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BF/GFs who are friends with their exes (pg. 15)
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| Ania_xox |
Whoa whoa whoa buddy
You can't analyze every relationship using that theoretical framework.
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
I got news for you Sylee, I’m sure he cares for his ex girlfriend more deeply then he cares for you. |
You have a solid command of the english language and your argument reads very soundly. When isolated, however, your very first sentence seems a bit farkin ridonkulous :toocool: |
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| Vivid Boy |
| heres the thing abt new relationships and ex's. if you're still attracted to your ex you shouldnt have gone head first into a new relationship anyways. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
heres the thing abt new relationships and ex's. if you're still attracted to your ex you shouldnt have gone head first into a new relationship anyways. |
which brings us to the topic of "rebounds". lol |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
which brings us to the topic of "rebounds". lol |
lol bitches. theyre all a head trip. slylee if i could shut u up and remove the left side of your brain, id marry you. |
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| spanglo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ania_xox
Whoa whoa whoa buddy
You can't analyze every relationship using that theoretical framework.
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I don’t mean to be harsh.
Her relationship mirrors one I was in recently, where the girl I was seeing couldn’t deal with the fact that I’m still close to my ex. Unfortunately the relationship ended badly because of it, which is a shame because I really cared her and was thinking long term. There was never anything for her to worry about, but no amount of convincing could change her mind. It came down to a choice, but there’s no way I’m going throw away an important person in my life for a girl I’ve only known a few months – no matter how great she seems. But how great is she really, if she wants me cut off contact with my friends for reasons not rooted in reality?
If Slylee plays her cards right she can become the number one person in his life I’m sure, but until the relationship evolves to that point she needs to be accepting of the people already in his life. To do otherwise is counter productive in my experience.
Peace. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
lol bitches. theyre all a head trip. slylee if i could shut u up and remove the left side of your brain, id marry you. |
lol assuming u have the option of marrying me. GINNIE |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
I don’t mean to be harsh.
Her relationship mirrors one I was in recently, where the girl I was seeing couldn’t deal with the fact that I’m still close to my ex. Unfortunately the relationship ended badly because of it, which is a shame because I really cared her and was thinking long term. There was never anything for her to worry about, but no amount of convincing could change her mind. It came down to a choice, but there’s no way I’m going throw away an important person in my life for a girl I’ve only known a few months – no matter how great she seems. But how great is she really, if she wants me cut off contact with my friends for reasons not rooted in reality?
If Slylee plays her cards right she can become the number one person in his life I’m sure, but until the relationship evolves to that point she needs to be accepting of the people already in his life. To do otherwise is counter productive in my experience.
Peace. |
Another thing to keep in mind is that I am venting to you guys…so just remember that. I’m being honest with myself about my insecurities but I’m also justifying them a little too. I’m babbling a lot in this thread…makes me feel better and think about it…doesn’t mean I’m making it a big issue with him. Things are “fine” as far as he is concerned and I’m really trying hard to just figure this whole situation out with the least amount of drama possible. |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
he made a comment like “oh it’s like when I met your ex”. I didn’t argue but I really wanted to be like, “umm actually it’s totally different”. Because it was! |
:stongue: been there |
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| Slylee |
| btw thanks to everyone who gave their 2 cents. it's much appreciated whether you agreed with me or not. that was kind of the whole point of sharing this with u guys. i'm all about objectiveness. |
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| Fpcookie |
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
Her relationship mirrors one I was in recently, where the girl I was seeing couldn’t deal with the fact that I’m still close to my ex. Unfortunately the relationship ended badly because of it, which is a shame because I really cared her and was thinking long term. There was never anything for her to worry about, but no amount of convincing could change her mind. It came down to a choice, but there’s no way I’m going throw away an important person in my life for a girl I’ve only known a few months – no matter how great she seems. But how great is she really, if she wants me cut off contact with my friends for reasons not rooted in reality? |
+1 |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by spanglo
Her relationship mirrors one I was in recently, where the girl I was seeing couldn’t deal with the fact that I’m still close to my ex. Unfortunately the relationship ended badly because of it, which is a shame because I really cared her and was thinking long term. There was never anything for her to worry about, but no amount of convincing could change her mind. It came down to a choice, but there’s no way I’m going throw away an important person in my life for a girl I’ve only known a few months – no matter how great she seems. But how great is she really, if she wants me cut off contact with my friends for reasons not rooted in reality?
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ya thats like my ex and me. cept she decided to give me / the ex/ good friend the boot.
I know she did it just out of spite so personally it bugs me but in the long run her |
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