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Why do nice guys always finish last? (pg. 10)
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| BobbyV |
Just like it's been said on previous posts, you just have to be confident. Don't try to get women ALL THE TIME. Don't constantly think about it and make it your #1 priority when you wake up in the morning. That will only lead to disappointment and wasted time. Just let things come to you. Live your life, be yourself, and someday you will meet someone. Things happen when you least expect them to. Another important factor. Get a college education (if you don't already have one) so you can have a nice yearly income when you settle down at a job. You WILL get women if you have MONEY. It's sad but true. If you are some hideous creature from Neptune, and you drive a BMW M3 and have a nice house, you WILL get women. There's no doubt about it. And I'm sure people will tell you that not all women are materialistic and want money. Yes this is true but read again, more carefully this time. NOT ALL WOMEN...want money. So there you go. You automatically have a GREAT chance of meeting some girl(s) who only want you for your money. And what do you care? As long as you're hittin it, who really gives a hoot. When you are making money, SOME women want to use you for your money, so you use them for your sexual pleasure. It works both ways. If you are planning on having a job that rolls in the money, it doesn't matter if you're a nice guy or a dick, you're IN brotha. When you find the right woman after you've banged who knows how many, THAT'S when you get married.
**NOTE: the comments made by my self are mild generalizations of how the area I live in works (USA), so if i offended anyone, I am sorry in advance** |
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| Orbax |
| yOU SHOULD BE CONFDIFENT BLAHHHH |
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| anuneventrade |
*shrug* It's the same thing like asking "Why do nice girls finish last?"
Everyone's opinions about people change over time. You get involved with someone who seems nice and perfect, and they get engaged a week after you break up. So, you decide to ward off the fella's for a while, because you definetely don't trust the nice guys anymore, becuase who's to say they won't do it again.
But on that same front, you don't trust the s either.
So what's a girl to do?
*Starts walking towards a convent* |
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| USMC_Greg |
maybe the key to getting girls is to become the ?
Plan:
A) Find yourself an innocent/somewhat innocent/or fat girl.
B) Woo her, and use her for her , to gain experience + confidence under the sheets.
C) Dump the bitch, and use your newfound confidence to seek out the better looking girls.
D) Start over at B |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
You gals make it sound so simple, but let's see you make the first move sometime! |
:haha: If we do that, we are branded "sluts" and behind our backs for years people say "all she wanted was sex", and no matter what you say, no matter how you try to explain, you can't tarnish that reputation. I've done that a few times, and now I have to live with that sort of a reputation, which isn't true.
Sometimes feelings get the better of you and you make a move when you shouldn't, or suggest something that would have been better left unsaid. But once the coffee is spilled on the carpet, it's spilled. You can't take it back, there's nothing you can do about it. |
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| CynepMeH |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
my boyfriend is nice and he finished first in my book. |
tHAT'S just too sick to comment... Librophelia??? great way to waste good book... I feel sorry for whoever you gave that book to thereafter.
:p
Seriously, tho... I used to date a girl who didn't give me a time of day when I was all courteous.. The moment I said to myself "screw this, I am done with you" and started treating her like a jerk she was all over me...
Some women are just fuqed in the head... that's all... most of the time they grow up to be the woman who gets punched in the mouth by her husband and stays around because she thinks "he loves me and he is just angry, but I can change him"...
Also, a lot of girls (between 18-25) are not looking for relationships... the are looking for action and trying to be nice to her, thinking about marriage, or other "heavy" crap is just retarded... get some, move on - she's not the last one.
Now, ladiez... I know you want me... :p
j/k
edit: P.s. saw Arliss episode last night where Stanley is dating this nice smart chiropractor who is offended by the littlest things... like cursing. she then ends up screwing and marrying a Mike-Tyson-like character who swears and calls her b!tch. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
[font=comic sans ms]:haha: If we do that, we are branded "sluts" and behind our backs for years people say "all she wanted was sex", and no matter what you say, no matter how you try to explain, you can't tarnish that reputation. I've done that a few times, and now I have to live with that sort of a reputation, which isn't true.
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That theory only applies to people you arent dating. If a hotpants asked me out, id give it a go, and I wouldnt care about the reputation that much. Plus, these days, who the hell has a reputation? you are one of 40,000 at a uni |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by CynepMeH
Some women are just fuqed in the head...
