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God Damnit! (pg. 6)
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| ZzZ The Goddess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Sure you are. For example, if you were running the country, and you drew up a contingency plan in the event of a terrorist attack, that doesn't mean you are any less committed to preventing such an attack in the first place. |
You cannot predict the future but you can plan for the worst and hope the best happens. Foresight is better than hindsight. :D |
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| tribu |
| Break up with Craig and don't sleep with the new guy. Then, never have sex again for the rest of your life. |
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| bobba lou |
| quote: | | and he called me too and was like, "so what are you and craig doing". he's trying to include craig so he comes off as a nice guy. |
thats game. This dude will be tagging it in a couple weeks. |
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| ::TranceVanDyk:: |
| quote: | Originally posted by bobba lou
thats game. This dude will be tagging it in a couple weeks. |
the dude knows what he's doing. wonder how many girls he's gotten??
HE GATZ GAME |
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| SID133 |
snort the blow and let the rest fall were they may
| quote: | Originally posted by _Nut_
That is the flippin truth....
Do you think the following is true??
HOW TO TREAT A WOMAN
Wine her.
Dine her.
Call her.
Hold her.
Surprise her.
Compliment her.
Smile at her.
Listen to her.
Laugh with her.
Cry with her.
Romance her.
Encourage her.
Believe in her.
Pray with her.
Pray for her.
Cuddle with her.
Shop with her.
Give her jewelry.
Buy her flowers.
Hold her hand
Write love letters to her.
Go to the ends of the earth and back again for her.
HOW TO TREAT A MAN
Show up naked.
Bring chicken wings. |
LOL nice |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by bobba lou
thats game. This dude will be tagging it in a couple weeks. |
it seems inevitable, the flesh is weak. :wtf: |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by ZzZ The Goddess
Exactly of course it would but its just one of those things that remains unsaid. Of course you dont go tellin ur BF or GF I have a hot friend im interested in. Also saying that you werent intested if you were would be called LYING so its a lose/lose situation anyway you look it it unless you DONT mention it at all. Dont ask dont tell policy stricly enforced here! |
boy i'm glad you aren't my girlfriend...
so what if he asked you? would you tell your boyfriend yes i like them or hide it?
i guess i'm just kinda thinking that if someone else makes you question your current relationship...maybe that's a bad thing.
didn't you guys watch sleepless in seatle!! :stongue: :p |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
so what if he asked you? would you tell your boyfriend yes i like them or hide it?
i guess i'm just kinda thinking that if someone else makes you question your current relationship...maybe that's a bad thing.
didn't you guys watch sleepless in seatle!! :stongue: :p |
If your relationship isn't strong enough that you can admit to each other the reality that you're going to find other people attractive, then I wouldn't worry too much about preserving it. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
here is how i see it.
this guy, as sad as it is, probably has a secret agenda. i'm guessing he likes you, but when he found out you had a boyfriend he couldn't really go after you directly, but here is his plan. first part of that plan, that seems to be working, is to get you interested in him. you think this guy is cute and really great whatever...so what happens if you and craig have some rough time? really what if you and craig have a fight about whatever...this guy or a different part of your relationship and it gets you questioning what you have with craig...and it becomes easier for you to like this guy.
i think it really sucks, but usually i don't think guys are gonna try and be friends with girls they aren't interested in. anyway, that's just how i see it... |
so is that what you do when you're interested in a guy :stongue: |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
out of the people giving advice to keep the option open...i'm sure you'd all love to hear your boy/girlfriend had secret crushes and options open to them...
really i think that's the way to look at this slylee. if it was the other way around, would you be ok with it? if craig had a hot friend that he had great chemistry with, he wasn't going to get with her because you two were dating, but saving her for a rainy day...would that bother you? i think that'd bother me... |
i totally agree... it's wrong on so many levels.
i think it's very disrespectful to a relationship to keep another person around just in case something goes wrong. you shouldn't be in a serious relationship with someone unless you're serious about it. if you're thinking about who your next relationship is going to be with, then you obviously don't really care too much about your current one.
it's also disrespectful to the "runner-up". it's basically saying to them "well i like you but i have something better right now but if that fails, well you're the next best thing, so stick around"... i would NEVER want to be with someone knowing that i was their 2nd choice.
and the #1 reason why it's a bad idea... if you're in a relationship and something goes wrong or you break up, the LAST thing you should do is run and start a new relationship right away. people need time to heal and get over that kind of stuff, and even though rebounding makes it easier, it's not the best way to go about dealing with the situation. |
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| kr00t0n |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Sure you are. For example, if you were running the country, and you drew up a contingency plan in the event of a terrorist attack, that doesn't mean you are any less committed to preventing such an attack in the first place. |
I do not think that is a viable analogy.
The safety of a country and fullfilling the need to not be alone are 2 VERY different things.
In one, you are putting the country first.
The other you are putting yourself first. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i totally agree... it's wrong on so many levels.
i think it's very disrespectful to a relationship to keep another person around just in case something goes wrong. you shouldn't be in a serious relationship with someone unless you're serious about it. if you're thinking about who your next relationship is going to be with, then you obviously don't really care too much about your current one.
it's also disrespectful to the "runner-up". it's basically saying to them "well i like you but i have something better right now but if that fails, well you're the next best thing, so stick around"... i would NEVER want to be with someone knowing that i was their 2nd choice.
and the #1 reason why it's a bad idea... if you're in a relationship and something goes wrong or you break up, the LAST thing you should do is run and start a new relationship right away. people need time to heal and get over that kind of stuff, and even though rebounding makes it easier, it's not the best way to go about dealing with the situation. |
psssst. hey myra, if things don't work out with the RJT, you know where i post!
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