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| Slylee |
no friggin way am i going to dump craig! i friggin live for that guy. i can't wait to see him. besides, he's just starting to warm up to me a bit more than usual. i love it when a guy is like super goofy and not scared to be silly and i can tell craig is only that way around his sister and family, but he is starting to get more comfortable with me. he cracks me up and that's more important than the intelligent conversations. this other guy isn't really funny...i make him laugh, but he doesn't really make me laugh.
Craig FOR THE MOTHAIN WIN!
thanks for the advice though... |
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| tribu |
| Yeah, I dont know what Im talking about anyways |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by tribu
I didn't say start dating the other guy.
I said she should try to identify that the person is an ideal mate before entering an exclusive relationship. It appears (maybe you can confirm this Jamie?) that she kinda got swept off her feet by Craig's charm, similar to what is happening now with the photography guy. She entered the relationship without "researching" if Craig fulfilled what she wanted, and know its almost like she settling for what shes committed to.
So I say break up with Craig, and take your time trying to find an someone perfect, but I'm also not in successful relatrionship, so take what I say with a grain of salt |
I have to disagree with you. Jamie and I have talked a lot about her and Craig's relationship. She really does love him and it seems like a great relationship. You don't throw that away because someone else excites you for a little bit. If one were to do that they would never have a stable relationship with anyone ever because the most exciting thing in the world is the unfamilure. In a situation like Jamies you either resist temptation or you give into it. If the former then you will question whether that was the right decision and may even regret it at times, if the later you have to stomach your guilt. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
I have to disagree with you. Jamie and I have talked a lot about her and Craig's relationship. She really does love him and it seems like a great relationship. You don't throw that away because someone else excites you for a little bit. If one were to do that they would never have a stable relationship with anyone ever because the most exciting thing in the world is the unfamilure. In a situation like Jamies you either resist temptation or you give into it. If the former then you will question whether that was the right decision and may even regret it at times, if the later you have to stomach your guilt. |
exactly. i don't have the stomach to cheat. the guilt would eat me alive, believe it or not people. |
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| tribu |
Yes, i don't know the situation as well as you or her, and I only remember seeing a thread or two about him laying down the romantic gestures, so i'm not trying to speak on this situiation as an expert. I only know that if a girl found conversation with me boring, but loved my gifts, my attitudes towards her, and my handling of our relationship, I would rather be with someone else.
But i don't know any ofd the details of the relationship, so I was just throwing a POV out there |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
no friggin way am i going to dump craig! i friggin live for that guy. i can't wait to see him. besides, he's just starting to warm up to me a bit more than usual. i love it when a guy is like super goofy and not scared to be silly and i can tell craig is only that way around his sister and family, but he is starting to get more comfortable with me. he cracks me up and that's more important than the intelligent conversations. this other guy isn't really funny...i make him laugh, but he doesn't really make me laugh.
Craig FOR THE MOTHAIN WIN!
thanks for the advice though... |
we can read between the lines you threw in that last post just in case craig stumbled across this thread ;) |
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| Slylee |
his last email to me was, "well i'm gonna go now, call me later"
:wtf:
i'm not going to. i'm just gonna play it cool and not email him right away or respond with long stuff...he'll get the hint. i only have class with him until december 7. i'm flattered, but i feel guilty for being flattered so i just dont think i should hang around with him even if it's with craig. it's not right. |
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| Slylee |
| craig doesn't have a clue about this website. |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
his last email to me was, "well i'm gonna go now, call me later"
:wtf:
i'm not going to. i'm just gonna play it cool and not email him right away or respond with long stuff...he'll get the hint. i only have class with him until december 7. i'm flattered, but i feel guilty for being flattered so i just dont think i should hang around with him even if it's with craig. it's not right. |
So just how many times are you going to have to tell us how committed you are before you start to believe it yourself? |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
So just how many times are you going to have to tell us how committed you are before you start to believe it yourself? |
sorry i was just giving an update.
man ur all fired up in this thread btw arbiter:) nice to see you have blood running through your veins. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i'd agree but the only problem is the other guy has a kid and could have a boat load of baggage (no pun intended). |
bu-dun - tish
(that was my drum solo)
anyways i agree with you though (if only for the intelligent conversation part) |
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| Moral Hazard |
| Jamie, as much as I like this thread I recommend that you pay no further mind to it. You know what you want and what you should do. |
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