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Cheating (pg. 52)
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by bananas
The secret is to drink so much that you wouldn't remember you've cheated, that way your conscience is clear:gsmile: |
i pretty much dismissed it as a "drunken makeout session that didn't count".
whatever that whole relationship was like a ing acid trip or something lol some of the best times of my life and also some of the worst. |
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| DJ_Eternal |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
oh wow...some serious drama going on.
yea that whole relationship i had with paul (dj eternal, everyone) was probably the stupidest thing i've ever done. he knew from day 1 that i had doubts and wasn't really feeling it and he just pushed and pushed and pushed...to the point where i got a phone call one day with, "guess what? i just bought my ticket!" i know it's hard for a lot of people to see, but he was the selfish one in that whole mess.
oh and let's not forget the part about where he installed a key logger on my computer and a remote access thing that my friend discovered after i sent him home. lol
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This will be the first and last time I'll be posting in this thread, and I may as well get all of our sordid and not so-sordid details about our "relationship" out in the open and give these avid readers the other side of the story, as they're quite clearly keen to jump on the slylee-bandwagon of support.
I was perfectly happy to a point, so if you were unhappy with the state of the relationship, you should have had the balls to stand up and call it quits there and then, instead of cheating and not ever intending to come clean about it.
The relationship I took seriously from day one, in fact it was Jamie who proclaimed that I was her boyfriend and there's proof to substantiate that claim as well. She got mighty jealous that i'd even spoken Jenny, and basically warned me off her, after giving me some long winded story about how much of a bitch Jenny was after she had done such and such in the past to her/other people.
Where you're getting the idea from that you were "pushed" into episode after episode by me I have no clue whatsoever. Assuming your the mature, respectful woman you aspire to be, you'd have heard of the power of free will, and be able to make decisions for yourself without the need to be pushed into anything, including a relationship with me. The plane ticket that you claim I just suddenly announced out of nowhere was the result of a discussion we'd had probably most nights from January through to March.
We spoke almost every day for nigh on seven months and I visited her in December 2007 and spent New Year with her and friends... met some of her family and happily stayed there for around 10 days, before returning home. We'd then agreed together that I would move over there in March, after I'd initially wanted her to come over to the UK to cement the developing relationship for only a couple of weeks.
In February, I sensed all was not well with Jamie and asked her if everything was ok, to which she replied "Yeah, I'm just not feeling myself but it's a phase and it'll pass." Not wanting to seem pushy, I left it at that, and the phase did seem to pass after a week, with her announcing how desperate she was for me to go over there.
Got there in April and everything went well until I found a flirtatious text from Bobby on her phone about one week in (the only reason I'd even looked at her phone in the first place was because I was looking through movies that she'd recorded of her playing with her dog). I confronted her about it and she'd admitted at that point that she'd only been flirting with him and nothing further happened. I believed her, as I'd have no reason otherwise not to at that juncture, and after an argument or two, we'd decided to try and make a go of the relationship again. At that point, I hadn't even considered installing a keylogger on her computer. Only when I went to check my mail one night, she hadn't logged herself out of her hotmail account and I saw a provocatively entitled email from bobby. Call it curiousity, but I checked it and found out she had slept with him and confronted her again about it. She then confessed all and admitted she wouldn't have come clean about it if she wasn't busted.
The keylogger was a disgusting, and tasteless thing to do and it's the only thing about that whole situation that I regret, because I'd lost any chance of salvaging any sort of friendship with her. It was a shameful invasion of your privacy and I'm sorry. The only thing I'd checked on her computer was her email account, not the conversations she'd had with anyone, not her myspace, facebook, bebo... whatever, and the remote assistance was something i wasn't genuinely aware of when i got home.
I don't hate her for what she's done and at the time I didn't either, I just wish she'd come clean about her feelings to begin with, instead of allowing me to travel 4000 miles and spend a load on a plane ticket before only then confessing only after you were prompted Jamie.
This thread really has gotten out of hand. I'd told Chrissi to tone it down a little when she started making the thread a little bit too personal as the abuse you were getting wasn't warranted at the time. Up until the keylogging incident, I treated you with nothing but respect and this is what I get.
You were never going to tell me about the cheating. If you were really trying to sabotage your relationship, you would have told me the first chance you had.
Enjoy!
P.S dj_keylogger, grow up. There's a tyre and a rope out in the back garden especially for you. |
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| Sushipunk |
| And here we go.... |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
And here we go.... |
now now. i'm not gonna doooo what everyone thinks i'm gonna do....
which is FLIP OUT:LJA:LAKSJF: KDSJ:SKLDGJKLE#
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| bananas |
| I'm thinking of not going to sleep after all :D but that was a quality post by DJ_Eternal :] |
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| Frenchie |
He has as much right to give his side. And now we know...and now we can all move on to better things.
I still blame this on Chrissy. If she wouldn't have piped up about the cheating involving someone who posted on TA, none of this would have come up or happened. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
now now. i'm not gonna doooo what everyone thinks i'm gonna do....
which is FLIP OUT:LJA:LAKSJF: KDSJ:SKLDGJKLE#
:stongue: |
:haha:
You're gonna ruin our fun, aren't you? :p |
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| Slylee |
it's ok frenchie... i have no intention of trying to redeem myself to TA. i obviously dont give a what ppl think about my cheating, as i started the whole thread admitting that i have.
i obviously didn't expect all of this to happen but i'm surprisingly ok with it. what am i gonna do you know? lol it's funny. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| I think the real lesson here is: don't people from the internet. :o |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
it's ok frenchie... i have no intention of trying to redeem myself to TA. i obviously dont give a what ppl think about my cheating, as i started the whole thread admitting that i have.
i obviously didn't expect all of this to happen but i'm surprisingly ok with it. what am i gonna do you know? lol it's funny. |
At least you can further concrete your position as the 'queen of TA drama threads' :p |
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| pkcRAISTLIN |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
I think the real lesson here is: don't people from the internet. :o |
you sure it isn't that youre a nasty bitch and youre to be avoided at all costs? |
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