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Why Women Love bad boys
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| dallastar |
I read this ladies blog! I thought I would share this article and if there are any similiar articles you may have! let's share...
| quote: | Women fall for "bad boys" mostly because the women are evaluating t he men on short-term considerations, instead of the long-term considerations they should be using most often in deciding whether to date (much less "fall for") the men.
Some-short term considerations that could get a woman in long-term trouble are that he is
…very exciting
…quite unconventional
…very handsome
…extravagant
…outrageous
…really spontaneous
I don't mean to say that these are negative traits. Not at all; they can be either positive or negative, depending upon who the man is, at his core.
I suggest that you seek to date, have sex with, and ultimately marry only what I call a Good Man, who has all of these four characteristics as part of his personality.
A Good Man…
• Has good values and tells the truth;
• Is conscious of what is going on in his world and of how he lives his life;
• Is a nice person (very key!), and supportive of his woman;
• Is positive, optimistic, and happy
"Bad boys" are missing one or more of these important, long-term characteristics. Good Men have all four characteristics as part of who they are. On top of that, if they are exciting, unconventional, handsome, extravagant, outrageous, and spontaneous…wow, that's great. But, if they lack good values, awareness, niceness, and positiveness, those additional considerations may well play out negatively in the long-term.
If you truly are happy thinking only of the short-term with a particular man, go ahead and get involved with Johnny Exciting-and-Handsome. But don't expect long-term happiness unless Johnny is also a Good Man. Be honest with yourself, I would tell my readers: Are you in this relationship for the short-term or the long-term?
written by Py.
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I don't know about you but I always fall for the bad boy:( |
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| Misanthrope |
| Women go for bad boys, because the good guys suck in bed. |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by Misanthrope
Women go for bad boys, because the good guys suck in bed. |
get ur facts straight Mona;) |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by Misanthrope
Women go for bad boys, because the good guys suck in bed. |
Or needs proper coaching? ;) |
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| loca |
| You can find a good guy with a streak of bad boy. Best mix! :D |
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| Fir3start3r |
| quote: | Originally posted by Misanthrope
Women go for bad boys, because the good guys suck in bed. |
Speak for yourself :p |
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
You can find a good guy with a streak of bad boy. Best mix! :D |
;) that's the spice of life;) |
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| starsearcher |
| I'm a good boy and I have plenty of girls ;) |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
I'm a good boy and I have plenty of girls ;) |
orly;) |
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| MLB |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
I read this ladies blog! I thought I would share this article and if there are any similiar articles you may have! let's share...
I don't know about you but I always fall for the bad boy:( |
you and bad boys?
:haha:
ur toooo nice and sensitive! |
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| geroin |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
You can find a good guy with a streak of bad boy. Best mix! :D |
yo that sounds just like me |
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