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| Seventil |
| quote: | Originally posted by prolikewhoa
hmm...my best advice is a friend w/ benefits. i've had these in the past and if it's just healthy sex you're looking for, a good guy friend is a nice way to go for several reasons...
1. you are attracted to eachother, but don't like eachother. this raises your self-esteem and confidence.
2. you both care about eachother, so the sex isn't meaningless, cheap, or emotionless, even though it is casual.
3. there are no pressures to feel like you need to impress him...he's your guy friend...no biggie.
the main concern in a buddy is that things will be "weird" between the two of you after the fact. for the most part, when things are weird after sex, some emotions are being with-held. in stories from friends, personal experience, etc, when you hook up w/ a guy friend (sex, kissing, foreplay...whatever) and there is tension afterwards, it's usually because you like eachother, and aren't sure how to express it, since the WHOLE point of hookin up in the first place was to be casual. but this opens up a new door for both of you that wasn't there before. i've had a couple nice friends w/ benefits experiences and i would higly recommend it if you're just sexually frustrated.
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As an ex-womanizer, I've been in this situation... pretty much my entire life.
All I can say is: DON'T DO IT! You're going down a road that will take the specialness and exclusiveness out of sex. Although I don't have any "regrets" persay... I do wish that I would have saved myself for only the women that have been special and really meant something in my life (2 or 3 of them...).
My 2 cents. It's easy to give in to sexual impulses. It takes a strong and powerful person to save it for when it really matters. |
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| UWM |
| Boomer, you're hereby banned from subsequently posting anything in this thread. |
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| ShadoWolf |
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| trancebrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
animals? |
Are you implying something? :wtf: |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
this thread is hot. |
I hate when people say hot, in Paris Hilton. |
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| anuneventrade |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Where have you been all my life? |
:D
And re-reading what I wrote last night, it seems a bit off. Anyone notice the time on that post? Nearly 5 am. I was up for almost 24 hours, and I was deleriously tired.
I have no problem with homosexuals. I work with them, and they are the best people in the world. I just hate thinking about anything anal. My gay friends were the ones who started my thinking of tendencies when THEY mentioned that that's how some guys realize they are gay, from the fact that they hate vaginal sex and love anal, and realized that they "hated" homosexuals only because they were refusing to see in themselves what they saw in them.
However, I say we get off this topic, because it's only going to produce more arguing, and we haven't flamed yet. Share stories and fantasies. Sounds good to stick to that. :) |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
No one is sticking anything up my ass. Ever. At any point and time. EVER. No matter HOW much I love you. No. Guys who like to stick it up their girlfriends ass, I'm afraid have homosexual tendencies. That is how gay men have sex. If you want to stick it up someone's ass go find a gay man. And guys that want to give it up the ass but hate gays, are not only hypocritical, but maybe they are denying their real urges.
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I never thought I'd read something so shallow from you.
Based on the fact that some people are turned on by having their ass played with, meaning that they have an erogenous zone that you don't, that makes them wrong?
Because some women masturbate, and you don't, are they also wrong?
And I'm gay because it turns me on when I my girl in the ass and she cums as a result? |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancebrat
Are you implying something? :wtf: |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Boomer, you're hereby banned from subsequently posting anything in this thread. |
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| trancebrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
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Understood. But he went outside to get some sun. Hurry and post! Quick before he comes back! :p |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancebrat
Understood. But he went outside to get some sun. Hurry and post! Quick before he comes back! :p |
thats slightly odd you perked up when I mentinoed animals.......
When was your last confession. |
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| trancebrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
thats slightly odd you perked up when I mentinoed animals.......
When was your last confession. |
Oh boy...I would say something really bad (jokingly of course), but I am an angel on TA now. All sweet and innocent! :gsmile: |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancebrat
(jokingly of course) |
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
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