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Dating someone who has different tastes in music (pg. 16)
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| Djsketchbag |
| quote: | Originally posted by The Highroller
That's not what I meant though. I said that girls that I meet are not dating material for me. This is for a number of reasons:
- Lots of girls my age are still in the "honeymoon" phase of partying. As a result, it's a huge priority for them. Often, they're "caught up in it" a bit too much for my liking.
- Many girls my age have just started partying and will likely not be going to the same parties as me anyway, so there's really no benefit of them liking the same genre of music as me. (re: honeymoon phase)
- Many are not interested in dating
I keep an open mind about it, but I'm definitely not "looking" in the scene. Refer to Digi's quote:
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Totaly Agree.
But you can have a lot of fun with these girls too :toothless |
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| MissK |
| quote: | Originally posted by The Highroller
Hmmm, I don't know about this point. While I agree that it is great to share the love of music and partying with your partner, for me personally, that bond is only secondary. Primarily, the girl has to live up to my standards of values and goals. I find that many girls I meet in the scene are not compatible with me in this respect. |
Above all mutual values, morals and goals are the most important.
But being able to share my love for the music with my partner is important to me as well.
Mainly for the lifestyle. It would take a pretty special person to understand that here and there(sometimes numerous weekends in a row, depending on the DJ) I like to party all night, sometimes taking up my whole weekend.
the music does not decipher my match, but it is nice to have. :):) |
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| ÖZmözis |
| I could care less what music she likes as long as we're happy. Relationships are about adjustments... |
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| jsibilin |
| quote: | Originally posted by ÖZmözis
I could care less what music she likes as long as we're happy. Relationships are about adjustments... |
stop inhaling glue and gasoline man!!! stick to aspirin and Xanax |
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| This thread has been really interesting to hear other people's opinions and experiences of dating in or out of the scene. So diverse. |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
This thread has been really interesting to hear other people's opinions and experiences of dating in or out of the scene. So diverse. |
+1 on that
really interesting! |
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| teufel-man |
I havent read a single post in this thread..... but I am SOOOO glad my GF doesnt listen to the same type of music as me.... I would really rather not bring my GF out to EDM events, I would just be worrying the whole time about her and wouldnt be able to enjoy myself. Not saying that EDM events are overly sketchy (some are), but I just dont like bringing my GF to clubs in general, too many little things to worry about: drunk people, sleeze bags, sketchies, etc. Just not really a safe/secure environment overall.
Plus its nice to have my own thing where I can go out for a night and we can have some time apart. I dont like those couples who feel they need to do EVERYTHING together, its good to have your own interests and do things on your own once in a while.
EDIT: and in terms of what I look for in a girl, taste in music is pretty low on the priority list... although they should at least be into some type of music. There are actually some people out there who dont really even have a taste in music, I find this really odd! |
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| quote: | Originally posted by teufel-man
but I just dont like bringing my GF to clubs in general, too many little things to worry about : drunk people, sleeze bags, sketchies, etc. Just not really a safe/secure environment overall.
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I'm not at all saying that you are, but when I read that statement it makes it sound like you'd be the type of person to forbid your gf to go to clubs b/c you don't think she can take care of herself. There are plenty of girls that go to clubs alone, with boyfriends or with their friends, that have never had a serious issue with drunks, sleezes or sketchies.
Again...not saying that that's the type of person you are, that's just it could be read IMO. |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
I'm not at all saying that you are, but when I read that statement it makes it sound like you'd be the type of person to forbid your gf to go to clubs b/c you don't think she can take care of herself. There are plenty of girls that go to clubs alone, with boyfriends or with their friends, that have never had a serious issue with drunks, sleezes or sketchies.
Again...not saying that that's the type of person you are, that's just it could be read IMO. |
yeah! (Lisa, stop taking words out of my mouth :happy2: )
I don't understand why all these worrying should ruin a night of tunes for the two of them - if anything, worry more when she's out alone, with girls.. otherwise if she comes out with you, let her party and have fun, nothing's wrong with occasional hug and a "how're you doing?" and a bottle of water :) |
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| VERTiG0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by The Highroller
That's not what I meant though. I said that girls that I meet are not dating material for me. This is for a number of reasons:
- Lots of girls my age are still in the "honeymoon" phase of partying. As a result, it's a huge priority for them. Often, they're "caught up in it" a bit too much for my liking.
- Many girls my age have just started partying and will likely not be going to the same parties as me anyway, so there's really no benefit of them liking the same genre of music as me. (re: honeymoon phase)
- Many are not interested in dating
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Goddamn you just keep nailing those points dude, well put |
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| AAzn_ScratcH |
| why do you have to date? just do as they do. |
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| Capo di tutti |
Convert them.
I converted my ex from dancehall bull, and jah this and jah that to house. |
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