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5 Steps to Getting the Girl of Your Dreams
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| makija |
Step 1 - Finding Her
You always hear weddings are the best place to find hot single women. Is it true? Of course it is. The sight of seeing two people completely in love gets women’s hormones raging. Offer her a drink at the bar, and you’re off to a good start.
Other places to find hot single women:
Dance clubs, birthday parties, supermarkets, bookstores, outlets, libraries, grocery stores, they’re everywhere… Open your eyes and use the force!
Step 2 - Stand Out
The first step is being noticed. If the girl you’re after is truly as hot as you think she is, she’s probably being chased by several guys already. It’s time to separate yourself from the pack, and be noticed. You might not be able to change your mug (without costly plastic surgery), but you can change your appearance. Here’s some easy ways to do so:
No need to drive the hottest car in the hood, but a nice ride can win you some bonus points. Remember to clean the car and vacuum the interior before your first date. Nothing kills the mood better than old smelly trash from McDonald’s.
Money to Burn: Ferrari F430, Bugatti Veyron, Mercedes Benz SLR
On a Budget: BMW M3, Porsche 997, Lotus Elise, Audi RS4
Broke as a Joke: VW Golf R32, Honda S2000, Nissan 350Z, Audi A4
Get a watch. Why would you need a watch when your cellphone tells time and does a gazillion other things? Because a watch is a statement about your personal style. It also lets her know that time is important and being on time matters to you.
Money to Burn: Rolex, Cartier, Omega
On a Budget: Tag Heuer, Tumi, Movado
Broke as a Joke: Seiko, Timex, Diesel, Swiss Army
The most expensive item in your closet should be your shoes. They’re the foundation of every outfit, and she’s bound to check them out, so they better look good.
Money to Burn: Bally, Canali, Gucci
On a Budget: Cole Haan, Ecco, Ralph Lauren
Broke as a Joke: Sketchers, Kenneth Cole Reaction, Adidas, Puma
Step 3 - The Chase
Women love to be pursued. Lines are bad. The only one you should be using is “Hi, My name is…” Approach her with confidence, because women have a sixth sense for weakness. Don’t talk about your job, or how much you make. It’s the last thing she wants to hear (unless she’s a grubby leech, in which you’ve probably chosen the wrong girl). You’re trying to get the girl of your dreams, not a job at Google.
Keep the conversations relevant to the moment - the band that’s playing on stage, the clown in the funny looking hat, or a current movie that’s out. Keep the conversation less personal and she’ll feel less threatened. The is goal is to let her know you’re trying to get to know her and not into her pants.
Nice guys always complain that they can’t get the girls. Jerks get the girls. I admit they do. Jerks have a unique way of standing out, but they don’t last very long.
The key is to show her you’re confident without being arrogant. Stand up straight, and look into her eyes when she’s talking. Be a Gentleman. Help an old lady with her groceries to the car, or give up your seat on the bus to a single mother and child. Thoughtful and sweet guys give her hope that chivalry isn’t dead.
Step 4 - 9th Inning
A text message goes a long way after a date. Following a wonderful night, a simple text message to her cell phone with something as sweet as “goodnight, sweet dreams.” will have her melting in your arms. Follow up with a call two days later. Ask her how her days are going and mention something funny about the first time you saw her. This is your opportunity to ask her out on a second date.
When you see her again, compliment her, and make it something other than her looks. She’s heard a thousand times how pretty her eyes are. Tell her how funny she is, if she likes to crack jokes. If she’s trendy, tell her how hot her fashion sense is. Genuine compliments will be engraved in her memory forever.
Step 5 - Lock Down
When you’re out at the ice cream shop, prove that you’ve been paying attention by ordering her favorite flavor without asking. Drop off a cup of the Starbucks Mocha Frappuccino she likes so much on her lunch break at work. It’s the little things you notice, that show her how much you adore and want to be with her. Plus, it’ll make her putty in your hands.
