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My ex boyfriend (pg. 3)
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| dance2dabeat |
^^^^^^^^^^
Thank you for your words of wisdom Enraptured
But honestly..he's not trying to get me mad..trust me...that is just the way he is. He doesn't see me vending as I have only been calm to him when trying to explain to him I would rather not hear his stories. Mybe I should just freak on him....like I always did when we were dating.
That was another thing I never undertsood....no matter how much of a bitch I became..he was still always there. He even tells me he didn't mind it so much...that I am "cute" when I am mad........
I am soooo NOT CUTE when I am mad at all!
About me being with him for a reason.......well it was for all the wrong reasons. I was comforable....that is not a reason to be with someone. |
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| Swamper |
Ah, drama with the exes - Always thread worthy material.
He sounds like he knows how to push your buttons, and is getting a kick out of it - the only way for him to stop is to find a girl that'll tolerate him.
Go read this - you'll feel better. |
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| karim |
Who ever says cut off ties, I have to disagree. Some of my most meaningful friendships are with ex girlfriends. Mind you not all ex's are capable of maintaining a friendship, but you'll never know which ones are if you give up too soon.
It seems like in your case, he turned out to be somebody different than who you thought he was. I believe every relationship starts out that way, you start off by seeing the good, and then you progressively see the big picture. The big picture might not be the picture you've always envisioned on your mantle. Some people stay in bad relationships because they hold onto the good that was there early on choosing to ignore the bad that creeps up.
Personally, I can't assess/attach into anything until at least 2 months. And even then it's sketchy. Being able to control feelings from attaching onto something that's too good to be true is key for preventing eventual heartbreak. The sad thing is, it usually takes a few solid heartbreaks to come to this realization.
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Karim |
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| big_charm |
Some wise words Karim...:)
As for keeping in touch/friends with Ex's, I guess it depends on the situation. It can go either way...sometimes ppl part ways b/c they weren't meant for more than friends, sometimes they part b/c they weren't good friends let alone partners..:disbelief
Dating is just such a massive hassle! :whip:
...That is until you find 'the one' as they would say:cool: |
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| chanoa |
so would love to post......but can't
damn |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by chanoa
so would love to post......but can't
damn |
oh come on!!!!!! Share your story!!!! |
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| DJ_Science |
| quote: | Originally posted by E2EK1EL
RULE #1
Never Talk to your EXs |
That one took me a while to figure out. |
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| Sly_Guy |
| quote: | Originally posted by big_charm
Dating is just such a massive hassle! :whip:
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When it's going well, it's never a hassle, it's just fun.
But I agree with the above statement about staying detached early in the relationship. Falling too hard too fast hurts quite a bit. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
Falling too hard too fast hurts quite a bit. |
I usually get that after the 11th beer or so... once I woke up with a bloody nose and a massive headache. |
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| maxtuh |
sorry to hear that, sounds like he was just trying to make you jealous and break your heart, but dont worry, i cant say since i never had a stable relationship with 1 women(admits it), but infact with too many at a time, which obviously means men are pigs, thank god for that, and no we will never improve.:D
when you find someone who truely cares you will be happy:P |
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| big_charm |
| Hahahaha that or if your buddy has too much to drink at pool and accidentally elbow smashes you in the nose after a break...LOL:wtf: |
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| maxtuh |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
^^^^^^^^^^
Thank you for your words of wisdom Enraptured
But honestly..he's not trying to get me mad..trust me...that is just the way he is. He doesn't see me vending as I have only been calm to him when trying to explain to him I would rather not hear his stories. Mybe I should just freak on him....like I always did when we were dating.
That was another thing I never undertsood....no matter how much of a bitch I became..he was still always there. He even tells me he didn't mind it so much...that I am "cute" when I am mad........
I am soooo NOT CUTE when I am mad at all!
About me being with him for a reason.......well it was for all the wrong reasons. I was comforable....that is not a reason to be with someone. |
cute:haha: |
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