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Why do nice guys always finish last? (pg. 7)
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| ))the source(( |
| I'm so sorry. I must admit that I contribute to the saying "Nice guys always finish last." I want a nice, sweet guy. In the past, I initially think that I am chosing (not really the right word that I was looking for) a nice guy, but then they turn out to be unstable losers. But, by the time that I find out, I can't stop caring about them. I know that there are so many genuinely nice guys out there...I just don't seem to be drawn to them. It's a problem, I know. |
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| Ukrainianstud |
Sorry to hear of your troubles ))the source((, here is the answer to everyone’s problems( well at least pertaining to the "nice guys finish last" )
>EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT<
>EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT<
>EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT<
some girls like nice guys( what ever the hell that means :conf: )
some girls like the Bad guys( who are usually idiots and cant spell or read past the grade 6 level :eyes: )
and second thing I would like to mention
why do you want girls, its all about the WOMEN grrrrrrrrrrr:tongue2 :gsmile:
last but not least for all you women who have been hurt ( this is for you ))the source(( )
“believe half of what you see,
and nothing of what you hear”
this should help you out in the relationship problem |
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| Orbax |
| See im not worried about finding a girl. at about age 25 theyll realize what dumbs theyve been. Im worried about finding a girl who hasnt been stuffed like a thanksgiving turkey. I dont want that . |
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| Nadi |
| Nice guys don't finish last. Decent guys who either lack the confidence or the brains to go up and talk to a girl finish last. |
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| Busy Child |
| its always my thought that nice guys finish last, but have the most stable relatonships/marriages. |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
See im not worried about finding a girl. at about age 25 theyll realize what dumbs theyve been. Im worried about finding a girl who hasnt been stuffed like a thanksgiving turkey. I dont want that . |
exactly my thoughts, man, exactly my thoughts! |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by sebby
I've been doing alot of reasearch in the last couple hours and all of it is pretty interesting. But what I've been hearing from my friends is just be yourself. You can't go wrong with that.
I used to get girls all the time back then. Now I don't. I was shy then and I'm shy now. I guess back then when I was younger it was "Will you go out with me?" and the response was almost always "Okay." We were kids who didn't have money and looks were valuable.
Now as a young adult I realize it's all about money. Then it's about how you look. You can have a lot of money and be boring/ugly and still get the girl. But if you have the look, then you need to back it up with your all around performace cuz chances are, the girl will choose any guy that posesses a great sense of humor, shares good interests or shows confidence.
I have made so much eye contact with a number of girls that I know I've connected with them, but only to that extent. Nothing more. The only time I talk to girls is when I'm ed up. I need to realize that I need to not give a and be confident along with be myself.
I gotta stop being shy and get out there and do it. If she says no, then it wasn't meant to be. Move on. Next girl. I can be as nice as I can. I don't see anything wrong with being nice. It's the confidence that I lack.
Okay fellow TA's. This is where I ask for some major feedback. What am I saying wrong? What am I saying right? Is there anything else that needs to be filled in here that I'm missing? |
don't send the letter!
| quote: | Originally posted by Abject Silver
oh, jebus, you just realized every 'nice' guy's nightmare. that's precisely why nice guys are upset. because the s are the ones that are doing all the uhmm.. breaking in.
the way you explain it is that girls first have fun with idiots and then go back to their friend to get something serious when they realize that they should stop having fun and settle down.
sorry, but the 'nice' guys by that time (at least the smart ones), have already picked out the girls that didn't go ing around and shafted them when they wanted. this is why so many women i see at the bar are always ranting about 'where are all the good men?' too late, baby. you snoozed. no self-respecting guy would ever put a girl that has been a village bicycle anywhere near the top of his list.
that's just how it works. |
couldn't have said it better! you hit the nail on the head, mate.
now back to the search function. |
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| smallSHEEP |
| This thread is like some kind of pheonix - risen from the dead. :eek: |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by smallSHEEP
This thread is like some kind of pheonix - risen from the dead. :eek: |
yes, lol, i've been having a field day with the search function and some stuff i stumbled upon was quite interesting :p |
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| Mr Game+Watch |
I dunno, I think everybody on here are looking too deeply into things... meeting a girl isn't something there's a step by step solution for, it's just something that happens at random. I was all worried, I'm 21, out of school, work at a place with very few young women, never gonna meet anybody... I was really upset about this - then all of a sudden, I stopped caring, instead I focused the time on doing stuff that interested me (read a few books I've been meaning to read, played some more games, seeing some friends I haven't seen in a while, worked on making mixes with my friend DJ_Silhouette). Then, at random, completely unexpected, I met a girl, and we had a lot in common. I thought asking her out was gonna be a pain in the ass that took every ounce of my courage to do, but actually, it was so painless and smooth. When she said yes I wasn't even surprised at all :cool: And so far things have been going great... (though it's still pretty early)
The old adage "be yourself" holds true... to an extent. If you've got bad hygiene by your nature, or you are prone to making racist jokes, well that you should most definitely change :P But if you're really silly, really nerdy, or whatnot, don't try to act all 'cool' and 'smooth' and stuff - some girls actually find awkwardness, or sillyness, or dorkiness to be charming. Every girl is different... People shouldn't try too hard 'cuz they're only working themselves up over something that they really shouldn't go all crazy over. Just treat the girl you're courting like a friend first and foremost. If you're both looking for companionship, it's gonna end up to be real bad, trust me that happened with my last g/f :P
Though, I really do feel sorry for all the guys who aren't very attractive and/or are too shy to talk with girls.... |
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| Orbax |
| girls dont like it when my punchline is "and twenty feet of rope! hoo boy~" and then I look around shocked and asked who the said that. Its el terrible |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
girls dont like it when my punchline is "and twenty feet of rope! hoo boy~" and then I look around shocked and asked who the said that. Its el terrible |
lol, must be the hat ;) |
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