Keep this up, and the girl of your dreams will be yours! |
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| Purple |
| Nice, I am on Step 3 for like 3 years now. |
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| Ibizadreamer AG |
| quote: | Originally posted by Purple
Nice, I am on Step 3 for like 3 years now. |
lol me too man :( |
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| Vlad |
Baume et Mercier is the watch Im going for from step three. As far as shoes, its completely BOGUS that you need to spend all your money on the shoes. The watch is the most important accessory the man should have. Do you hold a girls hand with your feet? Do you shake a mans hand with your feet? The watch is the first thing any person you greet will see, thus it should be the most important accessory.
As far as shoes, girls dont expect guys to know about fashion to that extent, as long as your close... youre fine. She'll tell you what kind of shoes to buy - this gives her something to do, her favorite thing to do... shop. The most important thing is that the shoes are comfortable, I doubt that ANY guy is gonna go out of his way to spend $1000 on shoes that arent comfortable. Kenneth Cole makes great shoes, they are comfortable, they are stylish, they are cheap - you cant go wrong, no non-golddigging woman will ever criticize you.
BTW, never let the clothes make you the man that you are. You really want to stand out, be yourself, dont dress like everyone else to try to impress her - youll impress her more if you can dress normally, and be able to talk to her like a woman, rather than a piece of ass. |
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| TweeK |
Only if it was that simple. Bwhahaha.
Imma try the whole starbucks thing, and take her favorite thing to her job. :wtf:
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Baume et Mercier is the watch Im going for from step three. As far as shoes, its completely BOGUS that you need to spend all your money on the shoes. The watch is the most important accessory the man should have. Do you hold a girls hand with your feet? Do you shake a mans hand with your feet? The watch is the first thing any person you greet will see, thus it should be the most important accessory.
As far as shoes, girls dont expect guys to know about fashion to that extent, as long as your close... youre fine. She'll tell you what kind of shoes to buy - this gives her something to do, her favorite thing to do... shop. The most important thing is that the shoes are comfortable, I doubt that ANY guy is gonna go out of his way to spend $1000 on shoes that arent comfortable. Kenneth Cole makes great shoes, they are comfortable, they are stylish, they are cheap - you cant go wrong, no non-golddigging woman will ever criticize you.
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HAHAHA. The Shoes.
This one time i went out on a date with one chick, she told me it was a huge turn off for her, that i was wearing the same shoes her brother did.
I was like wtf:conf:
I never saw her in my room again. :haha: |
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| Ibizadreamer AG |
| quote: | Originally posted by TweeK
Only if it was that simple. Bwhahaha.
Imma try the whole starbucks thing, and take her favorite thing to her job. :wtf:
HAHAHA. The Shoes.
This one time i went out on a date with one chick, she told me it was a huge turn off for her, that i was wearing the same shoes her brother did.
I was like wtf:conf:
I never saw her in my room again. :haha: |
so true..whenever i'm talking to new girls they always look at my shoes |
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| LiveTheDream |
5 Steps to Getting the shillow Girl of Your Dreams, more like,:o
I want a girl who likes me for who i am not what i have.:D |
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| Vlad |
Tweek, Ibiza, do either of you wear watches?
LiveTheDream, becareful of people who love you for who you are, its a sure sign they settle too easily. |
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| Ibizadreamer AG |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Tweek, Ibiza, do either of you wear watches?
LiveTheDream, becareful of people who love you for who you are, its a sure sign they settle too easily. |
i always wear nice shoes when i go out so i'm good in that deparment but i don't wear a watch. i've been wanting to get a dressy watch tho cause everything else in the clothing area is in check |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ibizadreamer AG
i always wear nice shoes when i go out so i'm good in that deparment but i don't wear a watch. i've been wanting to get a dressy watch tho cause everything else in the clothing area is in check |
Well, thats why the chicks look at the shoes. :p
No bling on the wrist, gotta go to the next best thing. |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Tweek, Ibiza, do either of you wear watches?
LiveTheDream, becareful of people who love you for who you are, its a sure sign they settle too easily. |
Maybe but ad raver have a girl like that then a vain girl.
All my mates dont care about what each other are dreassed in, less bitching, and no one looks down on each other.
Does it matter how much we spend on our cloths? |
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