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In search of romance (pg. 2)
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| Genesis Evolved |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancEyes22
and romance is DEFINITELY not about gifts. |
True, although girls don't seem to mind them :D |
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| DarkAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by DiMethGuy
STFU!!! :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: |
Her name AIN'T Toad@*. :whip: Mellow out. Jabroni.
At one time I could be considered a 'romantic,' but that was a long time ago. Would give more details but I'm on a time limit here. |
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| fr0st |
| Yeah, Im really romantic once im naked with a girl..... Then after the romance is over i go to sleep lol.... |
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| Silky Johnson |
| I'm not romantic, I'm dirty. I do like to snuggle though! |
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| DigiNut |
Romance can only stay alive when the other person is reciprocating... once we find out that we're being taken for granted, that part of us dies hard and fast.
Ask yourself how many girls you know are truly "romantic", with the definition applied in a broader sense than "liking when a guy does romantic stuff for me". Maybe then you'll have your answer why there aren't a lot of romantic guys out there. You all love to dream and to be on the receiving end, but when it comes to doing something for us that actually requires thought and care and effort, you'd rather be shopping for shoes or clubbing with your girlfriends. Obviously this isn't going to be true for every single girl, but I feel no shame in generalizing that it's true for most, at least in the teens and early 20s. If you're in that age group then ask yourself, and try to be honest, how many times have you *really* gone out of your way for a guy you liked or were in a relationship with?
Probably some guys were never romantic, but I'd hazard a guess that at least half the ones who were just don't want to try anymore. Or they are "hiding in the bushes", as says Mr. Pink, waiting for a new potential mate to indicate that they're actually capable of that kind of relationship. Part of the reason some men are only after sex is that there's really no mind games in sex, but if it turns into a relationship, we tend to get ed (and not in the good way).
And don't start with me about confidence and yada yada... I know all that but some of us are just tired of doing all the work and would rather be single than have to be some bitch's butler. |
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| fr0st |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Romance can only stay alive when the other person is reciprocating... once we find out that we're being taken for granted, that part of us dies hard and fast.
Ask yourself how many girls you know are truly "romantic", with the definition applied in a broader sense than "liking when a guy does romantic stuff for me". Maybe then you'll have your answer why there aren't a lot of romantic guys out there. You all love to dream and to be on the receiving end, but when it comes to doing something for us that actually requires thought and care and effort, you'd rather be shopping for shoes or clubbing with your girlfriends. Obviously this isn't going to be true for every single girl, but I feel no shame in generalizing that it's true for most, at least in the teens and early 20s.
Probably some guys were never romantic, but I'd hazard a guess that at least half the ones who were just don't want to try anymore. Or they are "hiding in the bushes", as says Mr. Pink, waiting for a new potential mate to indicate that they're actually capable of that kind of relationship. Part of the reason some men are only after sex is that there's really no mind games in sex, but if it turns into a relationship, we tend to get ed (and not in the good way).
And don't start with me about confidence and yada yada... I know all that but some of us are just tired of doing all the work and would rather be single than have to be some bitch's butler. |
Right on man.... Maybe when i get married ill put romance back in my life.... But for the meantime Ill stear clear of getting ed in the wrong way.. |
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| MysticStardust |
| quote: | Originally posted by DiMethGuy
It's not for me, if you do not post a pic of yourself the mods will close this thread.
And weirdo? that's a not so nice...good luck on your hunt for romance...n00b |
okey thats new... i dont have a pic of myself...why do you need a pic to make a thread anyway? thats stupid.... i never heard about that before |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by MysticStardust
okey thats new... i dont have a pic of myself...why do you neeed a pic to make a thrad anyway? thats stupid.... inever heard about that before |
He's just bullting you...
Anyway I forgot to mention one other thing:
Romantic types 90% of the time are also the jealous, possessive types, which makes perfect sense when you think about it. So if you can't pass up an opportunity to flirt, chances are you won't last too long with a romantic...
Just my thoughts though. |
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| dukes |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
He's just bullting you...
Anyway I forgot to mention one other thing:
Romantic types 90% of the time are also the jealous, possessive types, which makes perfect sense when you think about it. So if you can't pass up an opportunity to flirt, chances are you won't last too long with a romantic...
Just my thoughts though. |
hehehh thats damn right! i like doing romantic stuff and i get very very jelous....it aint just when a g/f is hanging round guys either i get jelous of any atention going anywhere too much.
i find girls like romantic guys but you have to be a dick/arogant/cocky to get close to them......ie nice guys finish last |
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| MysticStardust |
welll im talking abou being romantic to your g/f or b/f, not a stranger...just so that they go out with you...
what was the most romantic thing you did for your G/F or B/F????? |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by MysticStardust
welll im talking abou being romantic to your g/f or b/f, not a stranger...just so that they go out with you... |
So are we. :p
And I'm not gonna answer the other question. :p |
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| Iyrlk |
| quote: | Originally posted by dukes
hehehh thats damn right! i like doing romantic stuff and i get very very jelous....it aint just when a g/f is hanging round guys either i get jelous of any atention going anywhere too much.
i find girls like romantic guys but you have to be a dick/arogant/cocky to get close to them......ie nice guys finish last |
blah. another person like me.. the current gf im with was attracted to me cuz i was a dick/.. but she loves how i like to be romantic cuz i know shes the romantic type.. and yeah.. possessiveness and jealousy and insecureness also comes with being romantic.. especially when the girl isnt really on the giving side.. |
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