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BF/GFs who are friends with their exes (pg. 9)
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| Ania_xox |
your friend sounds like a classy gal :toocool:
you should definitely align your opinions on this subject with her personal sluttiness |
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| KiNeTiC ENeRgY |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
your friend sounds like a classy gal :toocool:
you should definitely align your opinions on this subject with her personal sluttiness |
yes most of my friends are sluts and whores, but the theory still holds. :D |
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| Slylee |
ALL of my jealousy has to do with her, not him. does that make any sense? i know for a fact he would never cheat on me or anything like that, but it just bothers me that SHE may possibly have ulterior motives and that i'll never really know what's going through her head or what her intentions are for having ties to him still.
it's just a matter of respect for me. no i don't think they still , no i don't think he still wants her. i know these things for certain, but i'm still annoyed...at her, not him. lol |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by narcism
LOL that screams jealousy |
it also screams "disrespect" on the other chick's part. you don't text a guy who has a seriuos girlfriend at 3 a.m., i'm sorry. |
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| KiNeTiC ENeRgY |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
it also screams "disrespect" on the other chick's part. you don't text a guy who has a seriuos girlfriend at 3 a.m., i'm sorry. |
I would say girls are worse than guys when it comes to backstabbing and such, so if she is texting him a lot, she probably feels that she was with him longer than u, and she has more authority to do so. I would tell her to move on if I were you. She is obviously hanging around for some reason. |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
it also screams "disrespect" on the other chick's part. you don't text a guy who has a seriuos girlfriend at 3 a.m., i'm sorry. |
all it would take is for him to put is foot down and put a stop to all of this insanity. |
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| squirrelly |
Oof Jamie. Oof! That's all I have to say!
My ex was realllly good friends with his ex (like they talked on the phone all the time), and it drove me crazy - because I was convinced that she still had lingering feelings for him. Well, I put my concerns aside and became new bff with her. Big mistake. The minute we started having problems - she swooped in. They ended up getting drunk and spending the night together. So, yeah.
I personally, am not friends with any ex's. That's probably because they were all really, really bad break-ups. Personally, I think if the relationship is done, it's done. No need to keep it going as a friendship. One or the other made the decision to push you out of their lives - so out you, and your family goes. Then again, one of my good friends is friends with ALL of her ex's. Let me tell you - it causes some major insecurity issues with her s.o..
Thankfully, my ex's always choose to move out of state once we break up, so I don't have to worry about ex drama, and my current bf doesn't have ex drama either. :)
With all of my ex's, I always had a jealousy issue... and a bad one. However, the relationship I have now is very open, honest, and happy... so no jealousy whatsoever. We've been together a year this thursday, and I've never once blinked an eye about a girl that's a friend, or any girls that call, or any girls that he meets. Reason being: I know he loves me. I know he won't do anything to hurt me. I also know now (after experience), that if he REALLY, REAAAALLY wants to cheat, there's absolutely nothing I can do to stop it... so why stress? |
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| elFreak |
| get them pregnant and leave them always means no drama later. |
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| KiNeTiC ENeRgY |
| quote: | Originally posted by elFreak
get them pregnant and leave them always means no drama later. |
Your so wrong, guys can't get pregnant, oh wait Oprah found one :wtf: |
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| elFreak |
| no one cares what women want. |
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| KiNeTiC ENeRgY |
| quote: | Originally posted by elFreak
no one cares what women want. |
That's cause they don't even know what they want, lol. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by KiNeTiC ENeRgY
That's cause they don't even know what they want, lol. |
lol word
i'm 26 years old and so far all i know is that i want a guy who isn't passive/aggressive and who isn't scared to grab me by the hair and take charge (and i don't just mean in bed lol). |
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