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| nchs09 |
well in my sociology class we talked about spanking and why society has moved away from it when it comes to disiplin children. now i was SERIOUSLY surprised when the professor asked the whole class
"raise ur hand if u ever got spanked as a child"
almost the whole class exept this girl and me did
and when he asked "rais ur hand if you were not spanked as a child"
both of us did.
^^^that surprised me, but THEN he asked "who thinks spanking is a way to teach disipline to a child?"
and a mindblowing number of poeple. maybe 70 out of the class of 80 said yes.
what are your thoughts, were u spanked as a child? would you spank your kids ?
sucks if u thought this was gonna be a kinky subject :p |
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| Kaidreas |
I would spank em...
you see there are to many parents, who can't control their children anymore... why? because they are spoiled...why? because parents don't dare to spank their children anymore... why? because people think it's a bad thing to do (well you don't have to beat them to death) and because your own children can take you to court for something like that.
so yes for spanking. (but don't spank them all the time) or they'll start thinking you aren't doing it to punish them:wtf: |
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| jonze234 |
| after watching super nanny i realized that you dont have to spank your child. but then again chris rock brings up a good point, i might not hit 'em but i'll shake the out 'em. |
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| Sunsnail |
| Yeah, spanking is great :disbelief |
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| DigitalPhoenix |
Well I was born in Central America and let me tell you,
much like the country folks Chris Rock talks about, my family
knew that if you did something wrong, depending on the severity
of the misdoing...you'd get a spanking ranking from 1 to 5.
5 being the type that went like this:
"You know what you've done. Go to the closet and choose the belt."
Yep, you had to choice the weapon that would be felt on your
legs 5 minutes later.
And boooy, you betta cry 'cos if you didnt...the beatdown was like
that of Goliath on David!! :eyes:
Now that I'm "growed up", I realize that was too harsh but it
sure as hell taught me discipline, which most parents now-a-days
do not enforce on their kids. And that is sad as hell.... |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kaidreas
I would spank em...
you see there are to many parents, who can't control their children anymore... why? because they are spoiled...why? because parents don't dare to spank their children anymore... why? because people think it's a bad thing to do (well you don't have to beat them to death) and because your own children can take you to court for something like that.
so yes for spanking. (but don't spank them all the time) or they'll start thinking you aren't doing it to punish them:wtf: |
u see i think parents are just to lax on disipline. but SURELY u can teach with out violence. weather it is punishing them, taking away priviliges.
kids will learn. also the bull "CASUE I TOLD U SO" attitude. gotta explain to kids |
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| Kaidreas |
^I don't see it as violence, but just as teaching them discipline.
children constantly test the parents on how far they can go. if you keep on pushing, in the end there will be no border. like I said I disagree with beating him/her with a fist and a belt. but with a flat hand against his/her head will surely help alot
and those supernanny show are great to see. but how sad to see so many parents who can't control their children. I think now a days there are to many "young parents"
in belgium there is a famous bike runner. and his daughter just gave birth to a son (I think, not sure) but she was 17... she's all over the belgian news papers and magazines.. bad example for other children (because that's what she still is) |
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| Gravgon |
I don't remember who it was, but I heard a woman say once "the best educated children are the one who had parents who didn't have any patience".
imo she was right... |
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| lacksesepsotygh |
| i never got spanked. and i turned out just ok :nervous: |
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| FallingMoon |
Seriously though, there is nothing wrong with it...In my case I was BARELY spanked...I could count on one hand the times I was...I'm the only child and I usually got away with a lot but sometimes I did stupid things and I got spanked for them...but honestly looking back on it now, I'm glad. I think it's about disciplining your child. I don't agree with beating them or anything close to that, but if they do something wrong, TALKING doesn't work all the time. I also say DON'T spank your child out of anger, it sends out a wrong message which could instill fear & it's better for a child to respect the parent than to FEAR them.
In any case, I would but only if they needed to be. I would never lose my temper and wail on them though, that's child abuse.
...plus if you don't spank your kids they may turn out like Mario :nervous:
:p I keed. |
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| weymouth |
Different children respond differently to different kinds of discipline. In my opinion parents should try out different kinds at a very early age to see which one the child responds to the easiest. If it is spanking then that is fine. If it is sitting in a corner for 5 minutes, whatever.
I do feel that hitting a child anywhere else except their behind is borderline. A good soap washing out of the mouth always works well when they talk back badly, no hits to the face.
Where it goes all wrong is when the parent does not start communicating with the child at an early age to see how he or she feels. Lack of communication and honesty between children and parents is the reason why parents have such a hard time in their child's teenage years. |
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