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5 Steps to Getting the Girl of Your Dreams (pg. 6)
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| dallastar |
| this was entertaining while I am at work:p |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
i've read/heard about several 'systems' for 'picking up' women that when analyzed from an evolutionairy perspective, make perfect sense for generalities, i've seen some of them in use, and they seem to have a high success rating; my style supposedly incorporates various features from these 'systems' aswell, and i do fairly well.
p.s. the 'system' in the first post sucks. |
I think the whole "when analysed from such-and-such perspective" attitude is the problem with people who say they have a system to manipulating human behaviour. I think communication is done best by improvisation. The moment you start "analysing" I think you've gone wrong.
If someone had a "system" for communicating with me and had planned out their strategy and what they were going to say I'd probably spot it in an instant... That kind of stuff would just prevent people from acting natural and would stick out like a sore thumb. Sure it might work on some people, but I think anyone who's reasonably clue on socially (ie. the kind of girls i'm interested in) would smell something fishy straight away.
Don't prepare yourself, don't make a game plan, just go in and be spontaneous, be yourself. If you have any common sense, you won't make a fool of yourself.. if she doesn't like you then you know that it is YOUR personality she doesn't like... which means you probably weren't compatible in the first place - no loss.
Remember kids: Be yourself, cos everyone else is taken. |
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| Frenchie |
| LOL @ This thread!!!!!!! |
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| wizniz |
| quote: | Originally posted by astroboy
I think the whole "when analysed from such-and-such perspective" attitude is the problem with people who say they have a system to manipulating human behaviour. I think communication is done best by improvisation. The moment you start "analysing" I think you've gone wrong.
If someone had a "system" for communicating with me and had planned out their strategy and what they were going to say I'd probably spot it in an instant... That kind of stuff would just prevent people from acting natural and would stick out like a sore thumb. Sure it might work on some people, but I think anyone who's reasonably clue on socially (ie. the kind of girls i'm interested in) would smell something fishy straight away.
Don't prepare yourself, don't make a game plan, just go in and be spontaneous, be yourself. If you have any common sense, you won't make a fool of yourself.. if she doesn't like you then you know that it is YOUR personality she doesn't like... which means you probably weren't compatible in the first place - no loss.
Remember kids: Be yourself, cos everyone else is taken. |
yea ive read a load on psych (dont know these "systems"?). analyzing your own behavior can be healthy, but ing act on it!
that is all. |
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| Psy-T |
| quote: | Originally posted by astroboy
I think the whole "when analysed from such-and-such perspective" attitude is the problem with people who say they have a system to manipulating human behaviour. I think communication is done best by improvisation. The moment you start "analysing" I think you've gone wrong.
If someone had a "system" for communicating with me and had planned out their strategy and what they were going to say I'd probably spot it in an instant... That kind of stuff would just prevent people from acting natural and would stick out like a sore thumb. Sure it might work on some people, but I think anyone who's reasonably clue on socially (ie. the kind of girls i'm interested in) would smell something fishy straight away.
Don't prepare yourself, don't make a game plan, just go in and be spontaneous, be yourself. If you have any common sense, you won't make a fool of yourself.. if she doesn't like you then you know that it is YOUR personality she doesn't like... which means you probably weren't compatible in the first place - no loss.
Remember kids: Be yourself, cos everyone else is taken. |
i agree with you man hehe, i don't go anywhere 'prepared' to pick up chicks and i don't have a ready made plan to follow up on :p
and obviously you'd spot a static 'system' like nothing - that's cause you seem to think of a 'system' on the same level as the one posted in the begining of this thread - and that's completely wrong :p
the 'systems' i'm referring to are not about lying, they'rer about changing; they're for people who are desparate to go through a complete overhaul of their personality just for the sake of getting some sex/romance. |
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| asfdz |
| quote: | Originally posted by makija
Approach her with confidence, because women have a sixth sense for weakness. Don’t talk about your job, or how much you make. |
this is a very good point. There is nothing more unattractive than someone (man or woman) who look self-concious...you can tell simply by the way someone walks or their posture. |
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| Danny Ocean |
when i met the girl of my dreams, i came up to her while she was infront of the dj booth and said "hey do you want to come up to the terrace with me?" she replied "isnt that Behrouz right there?" and i said "honey, Behrouz is upstairs" BOOM!
then we connected and we ened up going to her apartment that same night....fell in love months later..and the rest is history. |
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| Frenchie |
It's all about :
Intelligence
confidence and
Independance.
Such turn ons. |
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| Danny Ocean |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
It's all about :
Intelligence
confidence and
Independance.
Such turn ons. |
you're such a turn on. |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Danny Ocean
you're such a turn on. |
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| Danny Ocean |
| smoooooooth operatooooooor |
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| Frenchie |
<3 lol
Awee thanks! |
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