If all is as described then I can completely understand the starting of this thread -- if your partner is dishonest with you, and is a regular on a messageboard where he also starts threads (Valentines) with your picture then it is absolutely within her right to do the opposite, an "anti-Valentines-this-is-the-truth-as-I-see-it" kind of thread. Is it 'right'? What is 'right' really? Everyone will have a subjective view of this, myself included -- varying from those who have been in her shoes ("yea! spill the dirt!") or those who have been in his shoes ("omg! plz keep this personal!") to those that who come out of the woodwork just to give their $0.02 only to disappear back under a rock soon after. That said, I do agree it's private info but when you're hurt you're not exactly thinking completely straight and there is no absolute-best-way to handle any of these situations... too many variables of which we are not privy to.
Although...she'd probably get much better advice posting on here
infinity HiGH
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Originally posted by spitty
if I remember right, she lied about being fat
wait wait wait...so she was wearing a fat suit all this time?!?!
Sentinal
I'm not going to comment about the whole cheating thing, not my business, what I find interesting is how differently the women view things/actions as opposed to how the men view it.
Says a lot about how the different sexes react to emotional distress.
Scoops
yea in regards to cheating.....
Eating isn't Cheating
:D :D :D
Desiderata
Thanx for some entertainment this morning, it was like watching a slow moving...
StereoPrincess
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Originally posted by VDub
I still can't believe he has kids...
TEN YEARS I'VE KNOWN YOU DUDE!!!
if it is true, do you think you could keep the existence of your kid secret for so long with all your friends? it's like deleting your kid.
malek
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Originally posted by Moral Hazard
No he doesn't. AJ doesn't owe us anything. What he needs to do is protect his children from any potential damage coming from all this (assuming that the extramarital thing was not already above board with his wife). Other then that and keeping his life together he doesn't need to do .
exactly, and some of you need a serious maturity check.
In other societies this is nothing out of the ordinary, you guys make it sound like 2012!
Moral Hazard
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Originally posted by 1dawoman
So if your wife was cheating....you'd rather it continue with you not knowing anything? aiight cool. I guess we are different in that regards then...
Hellz yeah I would. I'm principally concerned with my families happiness; why the hell would I want to disrupt that?
cammaxwell
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Originally posted by StereoPrincess
whoa.
he sure disappeared from facebook quickly. lol.
wow, that is double life like i never heard it before.
remember when he was complaining about being single and looking for a gf? all while having a wife!? wow.
Although I would like to hear AJ's side of the story, as every story has two sides and what were hearing may not be accurate, I TOTALLY remember him at one of our wing nights going off about how sad he was because his girl broke up with him and how he wanted to find "the one".
I also have it on good information that Skipper is his wife and Frenchie is their love child.
Just saying...
srussell0018
So OP, I hear you're single now....
ChemEnhanced
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Originally posted by cammaxwell
I also have it on good information that Skipper is his wife and Frenchie is their love child.
Things are finally starting to piece together.
Endlesswave
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Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Hellz yeah I would. I'm principally concerned with my families happiness; why the hell would I want to disrupt that?
Um because you'd be living a ing lie???
If it my immediate family (parents) I'd say something. I would. If it were anyone else it's none of my business but otherwise it affects me directly.
It's a tough tough situation though man, kids/marriage? I had no clue...
