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Is too much sexual experience a turnoff? (pg. 25)
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| ali92 |
| quote: | Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
I've encountered a number of people who are wary of dating someone who has had "too many" partners -- what constitutes "too many" can vary depending on age and the person doing the judging...
What do you think? |
Is it also seen as a minus to have never kissed at age 23? |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by ali92
Is it also seen as a minus to have never kissed at age 23? |
Surely this isn't a serious question.
(Yes, I'm serious, and don't call me Shirley) |
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| nefardec |
| quote: | Originally posted by ali92
Is it also seen as a minus to have never kissed at age 23? |
yes
get the out and grow some balls |
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| ali92 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Surely this isn't a serious question.
(Yes, I'm serious, and don't call me Shirley) |
It actually is. I really never experienced anything like that at all. |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
yes
get the out and grow some balls and tea bag some whore with them |
fixed |
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| nefardec |
an alternative to the balls and aforementioned t-baggage is:
start going to the gym and taking steroids, taking supplements, go to the tanning booth until you are orange, and then drive around blasting hardtrance in north jersey |
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| barbina |
I don't really believe in dating. Yes.. here it comes. I'm anti-relationship ATM, I've done them, enough of them, to know they're not my thing. Sex is sex. It doesn't have to be more than that. I don't get why people have such big hang ups about it. Maybe its just me, I'm out to have fun, do what I want, and not be tied down to anything/anyone in such a serious way.
But what would I know :gsmile: |
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| UWM |
You don't even have sex, thus your opinion on the matter is null and void.
Now if we were talking about our partners scissoring too often ... |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
if they have notthing to hide, they won't have a problem telling all this info.
honesty is the best policy, even when its just getting to know someone. |
obviously honesty is a good policy, and i wouldn't have a problem telling someone the truth if they were that curious about my past... but the point i was trying to make is how deep into someone's past do some of you need to dig before you can say "ok this person meets my moral standards, now i can fall fully in love with them!" |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beat Blog
If it was me, I wouldn't tell you because I'd be worried that you'd judge me and end the relationship, as you admitted doing in the past about 4 pages back in the thread!
This is why most guys are probably reticent to proffer their number, not because they're embarrassed/ashamed about their sex history. |
If you wouldn't tell me because you were afraid I would dump you, then would you really want to be with someone like me to begin with?
I am very reasonable... I wont dump a guy right away if he has had a high number of partners, but I will evaluate it with everything else.
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I don't draw the line. I said I like to know everything (within reason)...that's just how I am. I prefer a partner who doesn't have a problem with that, because I wouldn't have a problem with them asking the same of me.
Again it just goes back to common values, and relationship goals, etc. It's an important part of intimacy for me. *shrug* |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
obviously honesty is a good policy, and i wouldn't have a problem telling someone the truth if they were that curious about my past... but the point i was trying to make is how deep into someone's past do some of you need to dig before you can say "ok this person meets my moral standards, now i can fall fully in love with them!" |
If I ask someone if they have been in jail, and they reply "yea, I was thrown into the drunk tank when I was in college", I will probably laugh and be like... haha good times.
If they say "I beat someone nearly to death one time", I will likely re-evaluate my interest in them.
Maybe it's because I have trust issues, but I want to know about a persons history so that I can make an informed guess on how they will likely be in the future.
I have met my fair share of guys who seemed amazing on the surface, but when you found out about their history, turns out they weren't such great people after all. People can be very deceptive, and if they want you to think well of them, they may mislead you in order to do that.
If someone doesn't want to be open and honest with me from the beginning regarding their past, then it just makes me think that they have something to hide, and ultimately, I don't want to be with someone I don't think I can trust. |
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| Axer |
| Is too much sexual benefits a turnoff? :haha: |
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