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Why Women Love bad boys (pg. 14)
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spike
this post made me lol
australian DOESSS bring up a good point tho in that women DO love drama in a relationship...my 2 cents |
I think that most people, not just women, choose mates who are essentially a reflection of their own self worth.
Why do you think women stay with guys who treat them like ? Not because they like it, but because somewhere deep down, that's how they feel they about themselves. Same with guys who stay with domineering and manipulative women.
It's gotta be...because there's no way in hell any person who truly has a high level of self worth and respect would put up with that .
When you feel like crap about yourself, it's a lot easier to settle for some dip than it is to go out and demand a mate who you feel is your equal (rather, your better). |
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| AustralianGQ |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Holy crap, bitter and jaded much? LoL. |
bitter?
absolutely. i hate most females. all the ones ive met were total bitches and i know how alot of females act and its rather sad and pathetic. |
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| AustralianGQ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Binder_Dundat
hahaha
I would suggest you work on your confidence and self esteem. |
when i can afford a therapist i will. my confidence is shot to ....but that shouldnt matter, if a girl likes u, she shouldnt blow u off b/c u are lacking self confidence and u put urself down, she should stand by ur side and support u. or maybe im just watching too many romantic comedies. |
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| AustralianGQ |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I think that most people, not just women, choose mates who are essentially a reflection of their own self worth.
Why do you think women stay with guys who treat them like ? Not because they like it, but because somewhere deep down, that's how they feel they about themselves. Same with guys who stay with domineering and manipulative women.
It's gotta be...because there's no way in hell any person who truly has a high level of self worth and respect would put up with that .
When you feel like crap about yourself, it's a lot easier to settle for some dip than it is to go out and demand a mate who you feel is your equal (rather, your better). |
i think its b/c alot of ppl are liars and play games to boost their ego and see how far they can get with someone and are conieving and manipulative and use ppl for their gain and thats why nice ppl get ed over, not b/c we want someone like us. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by AustralianGQ
i think its b/c alot of ppl are liars and play games to boost their ego and see how far they can get with someone and are conieving and manipulative and use ppl for their gain and thats why nice ppl get ed over, not b/c we want someone like us. |
What a sad, sour person you are. I don't think it's a coincidence that you've had bad luck with relationships. You get what you ask for in life my friend. ;) |
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| Abercrombie |
just like being there.
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| Binder_Dundat |
| quote: | Originally posted by AustralianGQ
when i can afford a therapist i will. my confidence is shot to ....but that shouldnt matter, if a girl likes u, she shouldnt blow u off b/c u are lacking self confidence and u put urself down, she should stand by ur side and support u. or maybe im just watching too many romantic comedies. |
Seems to me like women should be the least of your concerns at the moment. Why would anyone want to be with someone that doesn't even like themselves?
And no, you don't need a therapist. Start believing in yourself and surround yourself with positive, outgoing, happy, confident people. Moods and energies are contagious, good or bad. For me, I find going to the gym helps my mood and confidence along with many other benefits. Find something that that'll work for you and start being more positive.
ing Tony Robbins over here!! |
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| AustralianGQ |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
What a sad, sour person you are. I don't think it's a coincidence that you've had bad luck with relationships. You get what you ask for in life my friend. ;) |
not true, why should a guy who treats girls amazing, get treated like ? |
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| AustralianGQ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Binder_Dundat
Seems to me like women should be the least of your concerns at the moment. Why would anyone want to be with someone that doesn't even like themselves?
And no, you don't need a therapist. Start believing in yourself and surround yourself with positive, outgoing, happy, confident people. Moods and energies are contagious, good or bad. For me, I find going to the gym helps my mood and confidence along with many other benefits. Find something that that'll work for you and start being more positive.
ing Tony Robbins over here!! |
well ill keep looking and let u know when something good comes into my life that makes me positive and see things in a new light |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by AustralianGQ
not true, why should a guy who treats girls amazing, get treated like ? |
Do you really think you command any respect? Dude, you don't even respect yourself, how can you expect a woman to, just because you treat her amazing? There's more to it than that.
If you're getting treated like , ing leave. It's pretty simple. If you stick around to get treated poorly, that's gonna send the message that it's what you want.
God. |
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| rabbitjoker |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Women also know that a bad boy won't look down on them when he finds out what a whore she is in the bedroom. |
Great guys don't look down on their "good girls" for being hot [for him], sexy [for him] and and being good lovers [with him] (just the same as they are great companions [for him], best friends [with him], true supporters [of him] and are considered for him to be "wife-material").
Great girls don't look down on their "good guy" for liking to be intimate [with her], snuggling [with her] and making love [with her] (just the same as they are hot [with her], turned-on [by her], sexual [with her] and are considered for her to be "husband-material"). |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by rabbitjoker
Great guys don't look down on their "good girls" for being hot [for him], sexy [for him] and and being good lovers [with him] (just the same as they are great companions, best friends, true supporters and "wife-material").
Great girls don't look down on their "good guy" for liking to be intimate, snuggling, making love [with him] (just the same as they are hot [for her], being crazed [with her], have great sex [with her] and consider her "wife material"). |
Well duh, I know that! |
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