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Tiger Woods cheats on wife, entire country questions cheating morality (pg. 16)
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| denys envy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
you should not go about plugging every hole because you don't want to crush your girlfriend's heart! not because you need to follow some social order of things lol |
that's not my point. our society engrains within us that structure. my girlfriend is raised to believe that if i sleep with another - then it should crush her heart, as you put it. we are taught that a monogamous relationship is a sign of trust and respect and love - and all that good stuff. we accept this, because it's a social standard.
think of the polygamist approach. just because a man more than one wife, doesn't mean he loves them any less.
i do not want to cheat on my girlfriend because, yes, i know it will break her heart. but it doesn't mean i don't want to do other girls, i just know the consequences of my actions and choose not to do it. however it doesn't take away for my natural earning to everything pretty in sight. |
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| Slylee |
i want to do other guys too! lol but i don't. i'm not saying it's wrong to want to do other people, i'm saying it's wrong to act on it when you're in a committed relationship where it's understood and agreed upon that you guys will only be with each other sexually and emotionally.
it is what it is. yea you can rebel and say "oh it's just because we were born to believe that, bla bla bla" yea well human nature plays a role in all of that as well. even lions get territorial and jealous of each other. at the end of the day, people need people. it has taken over the simple need to reproduce as we've evolved. |
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| denys envy |
| that's what i'm saying. i wouldn't want my girl to sleep with other people either. |
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| ziptnf |
| In the back of almost every person's brain is the curious "what if I had sex with that person", and a little fantasy pops up. Both girls and guys. It's human nature, and it can't really be changed. I still think that it should just be a curiosity, and nothing more. If you really wanted to someone else, break up with your girlfriend and move on, don't go through all kinds of jumps and hurdles to someone else while your wife doesn't find out and have a nagging conscience that says you were unfaithful. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
you should not go about plugging every hole because you don't want to crush your girlfriend's heart! not because you need to follow some social order of things lol |
That's exactly why I'm faithful; however, the reason it would crush her is because of her socialization to believe that monogamy = love. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by ziptnf
In the back of almost every person's brain is the curious "what if I had sex with that person", and a little fantasy pops up. Both girls and guys. It's human nature, and it can't really be changed. I still think that it should just be a curiosity, and nothing more. If you really wanted to someone else, break up with your girlfriend and move on, don't go through all kinds of jumps and hurdles to someone else while your wife doesn't find out and have a nagging conscience that says you were unfaithful. |
of course it is (normal/common). i know my bf sees hot chicks in his daily life here and there and thinks, "goddamn" but that's it. ffs, he watches porn once in a while and jerks off to other women getting railed!
same with me. i've been laying in bed before and just day dreamed about ing someone else. so what. it's my secret and it's totally normal and part of human nature. i dont exactly roll over in bed and go, "hey babe, i just thought about doing so and so, it was hot!"
these are normal dirty little secrets that everyone has. sometimes if i'm feeling frisky, i'll talk dirty to my bf about a hot chick we saw earlier that night and tell him i want to lez out with her and him to do us both and it gets him hard and we have great sex because of it.
it's fun to live in fantasy land and be open minded about that stuff in relationships (to me). i don't think i could actually go through with a 3some and neither could he, so the next best thing is to just talk about it during sex. that's the farthest i'll go. a "mental 3some" if you will:stongue: |
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| simplcake |
| quote: | Originally posted by ziptnf
I think if you care about your significant other enough, you wouldn't have to stick your dick into something else, because you wouldn't want to. |
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| leph555 |
Tiger Offered $5 Million to Endorse Adultery
| quote: | TMZ has obtained a contract sent to Tiger by the people over at AshleyMadison.com -- a website for people who want to secretly cheat on their spouses -- offering him $5 million to provide services in connection with the "advertisement, endorsement, sale and promotion" of the website.
The site's honchos never call Tiger out for cheating ... they just think Tiger and his self-proclaimed "personal sins" are a perfect match for their cheeky agenda.
Now for Round Two: The porn company Vivid Entertainement is offering up their own $1 million purse ... to "any woman who has proof she was a paramour of Tiger Woods and will sign a contract with the studio."
Sounds like a raw deal.
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by denys envy
i'm sure any woman will be glad to point out that "her man would never do such a thing". |
Speak for yourself. ANY man (or woman) will cheat if the conditions are right. People only say that statement because they can't accept the fact their lover can and will cheat on them if they can get away with it. I used to date a semi-famous musician, and things were great between us, but we split up before he went back on tour because he 'couldn't promise anything wouldn't happen while being on the road for months'. |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by simplcake
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haha... awesome gif man. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Banora
ANY man (or woman) will cheat if the conditions are right. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Banora
Speak for yourself. |
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| Banora |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
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I take it you can't use 'speak for yourself' in the context I thought you could?
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