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ALL women are ed in the head. They have terrible self-esteem no matter how good looking they are, and they are all looking for some to prove to her that shes right. thats it. its that simple. |
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| trancefeen02 |
| it's simple: cuz life sux! |
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| CynepMeH |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
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ALL women are ed in the head. They have terrible self-esteem no matter how good looking they are, and they are all looking for some to prove to her that shes right. thats it. its that simple. |
Wheeeeeeeeeefffffffff:rolleyes: Boy, am I glad you said it, so I didn't have to?
I think it goes back to the days when it was customary for foreplay to include wacking a chick on the head with the big stick and draging her by the hair to the cave where she got the proper TLC treatment :D |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
:haha: If we do that, we are branded "sluts" and behind our backs for years people say "all she wanted was sex", and no matter what you say, no matter how you try to explain, you can't tarnish that reputation. I've done that a few times, and now I have to live with that sort of a reputation, which isn't true. |
And yet, so many of the women who swear by this philosophy, still think they can call the shots. That's exactly the kind of attitude that can ruin a relationship.
I'm going to spell it out (talking to all the women out there, not you specifically):
When you make the date, you can choose what to do. When you're giving us a ride, you can pick what music is on in the car. When you pay for the movie, you can pick which one to watch. When you take us to dinner, you can pick where to eat. When you are the one calling us, visiting us, taking us out, taking care of us, seducing us, buying us gifts, leaving notes, and doing little romantic things for us whenever you have a few spare moments, then you can dictate the terms of the relationship.
You can't have it both ways. Either you're a giggly vapid slut who does whatever we tell her to do, or you're an active partner who takes extra care to make us feel wanted all the time.
Incidentally, making a move doesn't make any girl a "slut" and I can't imagine where any of them would get this idea. As Orbax said, if you start making out with a stranger and rip his clothes off in 5 seconds, then maybe it makes you a slut. If you've been talking and hanging out for a week and he gives you dreamy looks every 30 seconds, kissing him does not make you a slut, nor does getting his number, asking him out, or doing any of that other stuff that guys are "supposed" to do.
But, as Orbax said, that won't happen, because it seems to be all about the attention and the self-esteem. It feels much better to know that someone else wants you bad and you're just giving it to them when you feel like it, rather than to actually admit that you want them and work for it.
/rant
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| Orbax |
Its amazing how true that is. Women want everything but want to do nothing. Guys want very little, have to do everything, take exorbitant amounts of because if they dont they are "s" and girls and guys both know that she can go out and find some guy wholl take her for a little action.
I believe when this thread was started about 4 months ago that I said this, but without looking back...
Women will realize what ups they have been at around 25. They will realize that the "weenie losers" they dumped when they were 18 were probably some of the coolest guys theyve ever met, and wish they had kept on with them instead of dumping them and finding some "wild" who tried to have sex the first date, and succeeded. They took that as caring.
Women have been raised to think that they are only to be appreciated for their bodies. This makes it so when a guy doesnt try to stuff her like a thanksgiving turkey, she has some weird ass complex where she doesnt feel loved. Society's message of "you are just a body" is telling her that you dont love her.
So when a girl finally DOES love someone she shows it through being physically intimate with them. Because all girls do "girly" things like cards and visits when you are sick. what is going to differentiate you from them? Sex. Friends dont have sex, "lovers" do.
So now you are offering your body as a sign of love, and most decent guys wont take that right away. So you think they dont like you, and you move on, feeling rejected.
then you get out of college, get your hormones balanced out, and start using that thing you havent used in 25 years. Your brain. and you realize that you are now a slut. You have given yourself over time and time again, with nothing to show for it. You gave it too soon, without reservation, and while that may have stemmed from "love" it ultimately means that there was just 1 more penis inside of you.
Arent we progressive in the 90s? with our 50% divorce rates that no one can figure out. our 12 year olds wearing G-strings and halter tops, and people becoming outraged when some 14 year old guy raging with hormones and no formal education accepts the invitation of a blowjob from the 12 year old who saw it on OC, or Dawson's Creek?
What a world
PS, guys arent any better, but thats a seperate rant. |
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