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Who should pay for the date? *UPDATED* (pg. 20)
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| PartEgurl |
Here is my opinion, a combination of both. Ha just what we need, another opinion !
On a bad date, whoever pays the bill has sex in mind.
On an amazing date you are so interested in the conversation and are so involved in getting to know the person, you don't think about who pays the bill really. Plus you have already made up your mind that you really like this person and you are going to have sex with them way before the dinner is over. You don't care if you pay the bill because the date was so great and you can't wait to go out with this person again. |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by PartEgurl
On a bad date, whoever pays the bill has sex in mind. |
I ALWAYS have sex in mind.
It's not always my goal, and I don't always act on it, and rarely on a first date, if ever on a first date, however, it's always there.
That's just me. Call me sexual vanilla. |
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| PartEgurl |
| I guess I am speaking from a girls point of view, probably all guys are thinking about it !! Thats normal though. :D |
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| Tordan |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
I ALWAYS have sex in mind.
It's not always my goal, and I don't always act on it, and rarely on a first date, if ever on a first date, however, it's always there.
That's just me. Call me sexual vanilla. |
I think this applies to every male. :) |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
No I understand what you are saying...and I have nothing against sex or nothing against talking about it...no taboos here...it's just that when I pay for someone it's NOT becaue of the possibility of sex...sometime in the future. Sex is everywhere and it's REALLY not that hard to find...basically all I'm saying that if i DO pay for someone then it's just because I felt generous, or I wanted to treat someone or etc...nothing to do with sex, or the remote possibility of sex or anything like it... ;) Kind of like Allegory said... |
you are just affraid to admit it or you think it would ruin your chances with girls if you did admit it to yourself even.
ask yourself then, why do i feel generous at this time to pay for this date? |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
I ALWAYS have sex in mind.
It's not always my goal, and I don't always act on it, and rarely on a first date, if ever on a first date, however, it's always there.
That's just me. Call me sexual vanilla. |
this is a truthful man. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
you are just affraid to admit it or you think it would ruin your chances with girls if you did admit it to yourself even.
ask yourself then, why do i feel generous at this time to pay for this date? |
Maybe because I had a really great time....maybe because it would make me feel better...maybe because I just feel like it at this particular time...there can be tons of reasons and sex or the possibility of sex has nothing to do with it...:rolleyes: There's nothing to admit it's just a fact....
I have a few friends that can I use at any time as "booty-calls" I can get sex pretty easily...so once again...no I do not think about sex or the possibility of sex when I offer to pay...
You have a certain view of men that we are just all horndogs :clown:
Maybe that's true for many of us but I really have nothing to admit, if I'm on a date and I offer to pay (I wonder how many times i said it already...) I am not thinking about the possibility of sex. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
Maybe because I had a really great time....maybe because it would make me feel better...maybe because I just feel like it at this particular time...there can be tons of reasons and sex or the possibility of sex has nothing to do with it...:rolleyes: There's nothing to admit it's just a fact....
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:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: That's a big rolleyes to you too because you obviously can't think outside your box.
not that it has anything to do with it, but i actually took many psych classes and human nature is very interesting to me so i have developed my theories of how men and women interact not just from my head but from actual research into it. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: That's a big rolleyes to you too because you obviously can't think outside your box.
not that it has anything to do with it, but i actually took many psych classes and human nature is very interesting to me so i have developed my theories of how men and women interact not just from my head but from actual research into it. |
Okay...so then you are saying that if i offer to pay i'm thinking about sex...
And what if I'm out with a girl and she offers to pay for everything then what is she after? |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by Tordan
I think this applies to every male. :) |
So you're saying every male will pass up first-date sex? I doubt that. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalMP
So you're saying every male will pass up first-date sex? I doubt that. |
It really depends who I'm out on a date with but usually first day sex means I will not be seeing that girl again...however again it depends on the girl :) |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
It really depends who I'm out on a date with but usually first day sex means I will not be seeing that girl again...however again it depends on the girl :) |
I agree...I usually give it two or three dates to see how our personalities mesh, then let her know what I'm down for. |
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