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What do you do when you find out you've been a MISTRESS for the past year... (pg. 5)
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by Capo di tutti
Whoaa...who's more ed up...way to ruin a ing family....wow, the years of anguish and sorrow these pro kids will have in a broken home over a piece of ass...wow.
Selfish. |
Thats harsh to call HER selfish and that she ruined a family. I think HE did that. It was his job to be truthful and faithful in his marriage, not a random chick who is none the wiser (albeit obviously naive). It would be completely different if the mistress was whoring out and was *aware* of the marriage, but in this case, she doesnt present it as such.
I would have told the wife. She has a right to know that her husband is a lying man-whore who has no respect or concern for his family. The wife can take the information, and then have the opportunity to stay or leave as she sees fit. Its the cheaters fault, period. |
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| mdm8 |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Thats harsh to call HER selfish and that she ruined a family. I think HE did that. It was his job to be truthful and faithful in his marriage, not a random chick who is none the wiser (albeit obviously naive). It would be completely different if the mistress was whoring out and was *aware* of the marriage, but in this case, she doesnt present it as such.
I would have told the wife. She has a right to know that her husband is a lying man-whore who has no respect or concern for his family. The wife can take the information, and then have the opportunity to stay or leave as she sees fit. Its the cheaters fault, period. |
This, although I've known OP for years and she is the furthest thing from naive. |
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| The Potter |
| Lynzi, I don't think you're the one who has broken up the family, it's his actions that have caused this - it would be like blaming his wife for the break-up, if she now chose to file for a divorce! If you had not told his wife and there had not been any consequences, who's to say he would not have met someone else. Maybe he only got the chance to start going out with you behind his family's back, after the last woman he was with also decided to keep quiet. The longer the duplicity is kept up, the more is amassed to hit the fan, which it will inevitably do. |
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| chinamon |
| quote: | Originally posted by mdm8
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honestly, dude, you're an idiot.
i will say that linsay shouldn't have posted this subject for all to see but you're a douche for getting involved. |
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| Lynzi007 |
| Agreed - I shouldn't have posted it... extremely bad form. |
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| srussell0018 |
Why does it matter if he posted who it was? She did in the first place. Granted, it's none of his business, but those who knew the couple would probably know eventually anyways, and those who don't know them shouldn't care.
This whole thread is ing ridiculous and pointless... |
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| Adamo |
i disagree...
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| Xavier Moriarty |
| quote: | Originally posted by chinamon
honestly, dude, you're an idiot.
i will say that linsay shouldn't have posted this subject for all to see but you're a douche for getting involved. |
if he's friends with her, there is no reason for him not to get involved. |
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| Capo di tutti |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Thats harsh to call HER selfish and that she ruined a family. I think HE did that. It was his job to be truthful and faithful in his marriage, not a random chick who is none the wiser (albeit obviously naive). It would be completely different if the mistress was whoring out and was *aware* of the marriage, but in this case, she doesnt present it as such.
I would have told the wife. She has a right to know that her husband is a lying man-whore who has no respect or concern for his family. The wife can take the information, and then have the opportunity to stay or leave as she sees fit. Its the cheaters fault, period. |
How about we dig deeper..living a double life is an illness, he prob. needs help.
So let him battle his demons...when there is kids involved, as put above me "Bad peace is better than good war."...you dated a guy for one year..ok I get it but to go these lengths in these circumstances...not scalable to a 1 year thing. |
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| srussell0018 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
if he's friends with her, there is no reason for him not to get involved. |
In public? By showing everyone who the thread is about? That's retarded. If he wants to get involved, go kick the guy's ass or something, don't ing tell everyone about it on the internet. That's just unnecessary.
Tell me, what is the positive that comes from his pointing out who it is on the internet? Satisfies your desire for gossip?
Canadians...:rolleyes:
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| Xavier Moriarty |
| quote: | Originally posted by srussell0018
This whole thread is ing ridiculous and pointless... |
hell hath no fury like a woman scorned! nothing ridiculous here. |
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| mdm8 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xavier Moriarty
if he's friends with her, there is no reason for him not to get involved. |
^^^
Might not directly be my business but he has deceived and hurt a very close friend of mine (OP) and if he's able to do that, who knows what else he has lied about.
If that's douchey, then guilty as charged.
EDIT: I'm not going to go "kick the guy's ass" a) because that doesn't solve anything and b) because I'm 5'10" and 21 years old. Let's be real here. |
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