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My ex boyfriend (pg. 11)
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by TheVrk
Ur such a sweetie Kel.
That WILL turn off most guys however;) |
what will??? the fact that I don't have random sex with just any guy and the fact that I only want to give it up to someone I really care about???
if that's the case all boys can off!
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| DancingQueen169 |
well said Kelly!
If a guy is turned off by that, then maybe he is in it for the wrong reason. If a guy really cares about her and that is something that is important to her, then he needs to respect that and accept her for who sho is and what she believes |
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| drgoodvibe |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
what will??? the fact that I don't have random sex with just any guy and the fact that I only want to give it up to someone I really care about???
if that's the case all boys can off!
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there isn't anything wrong with that at all. I have much respect for girls like that. |
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| TheVrk |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
what will??? the fact that I don't have random sex with just any guy and the fact that I only want to give it up to someone I really care about???
if that's the case all boys can off!
:whip: |
Eh i'm not saying its ok or that i'm that way, but for the VAST
majority it's a turn-off:(
Go easy on me girl:confused: |
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| drgoodvibe |
| quote: | Originally posted by TheVrk
Eh i'm not saying its ok or that i'm that way, but for the VAST
majority it's a turn-off:(
Go easy on me girl:confused: |
I dunno dude, hate to argue about this point - but I know lots and lots of guys who dig girls who have that mentality. It's all about class! |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by TheVrk
Eh i'm not saying its ok or that i'm that way, but for the VAST
majority it's a turn-off:(
Go easy on me girl:confused: |
LOL no worries...
and well I guess I will not be getting involved with the "vast majority"
I want a man better than that. If there is no such thing, well I would rather be alone for the rest of my life. Trust me I will not be dating a guy like my Ex ever again. |
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| TheVrk |
| quote: | Originally posted by drgoodvibe
I dunno dude, hate to argue about this point - but I know lots and lots of guys who dig girls who have that mentality. It's all about class! |
So do i man, BELIEVE me.....
But "lots and lots" is still a minority, whether u believe it or not |
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| JB1 |
| I totally respect females who choose not having sex with random people coz they have self-respect. Plus that shows she has a very strong will and able to carry herself without letting guys to treat her as a piece of meat but sadly most guys do not have that kind of mentality. |
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| TheVrk |
I just wish they were all like that....
Instaed we have a bunch of dirties runnin around:( |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
I want a man better than that. |
Don't let your feelings for your ex project bitterness onto all the guys in your life. And above all, don't compare every guy you meet to your ex, because that's only going to make things more difficult in the end. I realize that it all happens at the subconscious level, but you have to consciously work to avoid it.
That's how people (girls and guys) get caught in the loop; I've seen it, I know what I'm talking about, and I'm saying this as a friend, not to judge you. |
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| TheVrk |
| Dood, u couldnt POSSIBLY have said it better:eek: |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by JB1
I totally respect females who choose not having sex with random people coz they have self-respect. Plus that shows she has a very strong will and able to carry herself without letting guys to treat her as a piece of meat but sadly most guys do not have that kind of mentality. |
exactly....
I am not saying I am miss little innocent here... BUT after dating quite a bit I have grown yup a lot to realise what I want in life. Random sex is not one of them. I have dated a lot of jerks and yes moving to fast only lead me to getting my heart crushed. I used to think being a cool gf meant you did whatever it took to make your boy happy. But honestly..if the guy isn't mature enough to wait it out for you...then he just isn't worth it.
I want something that is real. Not something that is rushed only for it to crash and burn. |
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