each weekend as to have fun with our friends or whatever it is we do. We both have extremely fun lives, still have a LOT of time with our friends and family, and still arrange time that we can do something fun together.
People in relationships dont have to be boring, they just need to learn to not focus ALL of their time and energy on it. ;) |
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| GUBostonDubs |
| Independent Contracting Work > A Relationship Right Now. I don't want a gf for awhile :) |
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| intelligent77 |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
haha you have not met me yet then, have you? :stongue: :stongue: I have been in a relationship for 4+ years and we usually go our separate ways each weekend as to have fun with our friends or whatever it is we do. We both have extremely fun lives, still have a LOT of time with our friends and family, and still arrange time that we can do something fun together.
People in relationships dont have to be boring, they just need to learn to not focus ALL of their time and energy on it. ;) |
I agree with yankeeBaby...
Plus might I add that 'size' DOES matter...a relationship can easily become the average mumbo jumbo when 'size doesn't matter' ... hahaha |
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| mediocre |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
They're not animals, it's just that there are lots of pressures on them. Being a 20-something girl, particularly in America, is very challenging. Career, school, boyfriends, sex, and marriage are just some of the huge pressures they face on a daily basis. (The monthly hormonal rollercoaster doesn't help either, but that doesn't depend on the country ;)) |
ok, and this doesnt apply for men also!? LOOOOL! :stongue: come on!!!
its obvious which gender got pressured down more... and really, even in 2007 its not your "new urban alpha dogs" called females ;) :cool:
even if woman are heavily more emancipated than few decades ago (which i really love about them! i dont need a puppy walking in my shoes besides me), men are STILL the main "breadwinners" and guardians, and unfortunaly still the "monarchs" of todays society which imo is the biggest suck today.
(p.s.: the stuff with ur "monthly hormonal rollercoaster" doesnt count anyway ;p its your own fault if u dont know how to expand to a more milder "3-monthly hormonal rollercoaster" by choosing the right gynecologist and the proper anti-baby-pill ;-)
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
As for me, I've always felt that relationship-oriented people tend to be rather boring and have few hobbies or interests in life. A relationship is something that finally fulfills them and gives their bland sheltered life some direction. Although being in a relationship (or being married) is the "average" lifestyle for most people, it is precisely this "averageness" that implies a lack of exciting, unusual qualities or hobbies in their lives. Just like America is one gas station or mall after another, so are the lifestyles of most of these people predictable and down-to-earth. |
sry i am trying hard not to be rude, but this is just the most immature bull-excrement i've red online for a looooooong time.
what do you think do humans exist for?
and please, if u never had a relationship that _totally_ changed your life completly by the age of ?? (what did u say how old u are?)
than i would strongly advise u to think about ur values and principles of life.
if u are really loving someone (like u could imagine to stay with this single person forever and kids n marriage etc blabla whole thing)
than even sharing a cup of tea with them can be kickass exciting, not to mention how its welding you both together if u enjoy and experience real _special_ things together.
if there was a chart f.e.,
like "all things that gets you totally excited and thrilled in life"
i BET MY ASS only like 15% of them could be realisable only alone.
(like working a chick in a thee-some together with ur best buddy f.e. - i know u can have this with ur partner too, but if u are able to share ur partner u dont get what i am trying to say anyway)
and the rest 85% could be done together the same way (or even better) and the "thrill-faktor" would raise more than triple if both enjoy it at the same time.
| quote: | Originally posted by intelligent77
To be honest I can't tell you show many times I've been BEGGED for my number.. Fine here it is... take it.... OF COURSE I"M NOT GOING TO PICK IT UP... i didn't want to give it in the first place!
...Guys are pushy and sometimes its just easier to say here's my number ... thanks gotta go.. and NORMALLY BOYS (LISTEN UP!!!) that should be a sign of .. She's NOT INTERESTED! She gave you her number and ran away.... thats saying something |
well i agree to the 2nd part, (doesnt matter which gender)
if u are holding a flippant conversation for like 5mins and are already getting the number from the other person. than its super duper obvious that she/he is just about to kick you out of his sight cauze she/he just doesnt have any more interest*.
or that she/he is just looking for someone to get stuffed... but mostly she/he wouldnt wait for the call more than just "checking" their needs right on location.
*its like the indian guys that run around in bars and restaurants and ask @ every table if u might want to buy a rose. u maybe buy it, but mostly only because u want to get rid of them :/
and i cant imagine there are still guys that dont see it like this?
i think u mean the rednecks that maybe dont have a "healthy social environment" that much :haha: :stongue:
if not than i have to agree with brian and would just rolling on the floor laughing while spilling my drink all over at the same time ;) :p
to the 1st part, this behavior sounds kinda incompetent to handle the situatuon. if verbal and rhetorical skills are missing to show the guys that they arent ur "case". than a proper amount of assertiveness is really missing. which could be justified by either wanne-be-arrogance or easy n simple "charisma-loss" lol. or maybe u are always just to not-sober enough to make it clear ;) |
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| mediocre |
| quote: | Originally posted by intelligent77
I agree with yankeeBaby...
Plus might I add that 'size' DOES matter...a relationship can easily become the average mumbo jumbo when 'size doesn't matter' ... hahaha |
haha good point, but see it like this.
of course, everybody loves a dodge viper! who doesnt?
but what if the super sports car is only hammering like a vw beetle!? cauze its missing the proper "horsepower" uhh uhh ... fun-killer³ :nervous: :tongue3 |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by mediocre
and please, if u never had a relationship that _totally_ changed your life completly by the age of ?? (what did u say how old u are?)
than i would strongly advise u to think about ur values and principles of life.
if u are really loving someone (like u could imagine to stay with this single person forever and kids n marriage etc blabla whole thing)
than even sharing a cup of tea with them can be kickass exciting, not to mention how its welding you both together if u enjoy and experience real _special_ things together.
if there was a chart f.e.,
like "all things that gets you totally excited and thrilled in life"
i BET MY ASS only like 15% of them could be realisable only alone.
(like working a chick in a thee-some together with ur best buddy f.e. - i know u can have this with ur partner too, but if u are able to share ur partner u dont get what i am trying to say anyway)
and the rest 85% could be done together the same way (or even better) and the "thrill-faktor" would raise more than triple if both enjoy it at the same time.
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Oh absolutely, the thrill and mind-blowing sparks can be there, but more often than not it's within a short-term relationship as opposed to a long-term one.
Also, there are people who would like to be with one person their whole life, and there are others who need variety. |
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| mediocre |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
...people who would like to be with one person their whole life... |
oh u mean adults? ;)
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
... are others who need variety. |
oh u mean teenagers? :p :toothless
everyone was a teenager and who regrets this time!?
but life has more to offer really... and standsill = death, dont you know!? :happy2: ;) ;) |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by mediocre
oh u mean teenagers? :p :toothless
everyone was a teenager and who regrets this time!?
but life has more to offer really... and standsill = death, dont you know!? :happy2: ;) ;) |
But you are assuming that everyone develops at the same pace ;)
There are kids who were getting laid at 11 or 12, and then there are people who are still virgins at 22-23. Why are you applying the same rule to everybody. |
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| mediocre |
| i am, but i orientate/define the "rules" not at age, more at experience. and like u wonderfully stated, some are still "teenagers" at 23 and up! |
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