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Dating someone who has different tastes in music (pg. 10)
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by exstasie
I actually prefer not to have someone with similar interest. When I go out I don't want to have to worry about another individual.
I don't want to have to take care of her if she's not feeling or well, or if she wants to leave early. I can arrive when I want & Leave when I want and don't to worry about some of the that people go through with their gfs at the club lol
What if it was an all access night and you wanted to listen to House, but she wants you to listen to trance (:eek: )...that could ruin your night! Plus it gets expensive if you pay for everything lol
2 tickets, drinks, parking, coat check, hot dogs, freezies, etc.
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lol. whoa. this sounds very strange. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Irishaddict
of course you can date someone with different musical taste than you. do you honestly think that you will be clubbing for the rest of your life? |
lol. this is gera we are talking about. i see gera being in the club scene forever. probably running a club one day. i dunno, i just see it. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| this is why lisa and i can't date. |
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| English Rachel |
| Stay single |
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
this is why lisa and i can't date. |
:( This makes be very sad. |
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| Knox |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
lol. whoa. this sounds very strange. |
i thought the same thing |
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| kaniz |
| quote: |
Originally posted by exstasie
I actually prefer not to have someone with similar interest. When I go out I don't want to have to worry about another individual.
I don't want to have to take care of her if she's not feeling or well, or if she wants to leave early. I can arrive when I want & Leave when I want and don't to worry about some of the that people go through with their gfs at the club lol
What if it was an all access night and you wanted to listen to House, but she wants you to listen to trance ( )...that could ruin your night! Plus it gets expensive if you pay for everything lol
2 tickets, drinks, parking, coat check, hot dogs, freezies, etc.
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wow, if your that co-dependent on each other that you guys cant even go to different rooms of the same club - then you have issues.
In terms of feeling well: Yes, that is something I'll deal with, because you know - it's my partner, and they are feeling sick - and it'd be an thing to do to send them home sick so you can keep on partying.
That said, if someone wants to leave earlier than the other person - give them a hug & kiss goodnight, and be on your way. Now and then this can lead to an awkward moment here and there, but there's been more than once where my partner has left before me, or I've left before my partner. Really, its no big deal.
Also, paying for everything - umm, maybe in the first stages of courtship, or if it's something that you really want to do - but they were not as interested in. But after any significant period of time of dating - the other person really should start paying their own way IMO.
If you have any sense of independence, 90% of what you went off about is really a non-issue. |
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| Spin Laden |
depends on if the relationship is casual (then different musical tastes may be an issue), or if it's serious (shouldn't be an issue).
Music tastes can extend to different fashion tastes, different types of friends, different types of parties, and even different types of indulgences - you know what I mean ;) . If these aspects are pulling you away from your sig other, then you have a problem, as it's difficult to juggle all of them with a non-edm gf/bf.
lol@some of the Dr Phils on here.. you're in a relationship now and all of a sudden you become one. :rolleyes: |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by kaniz
wow, if your that co-dependent on each other that you guys cant even go to different rooms of the same club - then you have issues.
In terms of feeling well: Yes, that is something I'll deal with, because you know - it's my partner, and they are feeling sick - and it'd be an thing to do to send them home sick so you can keep on partying.
That said, if someone wants to leave earlier than the other person - give them a hug & kiss goodnight, and be on your way. Now and then this can lead to an awkward moment here and there, but there's been more than once where my partner has left before me, or I've left before my partner. Really, its no big deal.
Also, paying for everything - umm, maybe in the first stages of courtship, or if it's something that you really want to do - but they were not as interested in. But after any significant period of time of dating - the other person really should start paying their own way IMO.
If you have any sense of independence, 90% of what you went off about is really a non-issue. |
thank you! I'm glad someone agrees :) |
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| ÖZmözis |
I have a sugarmama that pays for everything. I just make her look young again by accompanying her...
Kinda like in the movie Hors de prix |
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| electro88 |
| quote: | Originally posted by ÖZmözis
I have a sugarmama that pays for everything. I just make her look young again by accompanying her...
Kinda like in the movie Hors de prix |
whats that, your a whore?:wtf: |
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| The Highroller |
| Quite simply, dating someone in "the scene" is preferable for me, but most of the girls I meet at clubs are just not dating material. |
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