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Do all people cheat?
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| yankeeBaby |
Having a conversation with my cowokers, and one of them cheats on his girl left and right.....all the while the girl has literally NO clue that its been going on for 7 years +. He does the most scumbag to get away with it, too. This coworker also professes his undying love for this girl, and says he wants to marry/have kids with her, but can not stay with one woman for sexual purposes. LOL.
..... And the other people (both men AND women) in the office are saying that everyone cheats at some point, and I am almost agreeing with them.
It seems as if humans are not "made" to be monogamous for their entire lives....... despite their "love" and "commitment", it seems as if most people have faced temptation and have given in.
Opinions?
*I think there was a thead in this before but I couldnt find it.........* |
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| ChemEnhanced |
Basic animal instinct for males is to spread their seed in as many places as possible.
Basic animal instinct for females is to find the best mate to have the best offspring. |
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| ÖZmözis |
haha no only jerks...
at least break up with the person first :P
and lol @ office drama... |
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| jsibilin |
| some people get off on the thrill of getting caught... |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by ÖZmözis
haha no only jerks...
at least break up with the person first :P |
Hence why loyalty is so hard to find these days. It's one of those things money can't buy.
And yeah. Break up with the person if you're want to screw someone else.
I just don't understand the whole cheating thing. How do you answer to your conscience after you cheat on someone you supposedly love? (or you just don't have a conscience) |
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by ÖZmözis
haha no only jerks...
at least break up with the person first :P
and lol @ office drama... |
haha no office drama, he is just a guy WE all love but is a scumbag to the FULLEST. he has pulled the biggest stunts ALIVE.
Chem: so you are saying that women rarely cheat? lol looks like the men are getting fooled as well ;) Persoanlly, I know more women than men who cheat. (my experience.) |
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| yankeeBaby |
| so are you guys saying that you have never EVER cheated? (even kissed someone on a drunken evening???) |
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| No, not all people cheat. It's impossible for someone to be attracted (physically, mentally, emotionally...whatever) to one person their entire life. However, if you're in a committed relationship, while one may be attracted to another person...if they truly love their significant other, they wouldn't act on those attractions. |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
so are you guys saying that you have never EVER cheated? (even kissed someone on a drunken evening???) |
had thoughts about someone else that'd send me to hell? hell yes
cheated? no.
course, you'd have to be in enough relationships to qualify whether you're a cheater or not ;) |
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| English Rachel |
I have NEVER EVER CHEATED!!
No kisses, no sex. Not even rude thoughts! |
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| Intangible |
I really dont see the need for people to cheat. At least break up with the person first... If they arent satisfying you, move on, find someone else who will..
I really didnt think many people cheated, but as I get older I see it more and more.
And in sooo many cases its guys who are in 'very serious' relationships.
I was talking to a friend of mine who is engaged but his fiancee has been living in the states for the last 6 months. When I asked him if he has ever cheated on her (assuming he would say no cause he loves her soooo much) he looks at me like im dumb and says "ya ofcoruse, all guys cheat"
I know not ALL guys cheat, but I guess a lot do... Doesnt make me feel to excited to get into a relationship anytime soon
And NO.... I have NEVER EVER cheated, and never will. |
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| barbina |
| I'm a cheater.. but I admit to it before I do it.. so hmm.. |
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