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FAO: MellyMel (and the 4 other actual women on TA) (pg. 32)
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
If he's only looking for some ass then he'd be gone long before a month.... or he's already getting it elsewhere as Jamie suggests. |
Thats fine, I don't want to waste my time with those kind of guys. If he gets it elsewhere, like I said, what do I care? Nothing is official between us. |
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| Slylee |
| there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes:stongue: |
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes:stongue: |
My ex before the recent one was really cool about waiting... problem was I wanted him so badly he had to stop me from tearing his clothes off a few times.
I also hadn't had sex in a year-and-a-half when I dated him, so... |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Banora
Thats fine, I don't want to waste my time with those kind of guys. If he gets it elsewhere, like I said, what do I care? Nothing is official between us. |
Fair enough I suppose... I just don't get why you would deny yourself in favour of some (seemingly) arbitrary waiting period. Have you ever considered finding someone for some sort of ongoing casual relationship? |
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| Ania_xox |
I lost it to a french-canadian who was pretty manipulative about it (i.e. "we have been together for a month, lets just do it")
He was an assistant prof at a school I went to in North quebec
we dated for 3 months and then broke up
we're still really good friends though, just didn't work as bf/gf
my boyfriend HATES him though
they almost got in a fist fight when he came down to visit me from Quebec last summer |
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Have you ever considered finding someone for some sort of ongoing casual relationship? |
Eh... nah. I would be weirded out by it. I like to have someone to be with if I am ing them. I can't just spread my legs, let him go at it, then ignore him until I or he needs to get off again (not to mention I'd wonder how many other girls he was doing that with and would be all paranoid if a condom broke or something). |
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| squirrelly |
lol because if you like him, you DO care.
And "those kinds of guys" don't mean that they are bad guys. Actually, they're more honest if anything else. They let you know right away "hey, I don't know if we can work this out yet - but I think you're hot so lets have some fun while we're figuring it out" is better than some guy who is lying to you about your intentions and screwing around behind your back.
Newsflash though: if a guy has been single for a while, even if you're "starting" to date, he probably still has his FB for a little bit. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes:stongue: |
pfft... that was like a standard operating procedure for me... I'd normally get her off (oral/digital) and then stop her when she went for my cock... usually apologizing for going too fast and suggesting we wait. It pretty much always resulted in some seriously hot in' the next time I saw her... plus having her all hot an bothered imagining my increased the odds that she wouldn't laugh at it when she finally saw it. |
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
"hey, I don't know if we can work this out yet - but I think you're hot so lets have some fun while we're figuring it out"
Newsflash though: if a guy has been single for a while, even if you're "starting" to date, he probably still has his FB for a little bit. |
Nah, I wouldn't trust him. And: Duh. :p |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
there was a time before we had sex where we were heavily making out on my couch and i wanted it BAD and he was the one saying we should wait. lol he's such a girl sometimes:stongue: |
lol like two months into us dating he gave me this speech and was like "you can't just keep coming over, f*&^ing me, then leaving. If you come over - you stay the night." At first I thought he was a whiny girl, then he confessed that getting up in the middle of the night to lock the door after I left was a hassle :wtf: :stongue: |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Banora
Nah, I wouldn't trust him. And: Duh. :p |
lol but you'd trust the guy who you thought was "waiting"? |
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
lol but you'd trust the guy who you thought was "waiting"? |
I didn't say I wouldn't think he didn't have a FB, I would just hope as we got to know eachother he'd focus more on me once the sex started. If not I'll cut him out.
A guy who is flat out: 'I want your and nothing else until I get to know you' is someone who I would think is just going to hit-it-and-quit-it with several girls at a time. |
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