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spanking... (pg. 9)
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
I didn't get spanked, smacked or hit. My parents didn't scream or yell at us either. However, they were very strict.
I think if parents are attentive, patient, and communicate clearly, spanking isn't necessary.
I agree with Nachos and Ronald.
By the way, my brothers, sisters, and I aren't monsters or criminals.
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b0p. u see!
it works if u dont spank n00bs |
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| Tranc3 |
Violence begets violence. There's no such thing as a bad student - only a bad teacher. Students only do what the teacher tells them to.
Myself, I was never spanked, don't think anyone should ever even resort to thinking about possibly spanking as discipline. There are more effective ways.
I mean, why physically harm your child when you could psychologically harm them? Physical damage is temporary, psychological damage is for life! |
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| superglo |
i didn't get spanked much as i was a kid but then again after all these years i realise that most of the lessons i learnt at an early age were because i got spanked. other lessons in life i learnt on my own a lil slowly. my parents used to sit down explain to me but it went in one ear and out the other. i remember when i was a kid my dad used to beat the out of me if i ever talked back to him but never my mom. i have a tendency to listen to my dad more. another time my lil sister was being an ass insulting me and i just gave her a slap on the back of her head and my dad went ape on me. then he explained to me that i should never ever raise my hands againts a woman. just shut up and walk away.
i have never laid hands on a woman since.
about the other things .. mmm .
i was a real problem kid. |
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| Orbax |
| I also wanted to throw out that not all people are intelligent and reasonable, and if you have a stupid kid telling him things isnt going to do much |
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| Aiwendil |
| We're not interested in knowing what your dad yelled at you when he busted you across the shoulders with a tire iron Tampax. |
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| Vlad |
| If they are old enough to talk back, they are old enough to catch a beating. |
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| ierxium |
| quote: | Originally posted by Tranc3
Violence begets violence. There's no such thing as a bad student - only a bad teacher. Students only do what the teacher tells them to.
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I'd like to disagree here.
It would be highly complicated to maintain control of an armed student who happens to be very high in class. Not high in class as high in learning or interest but high on some type of drug while in class. Yeah, that's what I meant. There are just situations when the teacher has to forget that the person in front of him/her is a student and try anything to defend his/herself from a an individual that decided to kill himself and take his teacher with him.
The risk level depends on where the teacher works. Some work in the ghetto areas while others work in the rich lomas where the risk of having a student pulling an arm and threatening you is smaller. That's just how it is.
Anyway, and going back to topic, spanking is necessary. Time-outs, taking away priviliges and everything else might be a solution for some but not for all. |
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| Caela |
| i got spanked as a little kid, and trust me, whatever i did to deserve it-i didn't do again...i think it's ok to do, but completely within reason of course. ideally, raise your kids so they don't act like brats and need to be disciplined like that. probably way easier to say than to do...but there are always those kids that you see out in public that are so insanely disrespectful that you wish their parents would backhand them across the face. but child abuse = no good...a little spankie here and there = ok. |
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| JM |
gonna spank mah little girl and have call me daddy.
>JM< |
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| Joycey |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kaidreas
^I don't see it as violence, but just as teaching them discipline.
children constantly test the parents on how far they can go. if you keep on pushing, in the end there will be no border. like I said I disagree with beating him/her with a fist and a belt. but with a flat hand against his/her head will surely help alot
and those supernanny show are great to see. but how sad to see so many parents who can't control their children. I think now a days there are to many "young parents"
in belgium there is a famous bike runner. and his daughter just gave birth to a son (I think, not sure) but she was 17... she's all over the belgian news papers and magazines.. bad example for other children (because that's what she still is) |
I dont think you can be all that harsh... Sure she shudnt a got pregnant and shes pretty stupid for downgrading the quality of her own life but mistakes do happen and most normal kids are having sex by at least the age of 16... |
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| Phortastic |
| quote: | Originally posted by Joycey
I dont think you can be all that harsh... Sure she shudnt a got pregnant and shes pretty stupid for downgrading the quality of her own life but mistakes do happen and most normal kids are having sex by at least the age of 16... |
that belgian bitch was 16 when she had the kid if im not mistaken... |
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| klingklang77 |
i got spanked, with spoons and the belt. more often the belt :(. and it hurt a lot. i got it more than i deserved. it stopped when i was 8, with one incident when i was 14. when i was 18-19, not sure, i had an argument with my dad, he raised a newspaper at me, and i just kind of laughed and said go on, do it. he didnt. i wasnt the best kid when i was young, but i sure didnt deserve it as often as i did.
that said, i dont plan on hitting my kids, i would prefer to take a different approach b/c it really doesnt work and i do think it is damaging to a child. there are just a child, and 2 wrongs dont make a right. |
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