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BF/GFs who are friends with their exes (pg. 6)
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| Alex |
| At least he wears pants sometimes. |
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| Project-K |
| quote: | Originally posted by Alex
At least he wears pants sometimes. |
I've heard of those. |
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| Slylee |
| damn french canadians. lol he and his roommate are always sitting around in their boxer briefs like it's nothing. i'm starting to get used to it. the best was the other night when i made dinner and the 3 of us were sitting at the table eating and halfway through the meal it dawned on me that they were both in their underwear at the dinner table with me:stongue: |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
damn french canadians. lol he and his roommate are always sitting around in their boxer briefs like it's nothing. i'm starting to get used to it. the best was the other night when i made dinner and the 3 of us were sitting at the table eating and halfway through the meal it dawned on me that they were both in their underwear at the dinner table with me:stongue: |
did you take your pants off too? |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
did you take your pants off too? |
No:p |
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| MeLLyMeL |
hell
fuk
no.
especially if the bitch cheated on him. :gsmile: |
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| Tilo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
have u had to deal with it? i am now.
i'm trying to work through it but i'm just generally a possesive/jealous type of girlfriend..HOWEVER, before you start attacking me, let me just tell you that you will never see me make a scene or act ridiculous or even act on my jealous feelings alone. that is because i realize it's my own insecurity and it's just something i have to deal with. i keep it under wraps because i know if you make a scene about jealousy, you might as well stamp "INSECURE" on your forehead and that's not something i want to do.
i told my guy it bothered me and that i would try to work through it. we had a nice calm talk about it, i wasn't like "WTF! BLA BLA BLA HER!"
i usually make a joke out of my jealousy. it's like bringing comic relief helps me deal with it and laugh at myself. i'll say something like, "yea fine we can have dinner but don't make me have to choke a bitch".
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, you are just like me :sadgreen:
jealous on the inside, "cool" on the outside :nervous: |
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| Teh Jim |
| quote: | Originally posted by The17sss
Yeah there are exceptions... I was speaking generally because I do believe in more cases than not, it's difficult to have a true friendship with zero alterior motives by one or both if you are ex's. That's just the way it goes. It's easier to do if a few years have passed without talking to your ex and you've both essentially evolved into different people. But if the breakup has been relatively recent, the reciprocal just friends thing is an illusion |
YEARS?! Jesus. I mean, I still find her attractive, but I find almost all my friends attractive in a way. Everyone at some point considers what it'd be like to get down with the people they know, or people they pass on the street, or the cop that just took their licence. It's human nature.
What you do with that is up to you, and all the weak pansies who will fracture friendships, either theirs or others, because of their own insecurity at being able to control their pants need to have a long look in a mirror for the person to blame. |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
the 2 surprises were a doggy bed for my dog and some pot. lol he is totally kicking my dog out of my thread. |
btw, i told you so. :p |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Teh Jim
YEARS?! Jesus. I mean, I still find her attractive, but I find almost all my friends attractive in a way. Everyone at some point considers what it'd be like to get down with the people they know, or people they pass on the street, or the cop that just took their licence. It's human nature.
What you do with that is up to you, and all the weak pansies who will fracture friendships, either theirs or others, because of their own insecurity at being able to control their pants need to have a long look in a mirror for the person to blame. |
I hear you man. I think about banging people all the time that I know I never really would. But I wasn't making a blanket statement. I think the greater the seriousness of the relationship and the deeper the personal history between 2 people that are now broken up, the longer it will take to "get over" them. I tossed out the term "a few years" because that's usually enough time for most people to lose their feelings for an ex and at the same time evolve into a different person emotionally/mentally or whatever. And I agree with you that personal responsibility plays a part... I just think in Sylee's case, maybe not enough time has passed between her BF and his ex, combined with them not being together for so long and her admitted insecurities (not a dig at you, Sylee;) )
My thing is just, if he really loves her and knows how she feels, then sacrificing his not-so-distant ex relationship for the good of his current one is not a lot to ask. Maybe he can be totally trusted, but why even put yourself in the situation. It's like when a girl dresses all uber sexy with a micro skirt on and her hanging out at some dive bar, and gets annoyed when the riff raff won't leave her alone. Yeah she didn't "ask for it", but common sense says she should know better than to put herself in that situation if she wants different results |
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| julien2 |
i don't think I can imagine NOT being friends with my current girlfriend...we have so much in common....it would be harder to ignore each other...
edit: then again maybe that's just because i'm with her now... |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by julien2
i don't think I can imagine NOT being friends with my current girlfriend...we have so much in common....it would be harder to ignore each other...
edit: then again maybe that's just because i'm with her now... |
:stongue: light bulb goes off |
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