Dunno about the rest of thse fools but you have certainly changed my life and my perceptions on things. We hadn't chatted for sometime but our random conversation will be simultaneously missed and cherished. Hope you've finally found some peace, dude.
Ted Promo
Haha, I remember he used to type like Wicked Neo too. FAKE OUT
Ted Promo
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Originally posted by Rose
I wrote him a letter which may be stupid but I hope he somehow reads it.
Good plan.
Ted Promo
lol, still though.
being srs.
I mean.... 'rly?
Zild
quote:
Originally posted by Rose
It was a personal message to him, I know it's stupid but I feel a bit better after writing it to him.
It definitely isn't stupid.
verndogs
In honor of DA, we should all wear black with white socks!
RIP to a very kind and friendly man :(
Lira
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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
That depends on your definition of the afterlife.
If you believe that existence just ceases then suicide has no bearing on you as soon as you commit it. You cease to be.
You do leave behind people though. There is no DA anymore, just his shattered friends.
This isn't the place for a theological or psychological debate though Lira. Lets save this for another time.
Fair enough. Anyway, I see people posting some songs that reminds them of DA:
I know he liked it, as he commented even when I posted it sarcastically.
woscar
I thought I had never seen him post, but just checked his profile and saw his avatar and I do remember seeing his posts. I see he had a big impact on a lot of you guys, so my condolences to all.
Omega_Blue
wow, that's shocking news. my deepest condolences.
i still remember the humongous bulge pic, and the whole krysta debacle, heh. old school c0r was a different beast back in the day.
MeLLyMeL
i'm back.
everyone knows DA by his internet persona and well - yes he was dark.
I had noticed changes in him the last few times we saw each other. He had lost so much weight and I was so happy for him! One of the things bugging him the most was how overweight he got.
In december last year - I couldn't have been more happier for him. He shined and looked so young. His clothes were extremely baggy on him.
He was a great friend to me. I'm sure you guys know this. But he really was. WHENEVER I NEEDED HIM he was there for me. I can't even begin to tell you all the favors he had done for me just out of love. He was someone I could always count on.
Which kills me the most. He was there for me......... why didn't he just try to reach out to me? I always listened.
I'm flying to Miami this weekend. Extremely lucky that I had been saving a free voucher for WMC but that doesn't matter anymore. He matters alot more :(
Theresa
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Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
I disagree, sudden, selfish suicide will do nothing but hurt others. Lifes problems usually have solutions. He took the cowards way out and we are now paying for it with our grief.
Clinical depression is an actual mental illness that a lot of people suffer from. There are chemical imbalances that make it harder for some people to be happy. It can send people into delusions and sometimes even hallucinations.
Your personal opinion on the matter is absolutely ridiculous. You wouldn't be mad at a person with down's syndrome for not being able to function normally, so why would you get angry with someone who has a different mental condition who can't control their feelings?
It has nothing to do with being selfish. These people suffer day in and day out because they are physically ill. It is selfish of the people around them to think that they should just suck it up and be happy. Actually committing suicide has little to do with anyone except for that persons desire to relieve themselves of the pain that they go through.
Saying that you understand what it's like to be depressed to the extent of considering suicide is utter bull if you cannot understand this. Being really sad is not the same as a ing mental illness.
R!CH
suicide is everyone's choice to make. sucks that he made it seeing how nice he was to everyone, but maybe he wasn't after anyone's help. maybe he just wanted it to be over with.
