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Do all people cheat? (pg. 10)
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| Engine9 |
if you ever question "oh is this cheating?"
imagine your significant other doing what you are doing, and ask yourself how does it feel? |
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| chico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
now we're talking.
is making out with somebody else cheating?? |
what about any physical contact with intentions other than friends, for example as basic as brushing her arm with your hand
then emotionally, what about putting xox instead of just x at the end of a msg/email
where's the line? is it defined by your beliefs or your partner's beliefs of what is acceptable? |
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| Intangible |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
can i ask you something really really personal?? (im not trying to be an ass, i just wanna explore this topic further) its like superpersonal. |
ummmmm.....
sure. |
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| chico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Engine9
if you ever question "oh is this cheating?"
imagine your significant other doing what you are doing, and ask yourself how does it feel? |
what if you do something you consider innocent and would feel fine them doing but offends your partner?
generally there is a tolerable level of flirting allowed with certain people (close opposite sex friends) but not others (e.g. those who have expressed interest in more) so is it subjective? |
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| Spin Laden |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
What does 'open' mean? Sorry Kelly, I don't mean to probe but I have never really understood it.... |
she: open relationship
he: booty call
- Lennypie |
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| Xavier Moriarty |
| quote: | Originally posted by chico
what about any physical contact with intentions other than friends, for example as basic as brushing her arm with your hand
then emotionally, what about putting xox instead of just x at the end of a msg/email
where's the line? is it defined by your beliefs or your partner's beliefs of what is acceptable? |
the line is right here -----
brushing her arm can be just that, brushing her arm.
i heard so many times "well i was just making out with him/her, thats not cheating". |
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| chico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
the line is right here -----
brushing her arm can be just that, brushing her arm.
i heard so many times "well i was just making out with him/her, thats not cheating". |
but if you brush her arm, isn't dependent on what reaction you intend to get from it? if it's to make her tingle then doesn't it cross the line |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
the line is right here -----
brushing her arm can be just that, brushing her arm.
i heard so many times "well i was just making out with him/her, thats not cheating". |
most people would considering making out cheating
it is subjective, however, cheating should be any act done intentionally and morally impermissible according to boundaries mutually accepted in a relationship |
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| Engine9 |
| quote: | Originally posted by chico
but if you brush her arm, isn't dependent on what reaction you intend to get from it? if it's to make her tingle then doesn't it cross the line |
it depends what you are brushing it with |
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| chico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Intangible
ummmmm.....
sure. |
waiting for it..... |
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| Xavier Moriarty |
| quote: | Originally posted by chico
but if you brush her arm, isn't dependent on what reaction you intend to get from it? if it's to make her tingle then doesn't it cross the line |
still just brushing the arm. much different than sticking your tongue down somebody's throat |
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| MissK |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Nope. Some people these days still have a concept of honor, respect, and integrity. |
well put.
I have have absolutely no respect for cheaters. Even if they were my friends, I would slap them.
One thing I would say to them is :: KARMA BITCH. |
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