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Disappointing TOTA Behavior (pg. 19)
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| [NFC]Wave |
| quote: | Originally posted by jon jon
I think that shameless plug was pretty pathetic... LOL |
Yes because it's my site? Right. How about I'm proud of my responsibilities to aid in keeping a forum in control and working properly. Yes, I'm such a terrible person. How could I. Oh goodness me.
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| El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by [NFC]Wave
Yes because it's my site? Right. How about I'm proud of my responsibilities to aid in keeping a forum in control and working properly. Yes, I'm such a terrible person. How could I. Oh goodness me.
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ur worse than wicked neo:nervous: |
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| DJ Robben |
Hey everybody, it's none of my business as to why this whole thing exploded into a orgy of badness in a sense. I just wish to say one thing.
I truely have a respect for all of you. RJ for making me laugh and showing passion when times are down, your general knowledge of most things in this world have given me hope that, hey maybe there are more people like you in this world, and that is something to look out for.
Karim, the only times i've met you, you've been nothing but cool to me. I have absolutely no reason to hold any grudges or bear any bad feelings toward you, or anyone on TA.
In saying that, there were specific reasons i came onto TA. i came here primarily to find out what was happening and where, but it didn't stop at that, you get brought into peoples' lives that you would have never thought you would even talk to on the street let alone, laugh, drink, chill party and get to know on a personal level.
That is all part and parcel of coming to a forum such as tranceaddict. I've never had better times than sitting with some of you people at wemf in the wee hours of the morning, and just shooting the on random topics. Endgame, brought me to this site in December of 2004, i'm a newbie, i dont care, a lot of you dont' know who i am, and if i passed you in a party, chances are you still wouldn't know who i was, and that's fine, those of you who have met me, and partied with me, i thank you from the bottom of my heart for bringing me closer to the core group of people i now frequent parties with.
As far as any personal hatred that happens, it's horrible to see, but in any good marriage or relationship with people, there will be rough times, but in the end, i hope it all evens out, if not, it's just a shame that we couldn't stick togther for the SOLE reason we're all still at this site, The love of music.
In closing, i just wish to again extent my deepest gratitude to those who have brought me into this world, it's unfortunate, that now, at the peak partying years, i don't have the want to walk into a room and know that there are bad vibes floating around, because regardless of what anyone thinks, it gets in your mind, than you have a worse time, do people have bad vibes about me? Probably, does it bother me? Yea. To this point, i have tried to get past that, but seeing this, just makes me think " Well if it's happening at such an elivated level, what's the point?"
If i see you all again at a party somewhere, if not, maybe this will be the last you see of me.
With much love and respect.
Mike, DJ Robben |
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| El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by jon jon
this thread will go down in history. |
Xpander...prog house or prog trance?? |
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| mushyflowa |
| quote: | Originally posted by rabbitjoker
After a wonderful weekend of music and friends I return home and check-in with my beloved TOTA to see how everybody else’s weekend has turned out. Rather than being welcomed by useful reviews and poignant conversation – I return to see the main threads of discussion have eroded into an absolute demonstration of hostile, disrespectful and hateful behavior.
These threads (and the horrible content within) have certainly put a damper on my Sunday night – as it is apparent that there are major problems with the behavior on TOTA.
It is not reasonable to expect everybody to agree on everything 100% of the time – however it seems that TOTA has moved beyond polite and intelligent discourse to an outright aggressive, “in your face” attack-response on nearly everything.
I am very disappointed and concerned with the clear lack of respect for one’s self and respect for others on TOTA.
Respect yourself! Inappropriate and immature response damages one’s reputation and discredits one’s opinions, ideas and credibility.
Respect others! We all deserve to be treated with common courtesy, politeness and patience.
GIVE RESPECT. Don’t expect any in return and don’t make excuses. Take the higher ground, be the bigger person – treat others with dignity and respect NO MATTER WHAT!
Personally knowing the majority of TOTA – I know that we are all capable of taking our generous and caring attitude from the offline world and using it as the standard for the attitude in the online world as well.
I’m not certain that this thread will even impact the behavior on TOTA, but I hope it does. I’d invite everybody who is concerned to share his or her CONSTRUCTIVE thoughts on how we can work together to improve this situation immediately (without laying blame or providing excuses please). |
im not a tota but i agree.. some shud really.. REALLY respect others.. totas and non totas..:whip: |
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| arek |
i love you totaaaaas!
let's do what jesus would do in this situation.
forgive.. or
Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone |
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| Moral Hazard |
| Ah man, morale..... I thought he meant they were bringing me down and I was thinking "wow, someone really cares about me" |
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| AwakenedAddict |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Ah man, morale..... I thought he meant they were bringing me down and I was thinking "wow, someone really cares about me" |
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| VERTiG0 |
hello budz what is goin on here ok
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| El Kay Dee |
| ^^^^dude i cant see that pic...its too small |
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| karim |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Robben
If i see you all again at a party somewhere, if not, maybe this will be the last you see of me.
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+1
It's been a downhill ride since the beginning.
:)
Karim |
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| The Highroller |
| quote: | Originally posted by [NFC]Wave
You people are pathetic. |
| quote: | | Originally posted by [NFC]Wave This is a sad and embarrassing display of humanity and I hope you all look back on yourselves over this in shame. |
Being a bit over dramatic, dont'cha think? :stongue: |
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