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What do you do when you find out you've been a MISTRESS for the past year... (pg. 20)
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by urban_legend
Del is a smart man......
I think she had the right to post it |
Oh sure she did. It's just ridiculously tacky. |
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| LKD |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
Fair enough but that's not dishonesty, she knew about it. It probably opened things up for her to do as she wanted as well. |
my point is the second paragraph which I think people are more upset about.
being secretive about such a major aspect of your life and not slipping for all these years will make anyone lose trust in said person and consequently anger them.
if you call someone 'friend', you can't hide something like that. |
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by hardcore trancer
Wonder if he'll just repond to all of this like he usually does with some stupid picture? :p |
That would be the best. I bet it would be a good one too, lol. |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by LKD
my point is the second paragraph which I think people are more upset about.
being secretive about such a major aspect of your life and not slipping for all these years will make anyone lose trust in said person and consequently anger them.
if you call someone 'friend', you can't hide something like that. |
For sure man. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
So a dishonest wife makes you a happy man? (and you wouldn't want to be told of the dishonesty?) |
In all honesty I would probably leave my wife if I ever found out she was cheating on me but that is not the real issue here. Somebody else doesn't have the right to make the decision of whether or not I want to know for me.
It would be hard to believe that you wouldn't think something was up if something like this was going on for such a long period of time. If I even had the slightest suspicion that something was up I would have to make the decision that either
a) approach my wife and ask her point blank what is going on and decide what I want to do after talking to her
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b) just pretend I don't think something is going on and live in denial, which most likely would cause the marriage to fall apart anyhow |
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| VDub |
| quote: | Originally posted by mdm8
Fun fact: She wasn't the one who told his wife. You have no idea the circumstances or the situation here and thus have no business commenting on it. gtfo |
Yah. It was her sister. Lindz called her after to apologize... |
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| FunkyCrew |
What bothers me is people saying how they found him creepy, or that he'd creep on their friends - NOW you're mentioning?! If you had a problem with his behaviour, you should have stopped talking to him then, or said something THEN
you're ing adding an insult to an injury
Sarah is 100% right - what a bunch of ing retards and gossipers. I'm losing respect for majority of you as I type. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyCrew
What bothers me is people saying how they found him creepy, or that he'd creep on their friends - NOW you're mentioning?! If you had a problem with his behaviour, you should have stopped talking to him then, or said something THEN
you're ing adding an insult to an injury
Sarah is 100% right - what a bunch of ing retards and gossipers. I'm losing respect for majority of you as I type. |
I didn't think you could loose any more respect for me :toothless |
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| LKD |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyCrew
What bothers me is people saying how they found him creepy, or that he'd creep on their friends - NOW you're mentioning?! If you had a problem with his behaviour, you should have stopped talking to him then, or said something THEN
you're ing adding an insult to an injury
Sarah is 100% right - what a bunch of ing retards and gossipers. I'm losing respect for majority of you as I type. |
I did keep my distance. All the girls who felt that way, I advised to do the same and they did. |
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by VDub
Yah. It was her sister. Lindz called her after to apologize... |
Adding details like this are so unnecessary. Honestly, what compels you to keep adding fuel to the fire? Aren't you like, 40? |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
Um because you'd be living a ing lie??? |
When I was in university I used to see an old man sitting in the park all the time. He just sat there all day talking to himself, ting his pants, and feeding the birds. Dude was crazy. I felt bad for him because, well, he was a crazy old man talking to birds whilst sitting in his own ... until one day I watched a little closer and realized that he was really happy. To him, everything was great. Now I could have said "hey, you're a crazy old man sitting in " you know; so that he could face the truth, a truth that he could never change and would just have to live with, I mean, he should really know that he's crazy right?... but that would have robbed him of his happiness. It's not a lie until the person knows the truth. |
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| Desiderata |
| quote: | Originally posted by ChemEnhanced
Somebody else doesn't have the right to make the decision of whether or not I want to know for me.
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People aren't perfect. So you are going to have to understand that while thinking outside the box more then likely someone would make that decision for you. I understand you wouldn't end up in this situation because like you stated you would be keen to the first glimpse of deception.
But pretend one of your best friends saw your wife kissing a dude at a coffee shop, wouldn't you want to be told even if kids were involved or would you be mad he told you and you didn't figure it out first? |
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