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Why Women Love bad boys (pg. 7)
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyCrew
lol pffft:)
where will I be next time with a bottle of water when you are all dehydrated at VIVA ?:) |
Right beside me, front and slightly left or right of center, dancing up a storm, probably ;)
You just won't be hugging me for a few hours. :D |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
you are just proving you are a cocky ass like the rest of them... but I presume you are onlyjoking! |
Hey now, she smiled ;) |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spam
Right beside me, front and slightly left or right of center, dancing up a storm, probably ;)
You just won't be hugging me for a few hours. :D |
:D yes you'd need to dry up a bit:) |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyCrew
:D yes you'd need to dry up a bit:) |
LOL!
Got me!
I am teh loooooozzze! |
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spam
Hey now, she smiled ;) |
:thepirate :D I know she did!
DALLAS
p.s.
What do you think about this post. It was posted on a women's forum where girls exchange advice.
If ever there was a doubt that "nice guys finish last", here you have something "straight from the horse's mouth", so to speak
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n...sg=9457.1&ctx=0
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He was perfect for me -- in every way that counted. Morally, spirituality... my family loved him.. we even graduated from the same college 2 years apart. He said ILY first...
And then it started to go downhill in August... I made a list of all the things that bothered me about him. One of those things is that we never argue. I know I know... arguing right? Who wants to argue with their significant other? But I believe that arguing also shows passion... passion for life and for our relationship. He won't yell at me, so when I go into sarcastic mode (that's just me, I'm always sarcastic), he won't dish it back at me which I desparately need someone to give back what I give them -- does anyone understand what I'm saying?
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Oh gosh I can completely understanding wanting to argue with someone! LOL. I need someone who can put me in my place sometimes and can 'stand up to me'. I also think that arguing is natural and can be healthy if you're doing it right. Holding things in and back isn't good for a relationship, you have to be expressive and sometimes 'just talking about it' doesn't get the feelings out. I dated a guy who NEVER argued or even had a strong opinion which drove me nuts. He was so placid and almost boring. |
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| Zeidoo |
Here's another study. It has numbers in it, hence it must be scientific.
TAKING A WOMAN TO BED
What is the difference between girls/woman aged: 8, 18, 28, 38, 48, 58.68, and 78 ?
At 8 -- You take her to bed and tell her a story.
At 18 -- You tell her a story and take her to bed.
At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her to bed.
At 38 -- She tells you a story and takes you to bed.
At 48 -- She tells you a story to avoid going to bed.
At 58 -- You stay in bed to avoid her story.
At 68 -- If you take her to bed, that'll be a story!
At 78 -- What story??? What bed??? Who the hell are you???
As you can see, women are clearly crazy. And alchoolism is God's way of keeping us guys sain. :toothless |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
:thepirate :D I know she did!
DALLAS
p.s.
What do you think about this post. It was posted on a women's forum where girls exchange advice.
If ever there was a doubt that "nice guys finish last", here you have something "straight from the horse's mouth", so to speak
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n...sg=9457.1&ctx=0 |
I agree with it 100% I broke up with my last g/f because she wouldn't argue with me. Followed by her lack of arguing with her parents when they bad-mouthed me when I wasn't around.
Guys need a challenge too ya know. |
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| English Rachel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spam
Pure Nice guys have this problem where they're usually trying to impress the girls they like (IOW, put on a fake act hiding who they really are to try and enhance their Nice Guy image when they should really just be themselves), and also try to rush the whole relationship, which really makes the female feel awkward. Some dude she met a week ago declaring his undying love for her probably has some issues he should deal with before getting into a relationship. The question going through her head is "I barely know your name, and you wanna spend the rest of your life with me? Who didn't hug you as a child?" Deperation is a horrible trait.
Nice guys are also very easy for women to control, which doesn't exactly get a girl all hot and bothered. Yes, a guy needs to be caring and kind to a girl, but if she's trying to walk all over the guy, he needs to know when enough is enough and stand up for himself!
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I did this and yes, it was a terrible mistake and after 6 months, he wasn't that nice of a guy. In short, everything he had pretended to be went out of the window and left me in a bit of a mess (apartment lease just started and had taken him to England to meet my friends and family (all who saw through the act too)).
Being shouted at is horrible, being screamed at is worse but you know what, them not being on your side, well, that is truly the pits.
Like they say though, everything happens for a reason and I am stronger now and believe it or not, it forced me to be more settled here so if I ever see him again, I will thank him! |
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| English Rachel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zeidoo
At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her to bed.
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Oh dear, how terribly true that is....:o |
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| Playa24_7 |
| quote: | Originally posted by sticky_shoes
now that's hawtness right there...
...pm your digits please ;) |
LOL! |
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| Spam |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
I did this and yes, it was a terrible mistake and after 6 months, he wasn't that nice of a guy. In short, everything he had pretended to be went out of the window and left me in a bit of a mess (apartment lease just started and had taken him to England to meet my friends and family (all who saw through the act too)).
Being shouted at is horrible, being screamed at is worse but you know what, them not being on your side, well, that is truly the pits.
Like they say though, everything happens for a reason and I am stronger now and believe it or not, it forced me to be more settled here so if I ever see him again, I will thank him! |
After only 6 months or sooner you were already living with him and taking him across the Atlantic to meet your family and friends? That's another thing people do wrong in their relationships. They rush EVERYTHING. But the worst mistake that can be made is they move in too soon. I move in with my girlfriend when we're married.
It's great to hear that you learned a lesson from the experience and don't hold any bitter feelings for your experience though. It's very mature, and very hard for people to learn from a bad experience and move on rather than blame others for their problems and become bitter.
I'm a bit of a blip on the outskirts of the 'normal' dating radar because I'm very picky about who I date, and it takes at least 3 months of knowing a girl for me to decide she's right for me to be dating. Most people are of the opinion that it's better to get to know a person in a relationship. But before I invest any of my time, heart and energy into a girl, I want to be fairly confident she's going to be worth it. Many girls would do well to do the same. |
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zeidoo
Here's another study. It has numbers in it, hence it must be scientific.
At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her to bed.
As you can see, women are clearly crazy. And alchoolism is God's way of keeping us guys sain. :toothless |
lol!
Alcoholism>crazy women;) |
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