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| LeopoldStotch |
| quote: | Originally posted by Caela
lol, u think they're bad in london? at least they're not obese chunkers. |
the obese chunkers i can deal with.
i cannot deal with the spoiled kids that cry VERY LOUDLY "i want this ... i want that" .. it is horrible .. i once worked at a retail store during a holiday stretch, and when the holidays ended, had to quit after hearing many screaming kids ... :rolleyes: ..
i was in the movie theater last night, and i can't count how many kids needed a good spanking to keep them calm .. :rolleyes: :( |
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| Caela |
| i just quit my job at American Eagle...worked there for over a year, and i can't even begin to describe the spoiled little bitch mall-rats that would come in on a daily basis. 18 year old asswipes would come in w/ their parents and scream at them for not letting them get yet ANOTHER lame t-shirt that they'd probably wear once and discard...and the parents would put their $300 purchase on their visa without a fuss, then the kids wouldn't even thank them, leave the store, their parents following them carrying out THEIR kid's bags, leaving me in disbelief because i'm 18 and live on my own, and the idea of having my parents buy me clothes is completely hysterical. that's what happens if you're a parent, never discipline your kid, and have utterly no respect for yo'self. :whip: |
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| LeopoldStotch |
| quote: | Originally posted by Caela
i just quit my job at American Eagle...worked there for over a year, and i can't even begin to describe the spoiled little bitch mall-rats that would come in on a daily basis. 18 year old asswipes would come in w/ their parents and scream at them for not letting them get yet ANOTHER lame t-shirt that they'd probably wear once and discard...and the parents would put their $300 purchase on their visa without a fuss, then the kids wouldn't even thank them, leave the store, their parents following them carrying out THEIR kid's bags, leaving me in disbelief because i'm 18 and live on my own, and the idea of having my parents buy me clothes is completely hysterical. that's what happens if you're a parent, never discipline your kid, and have utterly no respect for yo'self. :whip: |
what ?? wait ?? i had the notion that all kids in vermont are spoiled brats, because everyone in vermont were spoiled ... ?? so you're not spoiled ?? what the hell happened to you ?? :conf: :rolleyes: :o ...
hahahhahaa ... kidding ...
the top reason why i quit my job .. i had headaches coming home from those wretched teenagers screaming and goofing off ..
i give credit to clerks who work at the clothing, fast food, and music stores .. they have a lot of balls dealing with teenagers .. |
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| h0tsweetbabyd0l |
my parents spanked me when i was a kid not a lot but when i did something very bad and now i think it was a good decision u can't accept everything ....u need when u are a kid to have limits and someone who guides u otherwise u'll do some stupid and can be in troubles ....so many parents now a day let the kids do what they want and they don't know how to deal with them anymore sad thing!
even now im 20 but my mom when i go too far and talk to her in a bad way or don't respect her slap me in the face....sure i don't like that but my parents are strict with education but they are cool parents .....me and my bro they trust us and we have freedom ! |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Renegade
If you can't think of a way to control your kids without resorting to violence, you probably shouldn't be having kids in the first place. Smacking a kid isn't going to help that kid grow up to become a functional member of society, it will take years of actual committed "parenting" (hah, fancy that!) to acheive this result. Smacking a kid doesn't teach the kid anything about why what he did was "wrong", it just teaches him to be more careful about getting caught the next time. I was "smacked" a few times as a kid (just an open palm on the behind - nothing as brutal as some of the stuff posted in this thread) and it didn't do really acheive anything, save for making me resent my parents for a few hours. My parents could always get through to me much more effectively with a simple "what you did was wrong, we're very disappointed in you" and an explanation of why what I did was wrong, rather than just belting me every time I raised their ire, for reasons that I couldn't possibly understand.
Ultimately, if you hit your kid, all you're teaching that kid that violence is the best way to assert one's authority and to solve one's problems:
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well judging by this very insightful post, you seem to have a really good head on your shoulders...so obviously belting you on the ass when u were little wasn't so bad after all huh! lol
no but seriously, my mom used to wack me on the ass pretty damn good when i was little...and i was a monster! i used to thrash around in the grocery store and throw all the cans of food on the ground if i didn't get my way. hahah i'm surprised my mom didn't kill me.
she also hit me a lot when i was older which i don't really agree with, but oh well. i had an manipulative pain killer addicted stepdad who abused my mom so i think a lot of her hitting me was her frustration from him. i mean literally if i mouthed off to my mom she would just pop me one right in the face. i got used to it after a while and i even started fighting back. i mean not like really hurting her or anything, but i threw her on the couch one time after she hit me and she finally stopped after she realized i wasn't going to take it any more. she's like a totally different person now. she was just a maniac back then because of my stepdad. he was an .
as far as me and my kids (if i have any), i probably won't hit them. i'm pretty stern with kids and i'll probably be the type of mom who just has to give my kid "the look" and they will fear me. hahah it runs in my family. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
..so obviously belting you on the ass when u were little wasn't so bad after all huh! lol
no but seriously, my mom used to wack me on the ass pretty damn good when i was little... |
that would explain why you liked to get spanked in the bedroom. 
I agree when your young a good slap now and then never hurt any kid, but if its the only method a parent knows how to use thats bad. There are plenty of other ways to disipline. I know parents who don't believe in hitting and i've never seen a better behaved kid in my life. They credit it to taking a firm but active role in their child's upbringing. |
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| dinoXpress |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i agree when your young a good slap now and then never hurt any kid, |
uhh.. yeah it did. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
that would explain why you liked to get spanked in the bedroom.
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yea that's true probably. but at least i didn't end up dressing like those morons in that other thread:stongue:
i emailed it to my mom and i was like, "hey mom, don't u feel lucky i didn't turn out like this!" |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea that's true probably. but at least i didn't end up dressing like those morons in that other thread:stongue:
i emailed it to my mom and i was like, "hey mom, don't u feel lucky i didn't turn out like this!" |
its never too late to turn emo ;) |
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| nchs09 |
| SPANKING IS BAD PUToSSS:disbelief |
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| trewqy |
The whole "sit down and lets talk about what u just did" thingy doesnt work either.In my mindset..I was kinda sad and disappointed about what I did..but at the end of the day..it doesnt really work.
My parents tried that when the spanking thingy was too old for me...and I still stole my dads car twice.
But spanking does help...my dad found out I was smoking back when I was 14..and one hell of a spanking just made me quit straight away. |
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| Mr. Pink |
I was always more affected by the thought of my parents being dissappointed in me.
cuz i have always had a high regard for them.
other than that.......no spanking
but there was an incident with a sandal once :( |
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