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My ex boyfriend (pg. 2)
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
I thought you were talking about jeff for a second.
Seriously, I don't get the whole 'but let's still be friends' thing. Maybe it's jsut me being a guy, but if you still wanna be friends with someone after a relationship doesn't that hint at the fact you were happy with him? |
No, it means you things are better off just as a friendship rather than a full on relationship. Difference. (LOL @ me giving advice on stuff like this...) |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
No, it means you things are better off just as a friendship rather than a full on relationship. Difference. (LOL @ me giving advice on stuff like this...) |
you are absolutely right there!!
Give yourself some credit :) |
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| Sly_Guy |
I still can't see it. And here I thought you were just using jeff for all your guestlist needs...haha.
Because for me, a relationship should be exactly like my friendships, except with a physical component to it. |
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| dance2dabeat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
I still can't see it. And here I thought you were just using jeff for all your guestlist needs...haha.
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haha! no no silly!
Jeff was actually my first love...the guy will always have a place in my heart.
but it doesn't hurt that He can get me on GL for BOA ;)
Cannot wait until April 2nd!!!!!!!!
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| Salem |
| yes, I am a firm believer in cutting all tye's once things go south, I had a terrible situation last year with this girl, we made each others life a living nightmare, and now we dont speak even, its kinda ty though, considering we've known each other for like 10 years, and spent alot of time together. But it's just to distructive being in contact with each other, so one has to be a man, and live on.;) |
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| Endlesswave |
| ^^^That's where there are disagreements slyguy. Some people think men and women can be friends, some don't. (This is prior to dating imo). |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sly_Guy
Because for me, a relationship should be exactly like my friendships, except with a physical component to it. |
And also a cooking and cleaning component. But other than that, exactly like friendships. :toothless |
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| Sly_Guy |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
And also a cooking and cleaning component. But other than that, exactly like friendships. :toothless |
My friends already cook and clean for me. |
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| Enraptured |
I would seriously not be so hard on yourself for this... you obviously saw something in him, or you wouldn't have been together...
I know it's hard, but try not to be bitter... :) As immediately satisfying as it can be, in the long run you'll be happier if you just let it flow around you... and past you.
You're obviously angry, and you have a right to be, it sounds like he's being a class A jerk, he's only saying all these things to you to make you mad, and prove his point, which is that you still give a ... so stop proving his point! :) I know it's easier said than done, but really, if he's being immature, just tell him calmly that you don't think you should talk any more, and then don't!
Be a rock in the river, instead of trying to dam it up, let it flow around you, instead of fighting the current.
That's about it for MY words of wisdom... very "kung fu" I know, but still, it works.
Try to focus on the positive, and you'll feel better, gauranteed. Think about how your life can go on now that you're past him.
Just a thought...
JR. |
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| loca |
Why the hell are you still talking to him? The guy sounds like the loser from hell :mad:
I'd tell him NEVER to talk to me again. Ugh, how does he tell you about that ? in nasty! :whip: |
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by E2EK1EL
RULE #1
Never Talk to your EXs |
Agreed. Mind, i also hate all my exes. Thinking about them makes me feel physically sick. :nervous: |
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| E2EK1EL |
| quote: | Originally posted by dance2dabeat
whatever!!!!!!!!!
I talk to some of my ex's as we are still really good friends.
#1 EXAMPLE................FLOORWHORE!
need I say more???????? |
I just don't bother with it at all, so many conflicts and mix feelings and etc etc etc. It's worth not being friends at all after you gone out |
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