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Do you want to have kids? At what age? (pg. 13)
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
a little miniature lucid |
AKA the evil spawn of rob. not so cute! :toothless |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by noikeee
Some people here have too strict ideas about who they want their kids to be. The education they'll get from their parents is a big part of the equation, sure, but every kid has their own personality. I mean, Slylee is going all about how she wants their kids to be confident, have social skills, etc etc etc. Well, what if her kid turns out to have a nerdy personality? Or worst case scenario, if the kid turns out to have some sort of disability. This sort of thing can happen to everyone - it's a very harsh part of life, but when you're a parent you need to be ready for every eventuality and accept your kid as he is. He/she's a lot more than just a reflection of yourself and will have his/her faults as any other person.
As for my case, thinking about kids doesn't make sense at the moment. One step at a time, and making plans about kids when you don't even have a partner and aren't out of university yet, seems ridiculous. I have an hard time seeing me as a decent dad, but 5 years ago I couldn't possibly imagine me being the kind that goes to the gym to work out, 10 years ago I couldn't possibly imagine me being the kind that gets wasted on booze and doesn't give a about religion, etc. People change so never say never... |
lol i was the one saying that i wouldn't be the type to force my kid into soccer if he really wants to play the guitar. you obviously missed that part.
i also said that at the end of the day it doesn't matter what you do, as long as u are confident and hold yourself well, etc... doesn't matter. i will always support my child's dreams whether i want that for them or not.
now as far as having a child with a disabilty....bring it on. i have the patience of a saint when it comes to children....especially my own. i'd be fine with that. |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
I just got off the pill because it was making me a crazed horomonal overly emotional psycho bitch... so now I think I about having a kid every time my bf and I have sex because I`m paranoid. |
*points*
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| diggerz |
| Yes, and on the year that mighty sperm travels ardously through the pool of vagine pudding and into the femme's cocoon :stongue: :wtf: |
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| In The Lobby |
| ii like to have 5 year olds, smooth and hairless. |
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| Naruepol |
| quote: | | "If you don't have the support and love and caring and concern that you get from a family, you don't have much at all. Love is so supremely important." |
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| UmmiE |
| The wifey and I have decided to have our first kid after 5 years,this will help us settle down as a couple and get to know eachother and have some fun times possibly travel and stuff.....with kids comes responisbility for which im not ready........Dont get me wrong I love kids and I am always the first to hold a small itsy bitsy baby in my arms which is less than a year old.....after that they get annoying and loud and scream all day.:whip: |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by UmmiE
The wifey and I have decided to ... get to know eachother |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
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Arranged marriage. |
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| Project-K |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
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Las Vegas |
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| UmmiE |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Arranged marriage. |
+1 :D |
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