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5 Steps to Getting the Girl of Your Dreams (pg. 8)
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
When a woman knows what she wants, picking her up with some line or flashy clothes wont work - because shes been there already. This woman knows what to look for in a genuine man. The easiest way to engage with someone like that, is to just be yourself... yes, you should look clean and dress atleast like you think you know what youre doing, and youll have no problem getting though what pickup artists call "the bitch shield".
Girls that dont know what they want, on the other hand, can be picked up because they dont know any better - they think they are finding someone cool and interesting, when infact theyve just become another number. |
Your starting to make sence:p |
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| Ivand |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
When a woman knows what she wants, picking her up with some line or flashy clothes wont work - because shes been there already. This woman knows what to look for in a genuine man. The easiest way to engage with someone like that, is to just be yourself... yes, you should look clean and dress atleast like you think you know what youre doing, and youll have no problem getting though what pickup artists call "the bitch shield".
Girls that dont know what they want, on the other hand, can be picked up because they dont know any better - they think they are finding someone cool and interesting, when infact theyve just become another number. |
the hardd thing is to find girls that know what they want |
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| Frenchie |
Trouble with alot of guys is that they think they need to try hard because they think we are all, or mostly, complicated and we don't know what we want. < although that may be true with some women, there are women who do know what they want and arn't afraid to say it. If what she wants isn't you, don't get upset ( guys usually do ) and say, " Well fu*k she said she doesn't want to be with me, bla bla bla , she just doesn't know what she want in life. ( And this all works with the sex Vise Versa)
Simplicity is beauty, and works very well.
For people who try to hard, it's because the one who's attention you're trying to get doesn't notice you, so why bother trying if you're going to have to go out of your way to be seen, noticed,and/or get your point across. |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ivand
the hardd thing is to find girls that know what they want |
No one said its easy. Its hard to find someone that is looking for a companion, regardless of their social/economic status. |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
No one said its easy. Its hard to find someone that is looking for a companion, regardless of their social/economic status. |
That's very true.
Compadability, companionship, relationship, all go together but finding someone that is willing to make it work and put time and actual effort into something that will last and is meaningful is not that easy.
Maybe some people look in the wrong place(s),Expectations may be to high, securities, self consiousness(sp), Standards. I know that standards are set for a reason, and I think they are a good thing to have ( comes with self respect as well) but if we lowered our standards just a weeeeeeeeee bit, maybe, just maybe you'd, we, everyone would find what they are looking for. |
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| Inertia |
err....... what?
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Trouble with alot of guys is that they think they need to try hard because they think we are all, or mostly, complicated and we don't know what we want. < although that may be true with some women, there are women who do know what they want and arn't afraid to say it. |
make up your mind. yes we think women mostly are complicated. you seem to disagree with this. then you say that there are 'some' women who are complicated, and there are women who know what they want.
let me tell ya, if you are lucky enough to be normal, feel proud of yourself, because these days, 4/5 girls i meet are either psycho, have a lower IQ than mayonnaise or just really have some serious issues to deal with. read me: i'm not saying men are any better, rather saying that only "some" women are complicated is ONE HELL of an understatement.
| quote: | | For people who try to hard, it's because the one who's attention you're trying to get doesn't notice you, so why bother trying if you're going to have to go out of your way to be seen, noticed,and/or get your point across. |
well, if they don't bother, they might never get a gf, subsequently a wife, and further down the road, kids. you see, it is a bit different for women. unless you are horribly disfigured, men will be around. i'm not saying you'll have much quality to pick from, but it'll be on the table. us guys gotta go out and put in the effort. it's why you have yet to see female pick up artists... PICKING MEN UP AIN'T AN ART! |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah ...self-consciousness...blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah |
FIXED. :D |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Inertia
PICKING MEN UP AIN'T AN ART! |
LOL, it's so true!
I always laugh at girls who pick up guys and think, "Wow, he really thinks I'm special!"
No he doesn't, hunny...he just wants to you, and you probably will, because you're a whore.
Muhahaha. |
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| Ivand |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
LOL, it's so true!
I always laugh at girls who pick up guys and think, "Wow, he really thinks I'm special!"
No he doesn't, hunny...he just wants to you, and you probably will, because you're a whore.
Muhahaha. |
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and lol at EXTREMUMs fixed post |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Inertia
err....... what?
let me tell ya, if you are lucky enough to be normal, feel proud of yourself, because these days, 4/5 girls i meet are either psycho, have a lower IQ than mayonnaise or just really have some serious issues to deal with. read me: i'm not saying men are any better, rather saying that only "some" women are complicated is ONE HELL of an understatement.
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I'm pretty normal, and ya I'm damn proud. Do I have issues, yes! Do I have problems? Yes. Atleast I can admit it, alot of girls can't. And as for " making up my mind" , Some ARE complicated, SOME arn't. This isn't a " MAKE UP YOUR MIND " situation, I tell it how I see it and how it is. YES, I do know a lot of women who are just not very Intelligent, I can be pretty stupid too, i'm not perfect, but there are a lot of women who are very smart, they just don't apply themselves, therefore seem to have " a lower IQ than mayonnaise " ( which I lol'd at ). I just think that some men try TOO hard and they shouldn't have to. |
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| Ivand |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
I'm pretty normal, and ya I'm damn proud. Do I have issues, yes! Do I have problems? Yes. Atleast I can admit it, alot of girls can't. And as for " making up my mind" , Some ARE complicated, SOME arn't. This isn't a " MAKE UP YOUR MIND " situation, I tell it how I see it and how it is. YES, I do know a lot of women who are just not very Intelligent, I can be pretty stupid too, i'm not perfect, but there are a lot of women who are very smart, they just don't apply themselves, therefore seem to have " a lower IQ than mayonnaise " ( which I lol'd at ). I just think that some men try TOO hard and they shouldn't have to. |
i think some of us set our standards high becuase i think is awful when you cant even have a conversation of lets say.. politics, or basic understandment of a sport or anything else but the latest hollywood divorce. Thats why most girls appears dumberr than mayo |
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