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BF/GFs who are friends with their exes (pg. 11)
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fpcookie
if she has feelings for him you just have to trust that he will shut her down if she makes some move or whatever.
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ok but then if that's the case, then i want to know why it's worth it to him to keep her around rather than just say ah it, since he's got this great new girl he is supposedly nuts about. why would he even create this whole situation?
they don't have kids together and from what i gather, they aren't like big family friends or anything. she's just a regular ol' ex gf whom he was nothing but disfunctional with and it's only been 8 months since they broke up and she is already like living with another bf. seems to me like he was rebound or something and she just jumped into the first thing after my guy broke up with her.
if i was friends with an ex and i had this great new guy i was dating, the LAST ing thing on earth i would do is be like 'hey i want you to meet my ex bf, he is a great guy, you have nothing to worry about!"
new boyfriend > old boyfriend...i dont care what the circumstances are. i'm starting something new with the new guy, not my ex.
it's mostly just about what his priorities are and about respect. not about me thinking there is something going on. that's all.
i will be able to think more clearly about all of this once i meet her though (as u can see i'm sort of back and forth about it). that's going to be the deal breaker. i can read people and situations pretty accurately. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moongoose
Dramatic is ok, that's easy to handle and if worst comes to be, it can even be fun to handle. They are easily broken and reduced to a hysterical broken down shell of a person, and how can doing that to someone that wronged you not be fun. Unless shes one of those bat insane people that pulls out a knife in situations like this. Then your ed and not in a good way.
[/4.45am relationship advice from a high on caffeine cranky person that hasn't slept in the past 48 hours] |
lol yea dude u totally lost me. go to bed! |
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| Floorfiller |
| i am really good at being friends with girls and not making a thing out of it, but i would have to say that girls that you have actually dated that you remain close to there is probably some kind of back thought about "if things don't work out we could start up again". just my opinion. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
i am really good at being friends with girls and not making a thing out of it |
Uh yeah, because you're gay. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Uh yeah, because you're gay. |
i'm gay only for your dad |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Lol, necrophiliac. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Lol, necrophiliac. |
i like them limp and cold. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Actually my dad was cremated. You sick . |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Actually my dad was cremated. You sick . |
ok now i don't know if we're joking or not lol...you win...sorry if you're serious :( |
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| Silky Johnson |
Lol I was never joking. My dad died 14 years ago. No worries man...I wouldn't have said it if I didn't expect lulz. :p
But yes, your guilt sustains me. *rubs hands together* |
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| Vlad |
| Evil and sick all at the same time. |
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