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spanking... (pg. 10)
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| Ygrene |
My kids will get spankings.....along with Rock-Bottoms, the Stone-Cold Stunner, Power-Bombs, and even the Camel-Clutch.
That would be kind of funny to see a dad asking his misbehaving son if he wants a Camel-Clutch right in the middle of Wal-Mart.
But seriously, I only ever got spanked like 3 times when I was a kid. All 3 times, I knew EXACTLY what it was that I had done wrong and I deserved it each time. My kids will get the same treatment and it will be reserved for the necessary situations. |
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| Aiwendil |
You should just end it all quickly with a Chokeslam followed by a Figure-Four Leglock followed by a Tombstone Piledriver. That'll teach the little bastid.
I CHANGED IT FOR TO MAKE IT BETTER! |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aiwendil
You should just end it all quickly with a Tombstone Piledriver followed by a Figure-Four Leglock. That'll teach the little bastid. |
I am a sick, sick man.....because the idea of a middle-aged dad Figure-Fouring his kid is hilarious to me. |
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| wizniz |
my dad threatened to kill me and chased me around the house red in the face but never actually did...
thx mom! :) |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aiwendil
We're not interested in knowing what your dad yelled at you when he busted you across the shoulders with a tire iron Tampax. |
Good one. |
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| eckmek |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kaidreas
^I don't see it as violence, but just as teaching them discipline.
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Dude you can't NOT see it as violence, it IS ing violence...
damn... |
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| Orbax |
| violence has the intent to abuse attached to it. Violence isnt any physical action. |
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| ::TranceVanDyk:: |
| quote: | Originally posted by Tranc3
Violence begets violence. There's no such thing as a bad student - only a bad teacher. Students only do what the teacher tells them to.
Myself, I was never spanked, don't think anyone should ever even resort to thinking about possibly spanking as discipline. There are more effective ways.
I mean, why physically harm your child when you could psychologically harm them? Physical damage is temporary, psychological damage is for life! |
i know plenty of people who were spanked as discipline and who are perfectly fine and actually are glad it happened. me included, though it does not make me happy, i know it was because of misbehavior. it crosses the line when the parent uses excessive force and leaves marks or bruises that last and spank for anything. |
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| Renegade |
If you can't think of a way to control your kids without resorting to violence, you probably shouldn't be having kids in the first place. Smacking a kid isn't going to help that kid grow up to become a functional member of society, it will take years of actual committed "parenting" (hah, fancy that!) to acheive this result. Smacking a kid doesn't teach the kid anything about why what he did was "wrong", it just teaches him to be more careful about getting caught the next time. I was "smacked" a few times as a kid (just an open palm on the behind - nothing as brutal as some of the stuff posted in this thread) and it didn't do really acheive anything, save for making me resent my parents for a few hours. My parents could always get through to me much more effectively with a simple "what you did was wrong, we're very disappointed in you" and an explanation of why what I did was wrong, rather than just belting me every time I raised their ire, for reasons that I couldn't possibly understand.
Ultimately, if you hit your kid, all you're teaching that kid that violence is the best way to assert one's authority and to solve one's problems:
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
dude, I hit OTHER people's kids when they aren't looking. Like this one time, some chick brought her kid to my house and I had the trailer hooked up to my car. I walk outside 10 minutes later and the kid had taken the safety chains off, and diconnected the trailer. The whole thing was on a hill and the metal foot that lifts the trailer off the hitch was cracking under the pressure and about to cream my frigging car.
I did a quick head swivel and then do the frigging Judo Backhand and grabbed him by his shirt and yelled at him (some swearing and threats were involved).
another time the kid actually started playing around on my motorcycle! Holy crap, atom bombs are just matter exploding out of a metal shell. I was fury exploding out of a human. That kid is a freakin sweetheart around me. I think he cries at night when he thinks about touching other people's motorcycles.
anyway, yeah I got hit as a kid, and in middle school I got my ass kicked. It fixed me right up and for males especially...understanding that there is a hierarchy in life is one of the most important lessons ever to be learned. |
QED. |
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| klingklang77 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ygrene
That would be kind of funny to see a dad asking his misbehaving son if he wants a Camel-Clutch right in the middle of Wal-Mart.
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speaking of getting hit in public places, i do remember instead of that (i never got that anyway), i would get "do you want me to tell that man over there (a store employee) that you were bad and he will then yell at you?" line. that would work far well than any hit. dont know why, but it did. i use that trick if i am watching my niece and nephews and they are misbehaving. it works like a charm and they instantly stop :D. that and around xmas time you can say, "santa is watching you...." |
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| kr00t0n |
| quote: | Originally posted by Caela
i got spanked as a little kid, and trust me, whatever i did to deserve it-i didn't do again...i think it's ok to do, but completely within reason of course. ideally, raise your kids so they don't act like brats and need to be disciplined like that. probably way easier to say than to do...but there are always those kids that you see out in public that are so insanely disrespectful that you wish their parents would backhand them across the face. but child abuse = no good...a little spankie here and there = ok. |
I completely agree.
If I was out of line, I'd get a spank, and I was intelligent enough to learn that that meant I had done something wrong and that I was not to do it again.
Humans seem to need and aspect of fear to keep them in check, be it the wrath of God, or going to jail for their crimes.
Kid's these days (in London especially) have NO respect for anything, it's sickening, and they control their parents, knowing full and well that they aren't going to be subjected to any physical punishment.
Everything in moderation folks, and that applies to a smack on the bottom. |
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| Caela |
| quote: | Originally posted by kr00t0n
Kid's these days (in London especially) have NO respect for anything, it's sickening, and they control their parents, knowing full and well that they aren't going to be subjected to any physical punishment.
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lol, u think they're bad in london? at least they're not 10 year old obese chunkers throwing tantrums in the mcdonalds line about how they can't get extra cheese on their big mac. yeah...i've seen it. |
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