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Is too much sexual experience a turnoff? (pg. 22)
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| elFreak |
not me, i only believe in forgiveness until you get that last hate .
i figure, if i don't do it they shouldn't. ups never happen in ones. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| LoL...god, such bitter logic. |
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| Dervish |
| quote: | Originally posted by elFreak
not me, i only believe in forgiveness until you get that last hate .
i figure, if i don't do it they shouldn't. ups never happen in ones. |
But you can her where their 2's come from. :conf:
:p |
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| Axer |
| sounds like someone was abused in the childhood |
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| elFreak |
i'm not talking about making out here.
and edit: i'm a catch lol |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Axer
abused in the childhood |
LoL...there's a couple jokes in here somewhere. |
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| Axer |
| i'm not that religious lol |
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| lücid |
| for those of you who are saying you ask someone how many sexual partners they've had, do you also ask them to divulge the details of their drug and/or alcohol usage, or whether they've gotten in trouble with the law? where you do you draw the line on how deep to dig into someone's past to find out what kind of person they are (or should i say, what kind of person they used to be)? |
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| Axer |
| Straight sex, drugs, music and experienced women working it on the top :D |
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| Beat Blog |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Who said anything about being "afraid to reveal" a number? Being comfortable with your own / your partners sexuality has nothing to do with knowing how many partners they have had. The number of people they slept with should not affect your feelings for the person at all. Chances are you were attracted to the person sexually first, personality later. So what does that say about you?
How many partners you have is no indicator whatsoever about someone's commitment levels. Enjoying safe sexual activities and having a relationship are two different things. Being in the business I am, I find out a lot about personal lives. You'd be surprised how many people were very sexually active, and did not hold very many relationships because the women they met did not hold the qualities they wanted to start a relationship. So they were in their 30s, had many partners, but say only 1 or 2 serious relationships (maybe a few little ones lasting a few months but that doesn't count), but then met the right person, fell head over heels in love, and became the most wonderful, committed men.
Honestly I think you're mindset is still very young if you're insisting on knowing about past sexual/relationship history. Those kind of things do not matter as much as the compatability with the person and your lifestyles once you become a little more mature relationship-wise. |
Well said.
My best friend picked up around 60 women in 2005. At the start of 2006 he met a chick who he really liked and has been seeing her ever since and has not even thought about cheating on her. |
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| Beat Blog |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
I just wonder if the people who aren't comfortable telling their number are insecure. Are they afraid to be judged? Are they ashamed of their own sexual history?
Seems immature to me that someone would be so secretive of something like that. If you are comfortable with your own actions and your sexuality, your number shouldn't be something to keep under wraps. |
If it was me, I wouldn't tell you because I'd be worried that you'd judge me and end the relationship, as you admitted doing in the past about 4 pages back in the thread!
This is why most guys are probably reticent to proffer their number, not because they're embarrassed/ashamed about their sex history. |
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| Dervish |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beat Blog
Well said.
My best friend picked up around 60 women in 2005. At the start of 2006 he met a chick who he really liked and has been seeing her ever since and has not even thought about cheating on her. |
More than one a week...for a year? I'd say I'd be ify about the fidelity claim too. :p |
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