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Why Women Love bad boys (pg. 2)
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| magikb |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
You can find a good guy with a streak of bad boy. Best mix! :D |
you got it right :) |
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| Misanthrope |
nevermind.
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| me@t k@tie |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
You can find a good guy with a streak of bad boy. Best mix! :D |
I agree with this. I love good guys, but with a slight hint of bad-ass in them |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by me@t k@tie
I agree with this. I love good guys, but with a slight hint of bad-ass in them |
and only in bed, rawr! |
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| dallastar |
Some books suggestions
~Love SmartFind the One you want - Fix the one you got By: Dr. Phil McGraw (yes Dr. Phil)
| quote: | As Dr. Phil says in Love Smart, there are tips you can learn to find the one you want or fix the one you got. Here are nine Love Smart strategies you can start doing today to improve your results in the romance department.
Set A Vision. Do you really know what you're looking for out there? Take the time to write down the qualities of your ideal guy. As you meet people, check how they stack up.
Cut the Chord. Saying goodbye can be so difficult. But if you know in your heart it's not working, get out now. You'll only regret it if you stick around for another year.
Recognize if He's Just Not That Into You. By now you've probably read the bestseller. If your guy is showing the classic signs of a guy who is Just Not That Into You move on and find someone who loves the real you.
Have the Talk. It's time to stop fearing "the talk." If it's meant to be, the guy will respect you for initiating the conversation.
Avoid the Ultimatum. You've got to know the difference between a talk and an ultimatum. Do your best to arrive at relationship decisions together.
Open Up the Dating Pipeline. If you're out looking for love, tell everyone you know. Don't be shy! You just might get setup by a coworker or friend. Good things come to those who tell others about the good things they desire.
Don't Sweat the Small Stuff. Like the book says, there's a difference between major personality clashes and minor differences. Breaking up over something trivial can only lead to a string of continuous breakups.
Don't Go Changing. Remember, people fear change. If your man has a few personality flaws, it's okay to let him know. But tell him in a supportive way. Offer up something you want to work on and you can grow together.
Recognize the Good Stuff. Everyone likes a pat on the back here and there. If your man does something you'd like to see happen again, let him know about it. The positive reinforcement will go a long way.
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~He's Just Not That Into You By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
| quote: | From The Publisher:
He says:
Oh sure, they say they're busy. They say that they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just that crazy. All lies. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialing, it is almost impossible not to call you. Sometimes I call people from my pants pocket when I don't even mean to. If I were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horribly busy day. Which would be a day that I would never be too busy to call you.
She says:
There is something great about knowing that my only job is to be as happy as I can be about my life, and feel as good as I can about myself, and to lead as full and eventful a life as I can, so that it doesn't ever feel like I'm just waiting around for some guy to ask me out. And most importantly, it's good for us all to remember that we don't need to scheme and plot, or beg anyone to ask us out. We're fantastic.
For ages, women have come together over coffee, cocktails or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.
He's afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he's intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.
Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that—despite good intentions—you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.
The truth may be He's just not that into you.
Unfortunately, guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel.
He's Just Not That Into You—based on a popular episode of Sex and the City—educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.
Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you."
He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe he's just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.
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| _EuG_ |
Bad boy, bad boys...
What you gonna do ????
What you gonna do when they come for you ???
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| arek |
| i heard the benefits on std treatments are great. |
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by arek
i heard the benefits on std treatments are great. | :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: |
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| rT19 |
| cuz women are women. |
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| m2j |
| "Nice guys finish last." |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by m2j
"Nice guys finish last." |
Unfortunately a lot of them do |
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