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Why do nice guys always finish last? (pg. 4)
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| PhloTron |
| having tatoos, piercings, and the abilitiy to slap girls around...three things I fail miserably at...and thus "Finish Last"...no matter how much cash i got :D |
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| KLINGKLANG77 |
| wow some of you guys *really* *think* you got this down.... |
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| sash |
| quote: | Originally posted by matt_a
WHY?
Especially with chicks! |
did you watch life support on sbs on monday? dr rudi had a hint, just go out with a friend who talks a lot, and just stay silent the whole night |
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| sebby |
I've been doing alot of reasearch in the last couple hours and all of it is pretty interesting. But what I've been hearing from my friends is just be yourself. You can't go wrong with that.
I used to get girls all the time back then. Now I don't. I was shy then and I'm shy now. I guess back then when I was younger it was "Will you go out with me?" and the response was almost always "Okay." We were kids who didn't have money and looks were valuable.
Now as a young adult I realize it's all about money. Then it's about how you look. You can have a lot of money and be boring/ugly and still get the girl. But if you have the look, then you need to back it up with your all around performace cuz chances are, the girl will choose any guy that posesses a great sense of humor, shares good interests or shows confidence.
I have made so much eye contact with a number of girls that I know I've connected with them, but only to that extent. Nothing more. The only time I talk to girls is when I'm ed up. I need to realize that I need to not give a and be confident along with be myself.
I gotta stop being shy and get out there and do it. If she says no, then it wasn't meant to be. Move on. Next girl. I can be as nice as I can. I don't see anything wrong with being nice. It's the confidence that I lack.
Okay fellow TA's. This is where I ask for some major feedback. What am I saying wrong? What am I saying right? Is there anything else that needs to be filled in here that I'm missing? |
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| DrUg_Tit0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by KLINGKLANG77
wow some of you guys *really* *think* you got this down.... |
Well, maybe you as a girl could help us clarify things. |
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| hangover |
Bad news for us hopeless romantics...
*rushes to open a door for another complete stranger*
I couldn't stop being nice to women even if my life depended on it. Sorry... |
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| Eugene |
A few points:
1) The most important thing for a girl is if a guy has a sense of humor. If you can make her laugh... you're 99% of the way there.
2) 'Nice' guys finish last often because they have mental issues: anxiety or depression. They should treat these issues and learn how to loosen up.
3) Girls like to be challenged. If you're there all the time for her and 'in her face' she will back off and lose interest. |
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| hangover |
| Hmmm.... Didn't know they made hard trance outside europe |
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| igottaknow |
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| TranceEuphoria |
DJ Chrono, the article you posted is very interesting. I couldn't stop reading it...:)
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| Spad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
A few points:
1) The most important thing for a girl is if a guy has a sense of humor. If you can make her laugh... you're 99% of the way there.
2) 'Nice' guys finish last often because they have mental issues: anxiety or depression. They should treat these issues and learn how to loosen up.
3) Girls like to be challenged. If you're there all the time for her and 'in her face' she will back off and lose interest. |
1) Yes you're right. Every single girl in the world likes a sense of humour above anything else
2) Wtf :conf: :stongue:
3) Correct again, I've found that most like Chess. |
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| politcs_of_danc |
| quote: | Originally posted by Eugene
A few points:
1) The most important thing for a girl is if a guy has a sense of humor. If you can make her laugh... you're 99% of the way there.
2) 'Nice' guys finish last often because they have mental issues: anxiety or depression. They should treat these issues and learn how to loosen up.
3) Girls like to be challenged. If you're there all the time for her and 'in her face' she will back off and lose interest. |
good point....but this could be reversed the other way around....
1) The most important thing for a guy is if a girl has a sense of humor. If you can make him laugh... you're 99% of the way there.
2) 'Nice' girls finish last often because they have mental issues: anxiety or depression. They should treat these issues and learn how to loosen up.
3) Guys like to be challenged. If you're there all the time for him and 'in his face' he will back off and lose interest.
:haha: :haha: :haha: |
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