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Is too much sexual experience a turnoff? (pg. 27)
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| Beat Blog |
| quote: | Originally posted by narcism
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they just lie about how many ;) |
Yah...even fifteen's not that badder number, even if it seems high.
Woman could be a serial monogamist who has had constant three month relationships from age 18 to 25.
I know a few girls like that; brilliant to look at, but absolute monsters to date. They pick up guys within a month of becoming available, but the guys never last more than a few months with them. |
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| narcism |
| quote: | Originally posted by Beat Blog
but the guys never last more than a few months with them. |
story of my life :stongue: |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
obviously honesty is a good policy, and i wouldn't have a problem telling someone the truth if they were that curious about my past... but the point i was trying to make is how deep into someone's past do some of you need to dig before you can say "ok this person meets my moral standards, now i can fall fully in love with them!" |
not too deep....but if it came out later, i would feel kind of strange about it...kind of like, "why the didn't you mention this before hand?"
especially when it comes to sexual partners and seering gonorrhea |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by AustralianGQ
oh common...alot of girls may be skanky...but alot of girls out their, do not fit this ideal and have slept with less guys then i mentioned, which is a good thing...honestly do u wanna be with a girl who has slept around or is sexually permiscuous? i sure as hell dont, i want a girl with class and that doesnt inolve being 18 and being with more then 1 or 2 guys so far in her life(im 18 myself) |
So say you meet up with some girl and she tells you she has only been with one guy. You guys get on real good and date for two years and everything is great. Then you find out from a friend of hers that she has had at least 10 dicks in her and that isn't even counting the 10 or so guys she has given oral to, but since she met you she has only been with you and she loves you and only wants to be with you from now on. Do you chalk up the two years and dump her and go try and find yourself some virgin? Is she some whore now that isn't worthy of you even though for the last two years she has been great? |
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| Sunsnail |
| What a lying whore! |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
So say you meet up with some girl and she tells you she has only been with one guy. You guys get on real good and date for two years and everything is great. Then you find out from a friend of hers that she has had at least 10 dicks in her and that isn't even counting the 10 or so guys she has given oral to, but since she met you she has only been with you and she loves you and only wants to be with you from now on. Do you chalk up the two years and dump her and go try and find yourself some virgin? Is she some whore now that isn't worthy of you even though for the last two years she has been great? |
Well, now she isn't just a "whore", she is a liar too :p
LOL! |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
Well, now she isn't just a "whore", she is a liar too :p
LOL! |
lol exactly, but she only lied to him because she really really liked him and she knew he was a virgin and held the women he dated to such high moral standards. She just wanted to be able to show him that people can change and that was all just part of her past and does not effect negatively the person she is today ;) |
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| StellarDe |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
lol exactly, but she only lied to him because she really really liked him and she knew he was a virgin and held the women he dated to such high moral standards. She just wanted to be able to show him that people can change and that was all just part of her past and does not effect negatively the person she is today ;) |
'Virgin Boy' here in this story could then feel threatened by the fact that this girl wasn't completely honest with him from the start because she didn't want to hurt his feelings, making him feel inadequate in the relationship. He may then start digging into her past piece by piece until he's able to satisfy his own agenda, which could be never-ending. Relationship-breaker.
Whether people are capable of change is really the opinion of the individual themselves, i.e Virgin Boy here. If she's throws down the gauntlet and tells him everything from the start, he may appreciate her honesty, accept that the past is the past and move on thinking nothing of it, or it could go the opposite way entirely. He thinks she's an honest whore, not capable of change.
Ah well, I'm happily single so I'm just glad I don't have any dilemma to deal with at all :) |
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| get nyce |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
So say you meet up with some girl and she tells you she has only been with one guy. You guys get on real good and date for two years and everything is great. Then you find out from a friend of hers that she has had at least 10 dicks in her and that isn't even counting the 10 or so guys she has given oral to, but since she met you she has only been with you and she loves you and only wants to be with you from now on. Do you chalk up the two years and dump her and go try and find yourself some virgin? Is she some whore now that isn't worthy of you even though for the last two years she has been great? |
wouldn't you know right away that she's been with more then one guy?
i mean if i'm banging some chick who said she's only been with one other guy but some how manages to me in many different positions, i'd question her legitimacy...ok probably not and just freak the out of her but with experience comes knowledge so it won't really matter to me. |
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| StellarDe |
| quote: | Originally posted by get nyce
wouldn't you know right away that she's been with more then one guy?
i mean if i'm banging some chick who said she's only been with one other guy but some how manages to me in many different positions, i'd question her legitimacy...ok probably not and just freak the out of her but with experience comes knowledge so it won't really matter to me. |
She could of been with that one guy for a while, meaning lots of sexual experimentation. No doubt, the same sort of sex over and over again would have got a little boring at some point. |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by get nyce
wouldn't you know right away that she's been with more then one guy?
i mean if i'm banging some chick who said she's only been with one other guy but some how manages to me in many different positions, i'd question her legitimacy...ok probably not and just freak the out of her but with experience comes knowledge so it won't really matter to me. |
dude he is an 18 year old virgin he doesn't know |
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| get nyce |
| sorry i obviously am not following the thread just took a peak in and replied...and even still if she's been with one dude for a long time, same partner does not necessarily reflect sexual experience. just my 2 cents, i'll leave this huge thread now |
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