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My ex boyfriend (pg. 9)
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| Espresso |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
Its a cultural thing dude. trust me. My theory is that since we live in such a competitive society, niceness is now consider ed to be weakness. Also people automatically assume that nice people are only nice because "they want something". We have steered away from being nice just for the sake of it. Try playing the classic canadian "i dont really give a about you but i sorta do" game with a girl in another culture. She will think you a) dont like her at all and b) that you are the biggest loser on the planet.
Latin America and Europe woke me up to the fact that us North Americans can be real pricks. |
Unfortunately that is very true! :(
it took me a while to get out of the shock of learning about this sad fact.but i don't think it's necessarily a Canadian thing, it's a mentality that's spreading accross the world's mega-cities like a worm, for example i notice the same thing in Germany, specially in big cities like toronto. just think about smaller towns , that statement doesn't hold true.
As for D2DB's problem, imo you've become fixated with this man, which is exactly what he wants , so as long as you won't free yourself from this situation, there won't be any remedy, listen to Wise-Man John Tang :) :):thepirate |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorwhore
Very false. :toothless |
exactly!
no girl likes an ! No matter how hot he may be!
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| ZeroVII |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
I still can't see it. And here I thought you were just using jeff for all your guestlist needs...haha.
Because for me, a relationship should be exactly like my friendships, except with a physical component to it. |
BINGO.
Kel, I don't know why you bother putting up with it.. As posted above, he's trying to get a reaction out of you. I doubt he's pulling half the exploits he's bragging about. Just remember what we talked about a while back, and you'll be fine.
:)
~jer |
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| Cosmopolitan82 |
The question you should ask yourself... Would you still be friends with this guy, if you didnt have a past? Is this the kind of person you would normally want to have as a friend?
I know for myself, I dont like associating with people that continuously "rub it in" or try to make me feel like im losing out on something. Thats alot of negativity I dont need.
He's using you to make him feel better about himself, and thats not cool! |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| my gf, Palmela is acting like a real bitch....i wanan break up with her but i cant |
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| Jayx1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
my gf, Palmela is acting like a real bitch....i wanan break up with her but i cant |
get a rusty knife :) |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
get a rusty knife :) |
but see...if i break up wiht her, im the one losing out.....i just cant take it anymore....:( |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancechaos
one question for all the ladies.
why do you dig s and hurt the nice guys? |
Three very simple (not mutually exclusive) answers to that:
1. They hurt everyone, and the s just don't give a damn.
2. Anyone who is with the girl we're after, no matter who they are, is an in our eyes.
3. "Nice guy" is a term always applied to guys who are boring and lack confidence, but aren't even necessarily that nice.
Don't take offense - I'm not trying to insult the guys who claim to be nice guys, at all. The way I see it, there ARE no nice guys and there ARE no s. We can all be either or both depending on the time of day and the day of the week. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by DancingQueen169
I wasn't meaning it that way...I am definately not referring to all guys. I was more commenting on why guys think it's such a great thing to be with a virgin or any girl for that matter and then boast about how you are going to "nail her" stuff like that. |
I certainly don't condone over-the-top boasting (which is usually about sex), but don't tell me that when you were dating, you never bragged even a little to your friends about how you were with such a great guy.
In the context of Kelly's ex though, it's pretty obvious that it was done to spark jealous emotions. That's completely different.
In general: just avoid the mind games and you'll be fine. :) |
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| msequence |
wow this is so cool ... a thread about some crazy guy who is just too big for this world, and a smart gf who doesnt need to put up with this , and a load of responses to this that turned out to be a self help post.
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Matski |
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| Enraptured |
| quote: | Originally posted by msequence
wow this is so cool ... a thread about some crazy guy who is just too big for this world, and a smart gf who doesnt need to put up with this , and a load of responses to this that turned out to be a self help post.
Neet
Matski |
MOST threads here turn into self-help threads... because we need a lot of help!
:)
welcome to TA. |
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