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My ex boyfriend (pg. 4)
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| maxtuh |
| quote: | Originally posted by big_charm
Hahahaha that or if your buddy has too much to drink at pool and accidentally elbow smashes you in the nose after a break...LOL:wtf: |
i never knew accidents happen:D |
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| zokissima |
| Sounds like he's being really petty and childish. f*** him, move on, walk the higher ground and leave it behind you. |
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| rabbitjoker |
| Sounds like you still have feelings for him. Otherwise you (honestly) wouldn't care. |
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| fn_xtc |
| quote: | Originally posted by rabbitjoker
Sounds like you still have feelings for him. Otherwise you (honestly) wouldn't care. |
Thats the first thing that came to my mind when I read the post. |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by rabbitjoker
Sounds like you still have feelings for him. Otherwise you (honestly) wouldn't care. |
obviously I still care...it didn't end in bad terms or anything. I just knew that I would never fall in love with him no matter how hard I tried. That's why it had to end. But I still care about the guy...geez! |
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| fn_xtc |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
obviously I still care...it didn't end in bad terms or anything. I just knew that I would never fall in love with him no matter how hard I tried. That's why it had to end. But I still care about the guy...geez! |
Not to get you upset or anything, but as people have mentioned before, your ex sure knows how to push your buttons. Just let it not bother you, and turst me, you'll feel much better.
Just my 2 pesos |
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| rabbitjoker |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
obviously I still care...it didn't end in bad terms or anything. I just knew that I would never fall in love with him no matter how hard I tried. That's why it had to end. But I still care about the guy...geez! |
Sorry I didn't mean to ruffle any feathers...
Obviously you know the situation (and yourself) best. I am most likely mistaken, as I don't have any real knowledge of the situation. |
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| DancingQueen169 |
I don't necessarily agree with the severing all ties with ex's comment. Yes in some situations you need to do this, but not in all cases.
I am still friends with 1 or 2 of my ex's and others you are right I don't bother with, but they are extreme circumstances (with one for 4yrs and he cheated on me).
But for the most part, if you are going out with someone for a few months or whatever and it just didn't work out, why can't you be friends?? |
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| rabbitjoker |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
I just knew that I would never fall in love with him no matter how hard I tried. That's why it had to end. |
I'm going to be a little blunt here - but is it not because I want to be a meanie or bad dood - I'm doing it because it (unfortunately or fortunately) is reality and I hope it might help someone (and as a disclaimer: NONE of this may or may-not apply to you in a specific way - I'm just speaking generally based off your quoted comment - only you will know if it does apply. Who knows it may be of use to others to which it does apply):
If what I've quoted is the decision that has been made regarding the relationship - then it needs to be accepted (along with the resulting consequences).
It is normal to care about one another. I care about you, and many others - but caring as a friend is much different than having romantic feelings towards someone.
One can sit on the fence between "friends" and "lovers" but it often doesn't result in a happy-go-lucky outcome.
Ask the question: are there romantic feelings? Ask long, ask hard - figure it out. Make a decision and live with the consequences.
Yes - it may be hard at first, and hurtful as well. Time will heal, seperation will heal, being steadfast in the decision will heal. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by DancingQueen169
But for the most part, if you are going out with someone for a few months or whatever and it just didn't work out, why can't you be friends?? |
I think that if you've only been going out for a few months, you're still in the dating phase and not the relationship phase. There's a huge emotional difference between an ex and someone that you just went out with/fooled around with a bunch of times. |
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| rabbitjoker |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
someone that you just went out with/fooled around with a bunch of times |
So where does that leave us??? :clown: |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by rabbitjoker
So where does that leave us??? :clown: |
What a silly question RJ. Friends with benefits, of course! And by benefits, I am of course referring to the beef jerky. |
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